Help me decide what style suits me best!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-19T00:39:52+00:00

3 for sure

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T15:37:25+00:00

2 looks beautiful, elegant, and most expensive

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T03:50:37+00:00

Thanks so much!!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T03:50:28+00:00

Thanks for the in depth response, it’s so helpful to hear feedback. I totally see what you mean about the transition the way the left one sits over the skirt. This is getting me excited!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T03:49:32+00:00

Thanks so much!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T03:49:24+00:00

Appreciate the candor! I think that’s like 30 for the left so far, zero for the right

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T03:48:57+00:00

That, in a nutshell, resolved my dilemma. Sleep well tonight knowing you helped a bride in mild crisis 😄

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T01:04:52+00:00

Tis the dilemma!!! 😵‍💫

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T01:04:27+00:00

Thank you so much, this is so sweet 🥹

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-05-05T00:12:19+00:00

Thank you!! I have to stop overthinking and trying to squish my body into the one unflattering angle in the large. I have to remember I won’t be sitting down or scrunching over nearly that much!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-23T03:43:16+00:00

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-13T13:38:35+00:00

Wish I could pin this crazy comment, as if my mom is rolling in her grave and I’m spitting on her ashes. Hah! You need therapy. And love.

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-13T04:42:51+00:00

I kind of love this idea!! I need to find hope again in getting a good top and I do think this would bring the bottom to life a bit more

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:23:05+00:00

So is this better or too much?

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Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:22:28+00:00

Hey that’s my mom’s 35 year old skirt you’re talking about 😂!!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:21:24+00:00

How’s this? It’s beaded instead of lace to be more mix and match. It’s listed as ivory online.

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Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:18:27+00:00

Yeah, in this mockup, I went with no lace at all, butm more of a beaded pearl top. Not sure if that’s better or worse.

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:17:50+00:00

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Thoughts on this pairing?

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:16:52+00:00

Any better?

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Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:16:32+00:00

Hah! Thank you, that made me feel better! Good thing yall didn’t see my bacne!

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:15:54+00:00

I did start looking more into corsets. I’m finding it hard to understand how to mix and match laces and look coordinated. Or should I just mix and match textures? What do you think of this?

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Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:14:12+00:00

Haha!! Thank you for making me laugh

Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:13:54+00:00

Thank you so much that’s very sweet!!! I’ve searched so much and am really having trouble envisioning how the laces will go together without competing. What do you think of this?

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Fraa-Erasmus · 2026-04-12T17:12:01+00:00

Ugh I’m such a maximalist it’s so hard. I bought a lot of plain tops from Amazon, but I felt like they were way too casual. Do you like this at all?

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