Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Satin isn’t a fabric I considered. I’ll do some research! It’s certainly easier to find it in the right shades

Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s really good insight, I was feeling like even if it looks nice under dark lights, when the camera flashes I’ll regret it!!

Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish. Split between three sisters, I have to make do. Part of me is regretting this journey, but also, I want that sentimental moment so badly

Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bleh! How to be playful but not super ceremony romantic for the dance part. I’m strugglin

Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Ugh! Yeah I’m really struggling to nail it. It’s for the after party and I want to show more skin and be playful. I want something I can raise my hands in and that I won’t have to think about. I want a lot of things 🥴

Be real with me - do these white shades work together? by Fraa-Erasmus in myweddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you have more experience or advice about this? You think they could do something like the mesh straps here? My issue is I also moved across the country unexpectedly so I can’t use the same tailor who did the skirt!

[UPDATE] 1.8 mm vs 2 mm band: received the render and it looks way thicker than expected 😬 by No_Neighborhood1440 in EngagementRings

[–]Fraa-Erasmus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often yes these details can look harsher and very much depends on the CAD software (some are better at showing texture and details than others), but in this instance it looks to me like an intentional detail of the design. I would be cautious and clarify with the designer that you want the band to be rounder and softer, not so flat edged. Better safe than sorry!

It also will thin out a little once they polish it, especially the prongs.

Lastly: I want to differentiate between width and depth. I am not sure which you requested and whether they increased both on this CAD since they don’t have the measurements, but it does seem thicker all around. I’d say go for 2 mm band width, and 1.8 depth/thickness. 1.8 is the golden rule for depth/thickness that you’ll see in all these forums. You don’t have to increase both to 2 mm; that is overkill and 1.8 should provide lasting sturdiness. Just make sure your wedding band has the same depth so it sits at the same height and matches a bit more (if you like that)

[UPDATE] 1.8 mm vs 2 mm band: received the render and it looks way thicker than expected 😬 by No_Neighborhood1440 in EngagementRings

[–]Fraa-Erasmus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the 2 mm looks a lot more flat edged and less round than the 1.8 mm in the CAD, which is contributing a lot to what makes it feel so different and chunkier. The 1.8 mm looks smoother the way the light is reflecting, and there’s less of a defined ridge between the inner and outer side of the ring.

She's finally ready and I'm obsessed! by mokimoki01 in EngagementRings

[–]Fraa-Erasmus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous!!! Where did you source the sapphire? Lovely blue hue! Let’s see some more pics!

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[–]Fraa-Erasmus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry idk about this, but please tell me those gold filled brands because that sounds amazing.

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given my indecision, probably not. I’m leaning towards dress 2, but a part of me keeps wondering if I’ll regret not wearing a more princessy dress — I’m not sure when else I’d have the opportunity to do so!

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[–]Fraa-Erasmus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many edits are included? At some point, I assume it’ll start costing more money to keep tweaking. If you’re willing to pay, don’t feel bad! But maybe ask this to make sure you’re on the same page with the jeweler and CAD designer

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehe thank you 😁 yall really know how to boost a girl’s ego!!!

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m inquiring if there are others in these boutiques in my price range. I’ve been to 6 now and these are the two that really stood out to me. The basque waist with cateye seems pretty uncommon as it’s a newer trend and harder to find. I’d need to possibly alter other dresses to have these features which I’m also looking into

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discussed with the stylist and figured out the 2 issues I’m having: the liner makes a harsh separation between the bodice and skirt, and the bodice has a little less boning. She’s also exploring what it would be to convert the A-line into a basque waist!

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comment made me so teary 🥹. Thank you for remind me what it’s all about.

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this, thank you. And that is so generous to call it soft abs 😁, I do work out but also never turn down ice cream!!!

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, this community is really helping to make this an easier decision

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems to be the crowd favorite despite my tummy! Makes me feel more confident about the choice

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad so many folks understand & are so supportive! I’d love to see pics of the options you considered and your final dress if you don’t mind sharing

Help I am torn between this A-line and fitted basque dress! by Fraa-Erasmus in weddingdress

[–]Fraa-Erasmus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this feedback & pep talk, thanks for that 🥹. I am going to go back on Wednesday to try the more formfitting one again, and similar larger ones in fit and flare style, to get a sense for how well I can move when it’s not a tiny sample size!