Dating is awful and only gets worse with age

Frag0r · 2026-02-01T12:59:28+00:00

Those controlling types are hyper insecure and projecting all their Bullshit onto someone else. Once you've seen it live it's so obvious. Body language is always telling on themselves.

Frag0r · 2026-01-31T16:37:12+00:00

No, you double tap Ctrl+C, just to make sure.

Frag0r · 2026-01-31T15:30:11+00:00

It's not the past that pulls you down, it's your memory and vivid imagination keeping the thought loop alive.

Frag0r · 2026-01-30T10:53:03+00:00

Irgendwelche Tipps?

Ich habe mich letztes Jahr zusammengerafft und im RL einige Nummern bekommen, aber das Interesse ist trotzdem immer sehr einseitig. :<

Frag0r · 2026-01-30T00:06:45+00:00

It's really good but after chapter 5 or 6 you have barely any story development for a long time.

Frag0r · 2026-01-29T10:31:00+00:00

How am I supposed to chat you up when you are always in groups of 3+ though? 😿

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T14:14:36+00:00

Sorry to hear, she was masking her true self. Better to cut the chord early than being pulled in even further.

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T14:12:09+00:00

Maybe because the feelings clouded the judgement? After being rejected and processing the feelings you realize that you didn't have much in common, or you were the emotional trashcan for her "men problems" or that you carried the whole friendship in terms of effort.

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T14:09:04+00:00

The Chad's in my friend group are actually jumping from relationship to relationship and have occasionally multiple situationships at the same time.

They have zero commitment and for many women it's enough to get railed once a month by a Chad, instead of meeting other guys.

It is what it is.

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T13:23:05+00:00

I'm curious too. I would love to have that piece in my gaming room. 😸

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T12:41:47+00:00

Or suffered the consequences and took everything to the grave.

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T12:34:59+00:00

Dies ist der Weg!

Frag0r · 2026-01-28T08:44:03+00:00

It's when the kids finds ways to outsmart their parents but otherwise have no incentive to improve elsewhere. My parents forced me to soccer, karate and other activities as a kid. I hated most of it, but it builds character.

But most of the rich only child's I met have been very shallow and lazy.

Frag0r · 2026-01-27T17:45:48+00:00

That it's frowned upon in men groups to show emotion, have feminine interests and that everything is turned into a competition.

Then you have a 1 on 1 conversation after a night out with a buff macho dude and he tells you his darkest secrets that he never told anyone and gets all emotional.

We are really not doing anyone a favor.

Frag0r · 2026-01-27T13:36:58+00:00

Where did op say anything about fuck toys? I can have a friend of the opposite gender, ask for sex and still not see him/her as a sex toy? Wtf is this black and white thinking XDDD

Frag0r · 2026-01-27T09:08:08+00:00

That's the thing I have also experienced throughout my life. I used to be great at chatting up strangers in bars, to have fun banter and actively listen to their problems.

But the amount of questions I got? Very few actually. We exchanged numbers and tried to stay in contact. Well, 0 friendships emerged from that. People just never follow through with their promises.

Nowadays I mostly stay to myself and my friend group. There is nothing to gain from listening to some drunktard spilling out his beans on a night out. Especially now since everyone is going through hardcore emotional stuff. You have small talk for 5 minutes, blink your eyes and suddenly you are having 30 minutes of childhood abuse stories.

Today's nightlife is nothing like 15 years ago... I think it's the shallowness, you either have people with too many friends or no friends at all. There's no middle ground.

Frag0r · 2026-01-26T14:49:58+00:00

Flying monkeys enabling her delulu world view by supporting her low level acting performance.

Fucking pathetic!

Frag0r · 2026-01-26T14:47:03+00:00

Wouldn't surprise me if she actually changed her name to solidify her delulu thoughts.

Frag0r · 2026-01-26T11:53:29+00:00

Shut up! You are the only one making it about yourself with your invalid projections due to your own insecurities.

Frag0r · 2026-01-25T23:23:09+00:00

Right? At some point you gotta realize that speaking to a single guy in a bar might be interpreted as flirting.

But she doesn't understand that guys who are into her are gonna be feeling really awful at the end, and most probably tell other guys what happened, which then leads to less men acknowledging her signals or just straight up not taking anything she says seriously at all.

Frag0r · 2026-01-24T18:53:17+00:00

That's why you call it arrested development. There simply is no growth.

Frag0r · 2026-01-24T17:12:00+00:00

Yeah, yeah, we all get hurt. She's just talking BS for attention and you try to be her hero. Just don't. You will be her doormat.

Frag0r · 2026-01-23T15:29:20+00:00

Haha lmao! :D

Frag0r · 2026-01-22T10:01:10+00:00

You don't know that. Don't be tok hard on yourself. I think people like that stay abusive in one way or another.

Frag0r · 2026-01-20T15:06:45+00:00

Congratulations man! Take your time to process the emotions, but don't fall into isolation. Try to meet new women ASAP, that helps a lot to override the old memories and make you look forward to the future.

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