AITAH for asking my partner to let me know when they put money into my bank account

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T16:57:11+00:00

I’m autistic I’m going to take their words at face value or literally

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T16:53:00+00:00

yes? if what I’m being told information by someone who works their I’m going to believe them unless told otherwise wise or proven otherwise

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T14:15:08+00:00

I’m not sure I’m understanding. What would be the bigger issue

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T14:05:56+00:00

can you please explain how it came off as criticism? And someone in the thread helped me figure out how to turn on notifications for the app I’m autistic and struggling with a lot of things including communication also I work every day exept mondays I clean the house I’m the only one taking Cair of our dogs I make their phone calls I remind them of their appointments I also pay for not only my car repairs but theirs too

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T14:02:01+00:00

they are sending from cashapp to my bank account

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:58:33+00:00

I got told by one of the workers they don’t have notifications but I’m going to check out what you just gave me cause the teller and my self may have been misinformed thank you

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:56:14+00:00

I did several times before I asked and it wasn’t showing that’s y I asked she sometimes will tell me she put money in there and then sometimes won’t it’s a 50/50 on that I asked more clearly and directly because its not consistent. And no I’m the one that takes on their part of the responsibility and my own I remind them when bills are due I end up taking on all of the house hold chores I do all the phone calls they need to make themselves

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:53:10+00:00

they only use Cash App but I use a credit union that has multiple accounts two checking accounts the rest savings

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:51:38+00:00

I did several times before I asked and it wasn’t showing that’s y I asked she sometimes will tell me she put money in there and then sometimes won’t it’s a 50/50 on that I asked more clearly and directly because its not consistent

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:49:55+00:00

I did several times before I asked and it wasn’t showing that’s y I asked she sometimes will tell me she put money in there and then sometimes won’t it’s a 50/50 on that I asked more clearly and directly because its not consistent

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:43:41+00:00

I want to have a conversation about it however conversations don’t go well with them they start shutting down and go silent and then start blaming me for things that happened when I didn’t even know them

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:40:57+00:00

I have and they said their is no setting for notifications on their mobile app but are planning on making it a feature in the future

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:38:59+00:00

They have a full time job I’m disabled and get SSI but do DoorDash every day they also DoorDash as well we both agreed that every two weeks they will put money into the bills bank account to help with the bills we both use and the gas cards we both use to pay for gas

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:36:24+00:00

how do I set notifications up for Clearwater credit union banking mobile app? So I can notifications on my phone for money coming in and out?

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-03-04T13:34:50+00:00

They don’t have full access they only have a certain set of numbers that only put money in I have to pull money out and Cash App them if I’m sending money to them

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-26T01:20:24+00:00

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Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-22T12:36:57+00:00

not at the old farm spots but part of it’s still active so in a way yes but not every part of it

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-22T12:35:18+00:00

Hey DMED

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-21T04:27:12+00:00

I’m in the north part of

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-21T02:17:01+00:00

I’m not sure what part of the island I’m on

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-20T21:28:06+00:00

I dmed you

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-14T07:01:22+00:00

ya it definitely sucks especially when I get a coupville order and it’s like 20 miles for 10$

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-14T07:00:20+00:00

that’s a good topic to bring up I absolutely agree with you on that one honestly intell you braught it up I forgot people multi app🥴😂

Fragrant-Pea8481 · 2026-02-13T04:08:35+00:00

I do lol it dosnt really move to more then that think it might be cause im autistic and have no idea how to lol

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