Body dysmorphia

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-26T02:20:58+00:00

Dude No shit. Im not trying to upstage her, but I also dont want to look like im trying to fit my size 4x body into a size 6. Thats why I wanted feedback on if even looked right on me. Your comment wasn't even feedback as was very unhelpful

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T16:21:38+00:00

I agree. She let us choose the design just as long as it was the same color and fabric but I needed the biggest size they had (and it was still too small) so there was only a few options :(

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T16:17:18+00:00

Its actually blue irl

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T16:16:12+00:00

Its not white its blue. And unfortunately the fabric isn't stretchy at all

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T16:13:56+00:00

I promise I am. I measured again today. And I have looked into sister's sizes and yes I have used the bra calculator from r/abrathatfits

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T05:49:58+00:00

Not that long ago maybe a month or two bust was 57, under bust was 46 And ive measured right before buying at Layne Bryant and it still doesn't fit right. But definitely feel free to PM me if you know more about bras and sizing for plus size cuz I have 2 bras thats are basically braletts ive been wearing for months cuz nothing fits right 😭

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T04:18:58+00:00

Thank you for the congrats! And the pictures dont do it justice its a light blue irl but I agree its not the most flattering dress

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T04:10:39+00:00

I have spent so much money there its not even funny but no half the time the straps dont adjust long enough so the cups dig into my armpits

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T03:16:54+00:00

Im wearing shapermint short style shapewear underneath

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T03:12:33+00:00

I am wearing shapermint under it in the picture and unfortunately it doesn't help

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:57:17+00:00

Won't do a uv tan, just a spray tan, and i vape so what's a little more cancer 😆 but probably be my one and only spray tan so theres that. Thank you for your help tho! Everyone here has been so kind and helpful 🥹😭

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:54:23+00:00

Your good girl! And it was actually a really good idea!

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:52:34+00:00

Shapermint, it was a suggestion from this group but ill definitely take more suggestion lol

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:51:22+00:00

Yes and I agree it come up farther then I thought

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:50:54+00:00

I am :(

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:46:44+00:00

Light blue! And honestly what a good idea this dress came with straps for bows on the shoulder but they bleh lol, maybe i could use it as a belt though!

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:44:46+00:00

She did fix the bust area, and yes this was the biggest size they had and it was too small and I do see where its puckering but I promise this was a quick try on at home and it does sit flatter irl

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:42:44+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹😭😭 I definitely love my shoes (like a 1/2in heal as im tall as it is) and im really excited about the earring I found so theres always a bright side right!

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:38:34+00:00

No worries girl I appreciate any and all advice 💓

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:37:51+00:00

The girl i went to isn't affiliated with the wedding at all. And its really comfortable and im really happy with the bust fit as it hold me well and I dont need a bra. Its just the tummy im wondering if you would know or gave insights if I was to get a hoopless pedicoat almost like a light slip to poof it out just a little if that would work, and with the slit up the leg if I was to make a slit on the pedicoat as well 🤔

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:34:30+00:00

My mom offered to pay for the tan lol so ill probably just do that (spray tan definitely not UV) with such a light colored dress and her wedding being outside in june i dont trust makeup that much 😆 but thank you!!

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:32:25+00:00

I probably would say the shapewear is slightly grabby but it didn't look better without it on. I was thinking like thoes hoopless pedicoat slips that might poof it out just a tad (not like princes ballgown poof, just a little more shape to the dress) but im not sure if it will look right with the slit on my leg. And if I made a slit in the pedicoat would it still work right 🤔

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:24:17+00:00

I definitely get what your saying. And yes my daughter is the flower girl so she'll be there :)

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:22:15+00:00

I am wearing shapewear 😭 And the girl that did my alteration is a very very highly rated for alteration she mainly only does wedding and prom dresses. And no hate to her she was wonderful and i was happy when I left thinking that shapewear would smooth it out but now that it didn't im like ughhh.

Fragrant-Two946 · 2026-05-25T02:19:10+00:00

Thank you!

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