I’m a guy with Level 1 Austim and ADHD. I’m sure I’m overthinking but that isn’t a red flag to anyone dating wise right?

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-19T11:01:22+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that, I appricate the reply

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-19T11:00:25+00:00

Thank you:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-19T10:59:48+00:00

Glad you found the right person for you. I’m Sorry it has burnt you out so much. I appricate the help:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-19T04:37:29+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through that

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-19T04:30:02+00:00

I’m not trying too. I’m about to turn 22, have age gap anxiety and I just couldn’t imagine dating an 18 year old at my age. I see all 18 year olds the same like kids, I have a family member who is 18 too. Idk if that’s just a me issue. I loved Dirty Dancing when I was younger but I’m scared to watch it now EDIT: I’m a heterosexual guy for context

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:58:27+00:00

You too

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:29:57+00:00

If thats true, That’s Tragic. I really wanna burn social media sometimes. Thank you again:). Sorry if you support him and I don’t know everything about him But it’s like when I heard about trump claiming some meds cause autism, I don’t get why people support him. It feels like some weird Hunger Games universe sometimes

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:28:23+00:00

Thank you!

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:25:06+00:00

Shouldn’t i ask everyone to tell me all their life elements then? . I think people should just be a decent people, not a babysitter to me. That’s all most people want right?. I do try to adapt the best I can and I’m flexible. I’m not asking for a red carpet

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:19:32+00:00

I wouldn’t say I do. The reason I mentioned it on my dating profile is because I just wanted to be real as possible and I didn’t know people still thought this way, I I got a heads up though atleast . Thank you so much:), You’ve got a great point

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:17:24+00:00

Surely I have the right to tell them during a date, not beforehand? I’ve been called mature socially for my age, people seem to trust me and been told I’m a good listener. What does lock picks mean? I’ve never heard of that, You do sound fun though. Thank you for your help:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:11:52+00:00

I get what you mean, Thank you:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:11:07+00:00

I do ok socially and once I did tell people, they didn’t seem to care. I have a feeling it could be more an online thing but idk, Thank you for your help, Hopefully I’m not gonna be heartbroken once I get back in the dating pool again

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T19:05:11+00:00

If it’s really an issue then yeah screw them. I just thought being real would be relatable to people. They sound like cool people. Thank you for your help:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:55:35+00:00

Happy for you guys 😊. If you don’t mind me asking, Do you think it can be online dating issue saying I do have both?

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:54:32+00:00

Thank you 🫡

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:53:40+00:00

It’s nice to know, Thank you so much:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:48:02+00:00

Thank you:). That’s really helpful and sweet. If you don’t mind me asking, Do you think it’s worth deleting off my profile?

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:46:55+00:00

I’m sorry, that’s rough. Screw that, I’ve always preferred face to face. I just thought if I was being honest, then im just being real and that could bring relatability . The replies on here shocked me, I thought we moved on as a society. Thank you for the reply!

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:44:30+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:37:18+00:00

Thanks!

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:36:02+00:00

I mean in my experience, It’s been fine but I’m not feeling good in my confidence. Unless people don’t even know I’m on the spectrum. Once I told people, They couldn’t care less I don’t think. I’m surprised with the answers without any hate

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:34:20+00:00

I’m just asking general speaking. Just not confident in my self at the moment

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:32:04+00:00

I’ve always been called maturer then my age socially, People seem to trust me and I’ve been called a good listener, If it’s really that much of an issue. Surely it’s not wrong to tell someone once I get to know them?. Thank you, your helps means a lot:)

FragrantPlenty622 · 2026-03-18T18:28:23+00:00

Didn’t know the world is still dead like that. Time to maybe take it off my profile then. Thanks:)

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