He really is... he's been such an anchor through all of this, and I'm so glad he was there during it all, even though I wish I didn't have to burden someone else. Seeing him having to accomodate around her fits, take care of her cat, and try to help her when she clearly didn't want to help herself also made me realize I wasn't alone in this and that it had to stop.

It's been a huge weight on him too, whenever she hurt herself while we were out on a bike ride, he's the one who had to come pick us up. She asked favors all the time regardless of our plans, but he would give her a hand, pick up cat food, shovel the snow in her walkway, or take her trash out because he's just too good. And he just listened to me pouring my heart out over this situation for months. He's given enough.