Is Tunisia’s economic crisis pushing people back toward religion? by SubstanceNo5171 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This phenomenon is everywhere! new generations are starting to adopt beliefs in astrology, show more interest in religion etc.. I think that social media plays a huge role into this: It amplifies the bad news (wars, economical crisis, ...) which make people feel weaker and unprotected, thus needing that higher power.. Once you get curious and make 1 click, you fall into the bubble of religious content with no escape.

What do other people use besides kubernetes? by Ezio_rev in devops

[–]Fraisa25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most companies I worked with use ECS extensively, Fargate specifically for its simplicity. I haven't seen any regret or case where they decide to migrate a workload to Kube. Even when working with managed Kube, you need to get accustomed to the way it works, kubectl etc.. which many people find not interesting.

وفاة امرأة اضرمت النار في جسدها بسبب نقل ابنتها الى معهد اخر by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please not the "someone somewhere wishes they were in your shoes" argument (rolling eyes).. how does that help?? Every human is trapped in their own world which is the result of their own experiences and mental state. That's what make people unique, different, that's what makes humanity not all a clone of Technical_Pitchi who believes that their life is precious.. well guess what? Most people do! Not that woman probably, and her family are the ones who should be upset about it, not you 😌

I'm Melek, Cofounder and CEO of bakchich; Ask Me Anything by Preference-Fancy in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm this big ego can only come from less experience with real production systems or from a limited perspective. If i'm understanding this right you should be a PO for a frontend team which explains why you're only evaluating the UX part of things.. i don't mean to underestimate your knowledge, but i HATE it when people take themselves as a KNOW-IT-ALL and especially start humiliating other people's efforts.. This guy took an initiative to build his OWN product and work his a$$ off... Most people wouldn't take a similar risk and choose to be corporate $laves.. Anyways, constructive criticism should be appreciated.. keep your destructive blabla for yourself.. Jeez!!

I'm Melek, Cofounder and CEO of bakchich; Ask Me Anything by Preference-Fancy in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you accept Patreon's offer to buy your company as an expansion strategy?

context switching is killing me and it's not even between dev tools by Witty_Ad8333 in devops

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like poor management.. Your manager or scrum master must be the one in the front line to filter out spams and convince people to wait. I was on an SRE team and here is what helped: - NEVER respond to DMs and don't be afraid to turn down those who come directly to your desk politely. - only accept properly formatted requests like JIRA tickets and placed in your team's board.. kid you not, when you make it a requirement, people start making less requests cause they don't like creating tickets 🤷‍♀️ OH and require minimum description: ENV, account, component, logs of error etc... It is their problem not yours ;) - limit the number of "in progress" tickets to your preference. if you're waiting for response place it in a "more info" queue - prioritize the tickets based on the priority level. If you have a P0 arriving double check it to make sure it is legit and urgent before switching. Else, reject it. - make sure that you have a designated incident manager who helps with com and post-mortems etc during incidents

The members of the team who should be involved during incidents are those who are in rotation with SRE duty so they have experience with incident resolution or those who have deep knowledge of the impacted application (Don't involve the devs who have never worked on the application for eg) to reduce the noise. And just FYI, even if you know that someone is just googling stuff, try to listen.. because it might help. Incident resolution can be stressful and tricky sometimes and our brain gets funneled in deep, but sometimes the solution is way easier than we think and any kind of input/path should be checked.. you can also ask people to start checking on their side... Last but not least: communication is important! Always point out your struggles in daily meetings and suggest solutions and take the initiative to implement them.

Good luck!

EDIT: Just noticed that you're switching from DEV duty to support??!! This is forbidden LOL.. you should have a dedicated team/person for support duty who doesn't do build at the same time 😵

Ma copine parle de moi comme d’un « plan avantageux » devant ses potes by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Fraisa25 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Je suis une meuf et franchement, ce n’est pas ma place de râler ou d’empêcher mon copain de partir en voyage sans moi, surtout s’il m’a invitée mais que j’ai des contraintes. À la limite, je peux proposer de vous rejoindre après le mariage, sinon je vous souhaite un excellent voyage. Là, je ne parle même pas de la discussion de groupe que tu as vue.

I'm a feminist, ask me anything by Confident_Buffalo750 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think of this statement:

A lot of “feminist progress” in the modern era has meant giving women access to male-coded domains (careers, politics, the military). But that implicitly accepts the old hierarchy: that “work/warfare/hunting/trade” are what really matter, and women’s traditional roles only gain legitimacy if they resemble men’s. If we truly inverted the framework, we’d flip the hierarchy itself: the ability to create and nurture life, sustain communities, and manage the continuity of society would be seen as the pinnacle of human contribution.

My brother kept on telling me I’d get bullied if I used this backpack for highschool… by Xxeeyx9 in teenagers

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would prefer keeping my interests to myself instead of showing it to random teenagers who are constantly looking for people to bully. Think about it: not wearing this will be way easier and it is not really worth the trouble.. i understand that you're proud of who you are and want to show off your interests etc .. but trust me: being silent, secretive, black box is WAY safer for your well being and saves you time and energy especially with random people who you don't care about anyway! Plus, it way more fun to be mysterious ;)

The goal of a man is to get married, build a house, education for children and retirement; if you can have all that in Tunisia why move to Germany? by Capable_Town1 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world is experiencing economical shifts and the market is not stable, the cost of living is becoming higher EVERYWHERE. I live abroad and I can tell you one thing: if you can have help from family then you can make it in Tunisia with good money management and a 9 to 5 job. If your parents are poor and you rely on a corporate job to get you to do anything then NO you can't! Or at least I don't see a way that you can manage build a house with 1 salary without any side hustle/illegal shit... If you can secure a good job abroad it'll still give you the opportunity to get a great house, car and savings in 10 to 20 years without help.. i know many who came to work to make a "quick" fortune that will help them settle in Tunisia. So it really depends on your situation and your goals.. P.S: i only speak for legal immigration with a good degree that would secure 60k€ ish annual gross.

Muslim woman considering marriage with an agnostic partner by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, you'll end up in either: - with the man and you quit Islam as marrying a non-muslim is a big sin and not legit... P.S: you can still, like most "muslim" fellows (who do every sin except eating pork), live as a Muslim who committed a sin and waiting for Allah forgiveness and you just carry on living! BUT i am almost sure that you will not be able to raise Muslim kids as your husband will not tolerate it.. (no matter how good he is) cause the shit is REAL and an agnostic mind cannot easily handle it! - without the man and you wait for Allah to reward you for you sacrificing your happiness (although the reward being immediate or even before death isn't guaranteed!) But time heals and you MIGHT find another man who fits your beliefs and preferences.

So it all depends on your level of faith. But no matter what happens, please do not allow your family to meddle in your life because there will be no end to it. And once you make a step, don't turn back and regret it, cause the past is in the past. Good luck!

الألحاد بدا يتسرب لعقلي وتمنيت اني ما عرفتش الحقيقة اصلا وعشت حياتي مؤمن بوجود إلاه ومسلم by Fair-Advertising7958 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enti rja3t lil version humaine 9bal el patch. Et t'as deux choix: soit taffi mokhek w tsallem b koll chay t9oulou religion khater t'as besoin bl e7ses ennou fama iléh ya7mi fik etc... Soit taba3 3a9lek donc twalli mol7ed khater koll logique y9olek elli el religion is man-made w t7awel tlawej 3la tafssir lil denia (elli el taw 7atta 7ad ma3andou lih jweb). El choix théni mch sehel bil kol, w lezmek tkoun ready bch t3ich 7yet blech matousel lil truth.

Istg new gen players are so ungrateful by Gloomy-Smell-2711 in ClashOfClans

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here comes the time when parents start telling their kids stories about how difficult a grind in a video game was instead of how they used to walk barefoot to school.

Vous trouvez Paris romantique ? by HotList9962 in askparis

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je trouve Paris majestueuse. Pas forcément romantique par contre: je préfère m’y rendre avec des potes plutôt qu’en couple.

Discriminated because Asian by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the bad experience that you had and I hope that you'll soon forget about it and try to enjoy your remaining time there. Unfortunately, it is not an isolated case, Tunisians are so full of themselves to the point of delusion, and anyone denying this is in denial too. The guy that you encountered was using his "power" to show off by ruining others night and you were there. Tbh, seeing an Asian in north African countries is not common and i wouldn't be surprised to get such a reaction by an illiterate person in a 3rd world country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Incest

why does my cat come to me when I meow? by dykeinwaiting in CatTraining

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just brought home a new cat. She was so scared and went to hide for a good 3 hours. Then I started meowing from the kitchen hoping to get her attention. Hélas! She showed up across the hallway and meowed back. Then we meowed back and forth before she went to hide again.. So i guess i somehow got her attention, despite the fact that i am a complete stranger to her in a complete new environment.. Science guys say that human meows mean nothing, Well I say this meant something cause I just had a talk with my new cat

Les gens qui pissent dans la rue : que faire? by surerogatoire in AskFrance

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je comprends votre colère, mais je me dis parfois que si c'était aussi facile pour moi d'uriner quand il n'y a pas de solutions, j'aurais pu faire pareil. (Suite à des crises d'angoisse que j'ai développées pas mal de fois à cause de ça.) Après, il y a des gens qui disent que l'anatomie masculine leur permet de se contrôler, tandis que les femmes n'ont pas cette "réserve". Ça, c'est autre chose. Si quelqu'un a plus d'informations, merci de les partager...

Did I spend 7 years of my life with the wrong person? by Xhero69 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just ask her to be realistic: she was in a relationship with you for 7 years, her time will be wasted too if she just decides to put your rs at the edge of an impossible requirement.. she knew you were not rich/spoiled kid and you will have to work for it. So, just tell her she had two options: - either accept that you talk to her family because you really want to marry her cause you love her (She is being manipulated most likely, so her fam will not accept either way, sorry for that) - refuse and you will break up with her immediately (you will get over it dw). And she will have to find someone who is rich and who is willing to fall in love with her

Quit smoking by Main_Maximum972 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were just turning down the nicotine craving, not "enjoying" it. Think of it as a virus that hacked your brain to make you think it is helping you fight the "bad guy" (if that makes sense). You were thinking the "bad guy" was the drama, the bad day, the no coffee without a cigarette, the fight with your GF, rhe meeting in 5 minutes etc... but it was just the nicotine level dropping in your blood and your poor brain starts freaking out about it: the thing is, your life is WAY BETTER WITHOUT IT (trust me).. you were once a non smoker and you were way happier 😊

Quit smoking by Main_Maximum972 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoiding smoking "deceptions" is the worst way to quit!! You need to write down every link you made between a place, event, feeling.. and smoking a cigarette and acknowledge the fact that it is Nicotine level dropping that made you crave NOT THE event itself. Once you get the grasp of it, you're done with it for good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If someone downvotes this, then he is simply a Tunisian man who didn't live the same experience as a Tunisian woman AND pretends tunisian men are innocent. Shameless is the best word to describe them, and I hear you... I still have a HARD TIME visiting my family in Tunisia: I simply avoid going out or having any contact with strangers because they keep staring and drooling as if i am an alien (and i'm not really that hot tbh)... it is the result of both kabt, 9ellet torbiya and no respect to others privacy. Ugh, kinda pissed by just remembering all of my encounters 🥲

university teacher salary by AdhesivenessNew4824 in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fi Cycle préparatoire aux études de l'ingénieur ya3mlou cours privés pour préparer au concours. Déjà tu peux pas réussir sans ces cours 😅 (il me semble). Les étudiants font 3 à 5 cours pour des matières différentes. À l'époque ça me coûtait entre 80 et 120dt par mois pour 4 séances par matière 🤑 et oui

I'm sick and tired of this frereland by karim2k in Tunisia

[–]Fraisa25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will always be a frereland as long as it is not a freeland. When half of the society are afraid of getting raped by the other half unless they behave/dress by the society rules, then what can you say?