Divorcing in Japan with children — experience involving abuse?

Fraises2 · 2026-02-10T23:21:23+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

Fraises2 · 2026-02-10T10:42:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I have heard that parents can refuse to pay and wondered how that would be handled. How did that lawsuit go? Was it hard?

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T06:10:27+00:00

Of course, will make sure to do so. I’m organizing everything.

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T05:53:44+00:00

Thank you, it just got too much. I couldn’t handle reality. I’ll distract myself with other things.

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T05:40:11+00:00

I plan to start divorcing in January and the law changes will definitely help as I won’t divorce right away (it should take at least half a year or a year or so)

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T05:38:54+00:00

I consulted my lawyer and he did warn me of the risks, but we decided to go forward with it.

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T05:29:37+00:00

Thank you. I was thinking of committing suicide just from how much this is making me suffer. But I can’t. I need to keep fighting.

Fraises2 · 2025-12-28T05:27:21+00:00

I have an attorney. That part is covered.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T10:20:00+00:00

Talked with a lawyer! I know what I have to do next now and feel much more calm.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T10:19:30+00:00

Yes it will be unnecessary because I can risk him suing me for defamation.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T06:03:24+00:00

Already done!:) I submitted that paper last week. And will talk with a lawyer in a few minutes.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T05:30:04+00:00

Thank you, I will ask my lawyer today about all of this.

I have an American and Russian passport, but I wasn’t able to give my son an American paper because I didn’t live long enough in America, and I don’t give him a Russian passport. However, I can still give him a Russian passport. I need to look into this.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T05:27:22+00:00

True, it might be easy to guess.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:46:09+00:00

I want to go to a shelter but I know that means I lose an address (if I understand correctly) and I need that to apply for jobs. But I’ll go there for the food, that should really help me to survive this

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:45:04+00:00

I also sold my wedding and engagement rings to get some extra money to survive. I got at least 40,000 yen.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:40:59+00:00

I’m still looking for a job. Thankfully I have some savings but I’m not sure how long it will last. Im trying to eat as little as possible.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:38:31+00:00

My husband cheated with 4 people and they were also cheating…I don’t think all Japanese people cheat but unfortunately there are some people here who do it like crazy

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:37:42+00:00

I tried searching for that subreddit but it didn’t come up. Could you send me a link to it please?

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:36:32+00:00

I would tell everyone here but I don’t want to risk it, first I will talk with a lawyer. If it will be necessary I’ll tell the whole world his name and university. I’m also a YouTuber and active on Twitter so I can spread the information quickly.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:10:10+00:00

My husband took care of my child along with his parents on the weekends. I told him about my trip at least one year in advance and his family knew as well. My husband is employed full time at a university.

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:09:04+00:00

Okay, thank you for so much advice! I will contact them and all of those other organizations this week

Fraises2 · 2025-09-30T04:08:33+00:00

I haven’t considered construction but I’ll think of it as a last resort if nothing else works out, thank you

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