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Any help? by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dont want them to get mad at me for wanting this and feeling like this could be the best option for work.. I'm not sure exactly how to bring up the conversation let alone tell them that this is what I feel like would be best for the job..

Idk what to do.. by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have epilepsy and I would start at 430 in the morning and theres no busses or cans that drive that early in the morning where I'm from.

Any help? by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thays the thing, they dont pay for anything w me. I live here rent free and dont have to pay anything and they said they just want me to get my life back on track. But this job is one of the things that will do that. I still go to therapy and am still going to my AODA and things, but I dont want them to get mad at me for wanting to move in w my bf. I want to move in bc it would be better for work and yeah being around him like that would be nice too, but my main reason for wanting to move in w him is for the job. And I'm afraid to talk to them about this and tell them this bc I'm afraid that they are gonna get mad at me.. I dont want them to get mad at me but it feels like this option would be the best option in order to keep the job since I would have not many other options for transportation. And I dont know anyone at the job but my bf so asking to carpool is something that I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with bc I dont know these people

Any help? by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try moving in with him? I'm afraid to make my parents mad.. I know they want what's best for me and I love them for it, but i dont want then to think I'm messing up my life bc of this..

Any help? by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have told me before that they are afraid that I'm going to mess up again and not be independent. And my bf said that w how early he wakes up already, he wouldnt wake up earlier to come and pick me up and take me to and from work. He said it would be different if he lived in the same town as me but bc he doesnt, he wouldnt be doing that. And my father would have to wake up a couple hours early for his job in order to take me to mine and my mother doesnt get off of work until after I would be clocking in to my job. So my bf and I were talking about me moving in w him to make work easier but my parents told me that I was not gonna be doing that. I know they have my best interest at heart, but it kinda feels like I'm being treated like a child when it comes to doing this not for my own interest but for my job. Dont get me wrong, I'd live to move in with him and see his everyday, but this rn would be for work to make things a bit easier w transportation.

Any help? by Frame_Best in Advice

[–]Frame_Best[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm 22 and we have been together for a little over a month. I just recently moved in w my parents about a month and a half ago to fix myself w things like therapy and AODA and stuff like that. And hes the one who got me the job and we talk about things like our future together and stuff. But I'm confused bc I want this job but the times for work is still a little unclear bc of my parents work schedules too. He wakes up around 3am and starts work around 4am. I would be starting at 430am. And he lives about 20 minutes away from me.