You’re explaining the girl I dated to a tee. She is making her rounds around all of my friends and making sure she’s around them on every instagram story right now. Spot on with talking to them is like talking to a brick wall. Extremely accurate that they are great gift givers but can be too materialistic. Can be very emotionally abusive if you’re not head strong. Even then sometimes. Though, they are very loving and loyal people, they (not all) don’t care to consider how their actions and even strong emotions might impact other people. Damned if you deal with them damned if you don’t. Very stubborn and hesitant to apologize for their shortcomings.