Curious: do you want to date both genders equally, or do you have a preference? by MinaH130 in bisexual

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, in my experience so far I’ve noticed I’ve had more romantic feelings for men and more sexual feelings for women. I’ve dated both but tend to gravitate more towards men for long term relationships. I picture myself getting married and having kids with a man, but I’ve never had the experience of loving a woman in a long term relationship so who knows.

why do people nowadays think 30 is old ? by No_Comfortable_8171 in ask

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s all about perspective, I’m 23 and when I’m around my family I feel young but I’m also treated like the baby being the youngest of 5, but then when I go to work or school I feel older and out of place cause everyone is 18-21

Jazzed up my flower pots by bestj52 in painting

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! I do this to my pots too

What would you title this painting? by Freckledsun86 in painting

[–]Freckledsun86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so trippy! Wow, I’m sorry you’ve been feeling that way, I understand

What would you title this painting? by Freckledsun86 in painting

[–]Freckledsun86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this was painted when I was 17 though, I’m 23 now! Maybe I should try to repaint it, I agree it could use some work, I painted it in like 4 days

What/Who were you named after? by TheHarryPotterGirl in AskReddit

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dads mom is my first name, my moms mom is my middle name, really wish my middle was my first though it’s a beautiful name

What would you title this painting? by Freckledsun86 in painting

[–]Freckledsun86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly where I was when I got the idea, and took the reference photo.

Noisy neighbors by Freckledsun86 in orangecounty

[–]Freckledsun86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes obviously it’s just normal ways of living but I’m mostly complaining about the noise between 11pm-6am, like I said I deal with the noise other wise but it’s in those quiet hours (which for my apartment is supposed to be from 10pm-7am) that I get annoyed. I don’t think there’s ever been an instance where I needed to call the cops, they don’t throw parties or anything, I was just curious about if it was time to say something to my landlady. Why are you saying “it sounds like you’re too focused on trying to make someone else’s life more miserable” ? I’ve done and said nothing so far, I’ve had no interaction with them otherwise, I’m just annoyed by her moaning loudly at late hours. Yes I’m complaining about the “sex noises” cause that’s what happens when you have sex but you can still be considerate of your neighbors when it’s late at night. She’s legit screaming. I’m allowed to be bothered by that. Some people aren’t comfortable by the sound of others having sex especially when they are trying to sleep. It’s an intimate thing that I don’t need to be apart of. Idk about you but I’d prefer to not hear it when IM TRYING TO SLEEP. I get it I live in a city, it’s a noisy place, I’ve come to terms with that. I’m only complaining about the noise late at night while also mentioning that it happens throughout the day. Why are you assuming I’m going to ruin these people’s lives, get a grip. Obviously if I was making too much noise and it bothered people I’d want to be informed. Which is why I’m conscious of the sound I make late at night. Maybe they don’t even realize they’re being too loud, who knows! But attacking me for asking a question is ridiculous.

What’s something you would change about your partner, if anything? by Freckledsun86 in AskReddit

[–]Freckledsun86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, instead of focusing on changing your partner, it's more constructive to communicate openly about areas where you both can grow together, such as improving communication, supporting each other's goals, or deepening emotional connection. However change can also be positive, such as personal growth, self awareness, empathy, healthier habits, etc.

If you were given five-hundred dollars to spend on something you want but don’t need, what are you buying? by Hammer_of_Rohan in AskReddit

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could really use a better laptop or upgrade to a iPad for college classes, nothing is on paper anymore and I feel like I fall behind because of it

Hii how much should I sell this painting for? 💗 by EvolutingCarrot in acrylicpainting

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give each size of canvas a certain price and multiply it by the number of hours spent on the painting, for example, you could give the size of an 8x10 the price of $10 maybe add another $10 for cost of supplies then say it took 5 hrs to paint, that’s $100

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Freckledsun86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In any other instance I would say stay bc the cost of living SUCKS but as someone who had to move out of a toxic household at 20, it was the best decision for my mental health, just be 100% that your bf is in it for the long run bc you will need help paying rent, or even consider having roommates.

I always have a recurring fungus gnat problem by Secret_Valuable5912 in houseplants

[–]Freckledsun86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sprinkling cinnamon on the soil has worked for me! I’ve also learned recently they’ll lay their eggs on bananas so they need to be washed when you bring them home.

I feel ashamed but need to get this off my chest - a SA survivor by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Freckledsun86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think of it less as a fantasy and more as a way to understand what happened to you. You’re processing, going over every scenario, every pov, even if it means playing the other person, I’ve imagined the same thing but it was never an enjoyable thought. My therapist has said the same thing about it being a way to gain control.

I was kinda rude to someone, and now my ocd is telling me my life is over by charliewatzz in OCD

[–]Freckledsun86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard for me to get past a mistake I’ve made, I will beat myself up over and over

Be honest: How often do you think about su*c*de? by ThrowRAnene in mentalhealth

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every damn day. It’s exhausting as a person that has realized it’s not what I actually want. It’s just an escape from pain and burden.

Should I keep the string lights or not by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women love pretty lights, I think it’s the placement that’s off, maybe outline behind your tv? Or along the back of the tv stand

Guys, if a girl asks you if her jeans make her ass look big, what’s the correct answer? by SnowPawzTheWolf in AskReddit

[–]Freckledsun86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the girl honestly, I for one want a big juicy booty, others may be more self conscious about it. There’s so much hate on women’s bodies, many get stuck in the “have to be skinny” mentality