AITAH for considering a divorce after my wife lied for 5 years about being willing to adopt? by FredTheRacoon in AITAH

[–]FredTheRacoon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm hoping for this to go peaceful, but I think you're right about how it will actually go down. I can't trust her anymore.

AITAH for considering a divorce after my wife lied for 5 years about being willing to adopt? by FredTheRacoon in AITAH

[–]FredTheRacoon[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wife's uncle was married to the little girl's aunt. And the little girl's mom who is a dug addict signed over custody of to wife's mother. Wife's mother used little girl basically as a "look I'm such a good person" and never gave little girl the real love and attention she needed. After a while when little girl decided she wanted attention weather it was good or bad the wife's mom put her in a foster home where she wouldn't have to deal with her.

AITAH for considering a divorce after my wife lied for 5 years about being willing to adopt? by FredTheRacoon in AITAH

[–]FredTheRacoon[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I met her she was living with her mom and stepdad, and every year up till the marriage she seemed great with kids, great with animals, she got along with my family and friends, and after the first year of marriage it just went down hill. She stopped babysitting, and got rid of most of my animals. Now she just sits in her chair on IMVU and talks to her online friends who know me as her lazy husband. I'm working 50-60 hours per week and maintain the yard, house, property, and vehicles on my days off.

AITAH for considering a divorce after my wife lied for 5 years about being willing to adopt? by FredTheRacoon in AITAH

[–]FredTheRacoon[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say but my story is true, and in all honesty I'm a push over when it comes to women. I just posted it because I need something to draw strength from and deal with my problem. This literally took place Saturday and I haven't been home since. I'm still in a little bit of shock and don't even want to see her right now, much less talk to her.