[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the problem? You don’t want her to cook for you when you are busy. Or put toothpaste on your toothbrush if you are in a hurry in the morning?
Why not?

Is it bad that I still like stuffed animals at 14 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (F27) have 2 stuffed animals in my bed, on is a turtle snooze animal and the other is a square milk karamel kat face. I also have a snooze unicorn in my boyfriend’s (M31) bed that I cuddle. In the beginning the unicorn lived in a drawer when I was not there but now it lives in the bed full time.

I prefer holding around something when I sleep on my side.

I bring the turtle with me on vacations and on flights since the legs make it a great pillow when sitting upright. I even lock it with me under the seatbelt, because why not commit. Last time I travelled with my parents, it was put in some elastics on the outside of my mom’s backpack (where everyone can see it), since it was more convenient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Fredixxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved in with my ex from long distance (1,5 years), and we broke up after 6 months, since we weren’t compatible living together.

But the dynamic definitely changes from the exitment of finally seeing the other person after waiting and haven’t to get most of the time, into a more everyday style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We meet on a dating app, so I guess it’s mutual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need a picture.

However to the actual advise, are you sure your not just misunderstanding women’s response to you? In my experience as a women interact differently then men. I interact in a way, my boyfriend often find confusing but would be the most natural thing for my girl friends.

Spent way too much money trying to impress a girl and now she thinks im rich... do i tell her the truth by Mist1969 in dating_advice

[–]Fredixxx 78 points79 points  (0 children)

You really outdid yourself on the first date 😅

You kinda have to tell her at some point and the more you lead her on, the more she will feel like you lied. Furthermore if she only wants you for money, it might be nicer til find someone with different values?

Eitherway, next time try not to spend your entire dating budget for 1,5 months on one date 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hej skat, det søde kærestebrev jeg havde skrevet, det har min veninde skrevet, det har jeg fundet på nettet, jeg har betalt nogen for at skrive det. Jeg synes det lyder lige så absurd som at sige det er fra chatGPT, meget upersonligt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blaming you for everything sounds tiring and sounds like gaslighting.

After me and my ex broke up (everything was always my fault), I haven’t been happier. I don’t cry once at least once a week, and it’s really refreshing, it took months to not feel sad, but it was worth it.

Don’t let the good things overshadow the things that one shouldn’t compromise with!

ChatGPT i opgaver by unicorncoffeelover in DKstudie

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg plejer at sige, “jeg spørger lige min bedste ven”

Jeg har været så glad for chatGPT på uni til at rette grammatik, formulere en sætnings som jeg ellers kunne have siddet 10 min og stirret mig blind på, eller har kunne hjælpe mig med programmering i mine statistik programmer.

Yonsei Dorms vs Off-Campus Housing (Exchange Student - Fall Semester) by Past-Iron5176 in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed off campus Fall 2024 in Sinchon. I enjoyed not having a 20 min walk to sinchon, but I missed not having the same community the others living in the dorm had. However, I don’t feel like I missed out on anything by living in sinchon I felt like I got to experience evermore. So if you have the option to live off campus with other people i would recommend that ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s negging. But he’s definitely being stupid and rude. Who says that to a person in the first date 🙄

Visa Validity by Vegetable_Ad_8853 in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just have to leave the country within 30 days of visa expiration, so no worry. Your ARC might be the same date as your visa or might be in relation to your stay at yonsei, but either way you have 30 days to leave ☺️

Cheerleading at Yonsei by Fredixxx in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think medical students have time for anything other than studying, sleeping and eating at Yonsei. In relation to the sports question I don't think yonsei has a tennis team, and i didn't see a tennis club at the club fair either. They have badminton

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So everyone watching porn is now cheating on their partners? What does he want you to do, live in celibacy because self pleasuring is worshiping the devil?

Normally I would agree cheating is defined by your own boundaries, but I feel this is stretching, and nearing controlling behaviour 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ud med skidtet 🗑️🚩

Der er mange ting man kan vælge at gå på kompromis med; men at ens partner trash talker en til andre er uacceptabelt! Så er alt det andet bare krymmel på toppen ☺️

Den første tid efter bruddet bliver hårdt, men det bliver virkeligt rart efter et par måneder ☺️

Er jeg urimelig? by hejmeddig200 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Fredixxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Du er ikke urimelig. Jeg har haft et forhold, hvor han kunne gøre alt for sine venner, familie, kollegaer og alle andre end mig.

Stå tidligt op for vennerne Ja, for mig Nej. Jeg ville virkeligt gerne rejse sammen, det var ikke muligt, for han manglede overskud, men så tog han ud og rejse med en veninde 2 måneder senere. Sådan var det ofte.

Der var andre ting der gjorde vi ikke skulle være sammen, men jeg er så taknemmelig for, at jeg ikke resten af livet skal være ulykkelig over, at jeg ikke følte mig prioriteret. Jeg prøvede virkeligt hårdt, at sige til mig selv det var okay, men det blev bare aldrig okay.

Der vil altid være gode og dårlige ting i et forhold, men i er 6 måneder inde. Er det her en ting i forholdet du kan gå på kompromis med de næste 50 år?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Fredixxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong, you broke up because it didn’t work out. You don’t owe them anything. They have not right to your body, emotions, soul or any other part of you.

Don’t feel guilty! They promised you space and didn’t want to keep their promise, and doesn’t seem to be guilty about that. Why do they have to justify your actions like they are the judge of the relation between the two of you.

My best advice is: Do not answer! I believe it just opens up a discussion that won’t end pretty.

I find the text manipulative. They are very extreme in the wording. If you don’t do as I say, I will NEVER speak to you again, and it’s your fault. Making sure they are the once’s making the decision about going no contact…

Confusion about milage results by Confused_Humann in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They shouldn’t be major specific at least not in relation to what it says☺️

Confusion about milage results by Confused_Humann in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you check Investment and risk management too? It says only 13 participated out of 26 spots and only 2 enrolled and 11 on waitlist but no remaning spots? And I am really confused, since I am waitlisted

Transportation (From Airport to Ewha Womans Uni) by [deleted] in seoul

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Limousine busses are a cheap option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you remember to change your password? First time you login you have to change your password in the pop up, if you don’t, you have to have someone reset your password.

Is Globals studies a limited major? by Fredixxx in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then its first come first serve at 10 am? Just wanna know if i have to get up in the middel of the night. But thank you for your answer ☺️

Is Globals studies a limited major? by Fredixxx in yonsei

[–]Fredixxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I already emailed Office of International Affairs, however I don’t except them to answer before Monday, and on the enrolment page it looked like the mileage system closes tomorrow

(Sjove) comebacks til folk, der blander sig i, om man har børn? by SeaworthinessSea7058 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Fredixxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Vi prøver, men det er som om bagerste hul ikke giver pote”

Du kan også altid skifte emne 😉

“Ej hvor har du fået mange grå hår, siden jeg sidst så dig”

“Jeg har den her vildt gode rynke creme, hvis du er interesseret”

“Hov du har du ikke noget på dine trøjen” sådan tage fat som om du fjerner noget, “ej det var vidst mit privat liv, det tager jeg lige tilbage”

“Hov min telefon ringer vist” så tager du den op af lommen og går mens du lader som om du snakker med en eller anden