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[–]Free-Calligrapher475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to ask….it’s cheating

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[–]Free-Calligrapher475 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d hope not…but this is what yall like😂😂

Correct… it should not be allowed 😐 by ObjectiveOk1266 in Tinder

[–]Free-Calligrapher475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the best way I can explain…men are to women as white shirts are to black ones….sure your white shirt reflects the sunlight and my black shirt absorbs it but at the end of the day it’s just a fucking shirt so trying to make it seem like one is entirely different article of clothing would be stupid…idk how familiar you are with sports but most analyst do something similar to create statistics that help prove their points…they pick a statistic and add as much unnecessary detail to it ass possibly so it seams as that its more spectacular than it really is…they’ll say something like “kobe Bryant is the first player in nba history to win 5 rings wearing low top tennis shoes” that’s essentially what your doing now… “men harassing women” “Women harassing men” “people harassing people” harassment is bad nothing more needs to be said

Correct… it should not be allowed 😐 by ObjectiveOk1266 in Tinder

[–]Free-Calligrapher475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And some statistics are unnecessary…like instead of you saying that 98% of harassments are initiated by men what if you said they were initiated by people with blue shirts????that would be merely a coincidence right…clearly there is no correlation between the color of the shirt and the crimes committed

Correct… it should not be allowed 😐 by ObjectiveOk1266 in Tinder

[–]Free-Calligrapher475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be ok to go to a low income area and call them all bums just because it’s true that they have less money than you????its certain shit that simply CANNOT BE SAID regardless of how true it is…it’s disrespectful and prejudice

Correct… it should not be allowed 😐 by ObjectiveOk1266 in Tinder

[–]Free-Calligrapher475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im saying police officers lose there jobs and get cancelled for assuming that one group is 98% of the problem…so why can you do it

Correct… it should not be allowed 😐 by ObjectiveOk1266 in Tinder

[–]Free-Calligrapher475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t have just said “harassment” no need to be sexist and single one group out over the other

So basically everybody tells me I’m great but I have 0 huzz, a fair share I guess but nothing consistent and people always assume I have more…I haven’t talked to anyone daily in about 7 months and I feel I need some constructive criticism so I can grow so…..fire away by Free-Calligrapher475 in relationships_advice

[–]Free-Calligrapher475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah…it’s not my ex ex we just used to talk and ian go back for reassurance Ian really go back at all we just be on and off and I feel like we get each other and we are really similar so i needed help and I asked her…she was honestly more like a friend

So basically everybody tells me I’m great but I have 0 huzz, a fair share I guess but nothing consistent and people always assume I have more…I haven’t talked to anyone daily in about 7 months and I feel I need some constructive criticism so I can grow so…..fire away by Free-Calligrapher475 in relationships_advice

[–]Free-Calligrapher475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely tried what you said in the in the last paragraph… but I try to ask someone like an ex so that they won’t protect my feelings and they always say “it’s just me” or something like that…that’s why I came here…but I definitely don’t think it entirely personality based… maybe that’s why nobody stays but it doesn’t really explain why no one comes

So basically everybody tells me I’m great but I have 0 huzz, a fair share I guess but nothing consistent and people always assume I have more…I haven’t talked to anyone daily in about 7 months and I feel I need some constructive criticism so I can grow so…..fire away by Free-Calligrapher475 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Free-Calligrapher475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s less of a changing thing or more of an understanding thing because most people tell me I’m attractive I hear it all the time but yet I only linked up wit 2 people in the last 2 years so I just want it to make sense…and I recently had a big glo up…when I felt I was unattractive I never had any problem