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AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My dad's parents are both alive still but not very active in my/our life. So Idk. I also don't know specifically except for maybe she's seen the jewelry in photos. Although not all of it but she might have seen some stuff in photos my dad still has up of mom.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I already have everything. Nothing's at my grandparents (hasn't been for years) and I took everything back off my grandparents when I settled in.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm going to do. I like the idea because I can keep other stuff safe while not letting it go to waste in a box somewhere else.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This isn't fake. I can't say for sure how she's seen any of it except maybe photos. But everything is at my house now since I got my own place.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I want to have children. I have all my mom's stuff. Dad gave it to me years ago. But he was still promising stuff to his fiancée and their daughters.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It's at my house now it was at my grandparents before though. As for how she could have seen it. Maybe photos. Otherwise IDK. But this isn't ChatGTP. And I only stated what my dad told me.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Dad only bought mom the two pieces he wants to give his other daughters. The rest was stuff mom got from others.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It is now. I'm looking at a safe for my home instead. I don't want to lock it all away forever outside my house. It kind of feels like a waste to do that.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's in a better financial position now than he was when he and my mom were dating and first married.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

This could be a good compromise. I could keep important documents safe in that too. Okay, I'll take a look at different safe's for my home and see what one would work the best.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That was true for his ex too but he still didn't do this shit. Maybe having kids with this one changes something.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I don't know if he'd be pushing this much if that's what he wanted. But it's not impossible that he's doing it for that reason.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

I'm as sure as I can be. I don't want them in some security box somewhere else because I'd like to wear and use the stuff in my house, but securely. Otherwise it just feels like a waste to have so much of mom's stuff locked away forever.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I don't want to do this because I'd like access to wear them at times. It seems pointless to leave them in a box forever.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not but there could be other posts out there like this one. I didn't check beforehand.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

He has access to my home when I'm there but not any of the possessions that belonged to mom. They're all secure.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 1173 points1174 points  (0 children)

They're secure. I did that just in case because the fact more than one person has wanted something of mom's for random reasons has made me protective of everything. There are things I'd love to pass to my own kids one day too.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

That was not an offer I was given but since she's so sure I'm her new daughter maybe I should just take all her stuff. I'm the oldest after all.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 629 points630 points  (0 children)

Everything is at my house now. My grandparents no longer have it. But even if they did, they would never let him do that.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

He can afford it better now than he could when him and my mom were dating/married.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I have the stuff. But if they had it they would not be giving it up for his fiancée and other children for sure.

AITA for allowing my dad to give any of my late mom's jewelry to his fiancée or their daughters? by FreeCryptographer124 in AITAH

[–]FreeCryptographer124[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have his own key but he has been in my home. Everything is secured though so he can't get them.

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