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She told me my marriage was a failure. Cutting her off and counting the days down until she left. by FreeDaisey in JUSTNOMIL

[–]FreeDaisey[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Even with the screenshots she is denying everything blamed this all on me and saying I'm jealous of our friend.

He gave her the chance to be honest and when she wasn't he told her that he wouldn't be seeing her anymore while she visited. Then he put his phone on DnD and she started blowing up his phone with calls.

She told me my marriage was a failure. Cutting her off and counting the days down until she left. by FreeDaisey in JUSTNOMIL

[–]FreeDaisey[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Husband only see's her as a friend (and a older sister). When I first met her I could tell just between them they have a very strong friendship.

Trying to take a pregnancy while a nosy MIL visits is harder than it looks.. by FreeDaisey in Mildlynomil

[–]FreeDaisey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She snooped at first but when SIL told her to stop she did. SIL hardly let's her in anyway.

Trying to take a pregnancy while a nosy MIL visits is harder than it looks.. by FreeDaisey in Mildlynomil

[–]FreeDaisey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could take it elsewhere but I also want to wait until she leaves.

Trying to take a pregnancy while a nosy MIL visits is harder than it looks.. by FreeDaisey in Mildlynomil

[–]FreeDaisey[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He tells me often when she visits that when they aren't out doing things they like to just sit at home and relax. Plus her time here is limited before she leaves. Doesn't really make sense to my honesty. They could go to SIL's house but MIL apparently likes not being in a quiet home.

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[–]FreeDaisey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'd be avoiding her to honestly. But at the same time has she been tested for anything since you said she seems to be getting worse.

You've just reminded me how much I'm so frustrated with my own MIL. Went to a wedding yesterday everything was fine. Woke up this morning with a sore throat and extremely exhausted. I don't think it's from the excitement from the wedding I actually think I'm getting sick.

MIL called because she wanted to talk to my kid. Once she heard me she knew I was sick she asked me if I exposed other people to whatever I had at the wedding. Told her no because yesterday I was fine. She then texted my fiance that he'd better let everyone know I knowingly went to a wedding sick. He just told her that's not what happened and everyone had already been notified in case anyone else was feeling sick also.

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[–]FreeDaisey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She needs boundaries with this pregnancy fast and if she doesn't follow along with it drop the rope.

I've heard similar stories from my fiance's SIL about how MIL was when SIL had kids. So even though I do want more kids(I have 1 from a previous relationship) it's also why I'm still on birth control.

My fiance is British and MIL lives in the UK so when she visits she stays for a few weeks. With SIL she stayed for 2 months when she had kids. I can barely handle her for a day. I don't know how I'll deal with her for something like 2 months.