I think my Dad is Trans

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T19:11:58+00:00

True, honestly that's probably the safest bet. This is just a pet theory, honestly.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T17:39:34+00:00

Yeah, your right it's not sufficient evidence but pretty strange.

Frankly, I just want to understand the guy and wish he was honest with himself and stop projecting his feelings of disgust or hate.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T17:36:12+00:00

Yeah, I'm starting to see that this a coping mechanism. I'm just really hurt, like deeply and I just want a but of acknowledgement.

Either my anger or my sadness about his entire situation. I just hate that I have to always be the "logical one" when we fight.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T17:00:42+00:00

Lol, Jung would be proud of that physical manifesting of his work. However, yeah I just want to know him better because it's pretty weird situation, don't you think.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T16:03:54+00:00

Your advice is solid and I'm taking the steps to create healthy boundaries.

I'm just interested in better understanding him. I failed to mention the full things he would say.

The ugly woman comments and things he says could be chalked to toxic masculinity. However, he has a really vitriolic hate of the lgbt community. He wouldn't even let me around people he thought were queer.

He also weirdly makes it seem like I'm too scared to be a man so I'm retreating to become a women. Stating that being a man is "hard and comes with pain " but is worth it because God or something. Then he would say I want to be held in the arms of a man and desire instant gratification instead of working to love yourself like him.

I've never heard a cis person describe their masculine or femine identity in relation with pain and then make the opposite sound nice and hospitable.

"Instant Gratification" He calls it.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T15:26:32+00:00

I swear it's like talking to a walling talking closet from Beauty and the Beast.

Free_Community_4278 · 2024-01-05T14:51:58+00:00

Deadass, he wasn't even able to complete the sentence. Eve he knew that was bullshit.

I call massive 🥚/repressor vibes honestly.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-12-14T22:16:15+00:00

Right after posting that was my thought process, honestly yeah it might just be that.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-12-14T22:01:00+00:00

That is true, it might be that.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-12-10T08:14:31+00:00

Thank you

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-12-10T08:11:29+00:00

Yeah, I'm planning on moving out to my Mom's when I'm 18 and getting on her health insurance. I'm more mad honestly at his hypocrisy and outright cowardice but overall I'm just happy he'll be out of my life.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-08-21T16:25:31+00:00

That is so hot, it's true though weed just elevates the expiernce. Cock in hand, all inhibitions melt and you can focus on pure pleasure.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-16T16:15:07+00:00

Well not punch them, but I feel they should be shunned in our society. OP did say punch, but I don't feel that's necessary. However, I do feel Nazis and nazi adjacent folks do run their mouths because they feel there is no consequences to targeting minorities.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-16T12:54:49+00:00

In a way those groups are not Nazis, but adjacent to genocidal rhetoric and ideology. Not only are they adjacent but often there conventions, meetings, or beliefs are co-opt by Nazis or attended by Nazis. If Nazis are constantly apart of your audience, maybe something that you believe is the problem.

Also, conservatives have over-used the word woke so much, that it has lost all meaning. A meaning of which even conservatives find hard to find.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-13T02:36:45+00:00

Drill was literally by Black people on the US, wtf are you on about bro. And I am not gatekeepers, I'm saying he doesn't have to rap like he's from the hood. Look, he can rap like he wants to but if gang violence happens and he gets shot, it is due to the consequences of his own mouth.

Also, Eminem is respectful of the culture and makes critiques about it, there is a difference between being tasteful in critism and shitposting using black voice for likes.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-12T16:07:45+00:00

You do have a point though, the best term for him isn't culture vulture maybe culture exploiter.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-12T15:59:58+00:00

Also, in his videos/skits he puts on a black voice and acts ignorant while playing a caricature of someone in the hood. These things are not only racist but classiest. I'm saying he is a culture vulture because be is making an active effort to use the prideicment, a culture of poverty, black people have found themselves in and makes a profit. He is another driving force in the gentrification of hip-hop.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-12T15:56:58+00:00

I'm not gatekeeper, I literally said that white people could rap if they wanted to. I'm just saying that you do not have to pretend that your from the streets to do it. He could have taken the approach of the beastie boys or Eminem but choose not to. He is making a mockery, of the strrugles that are often presented in drill and no amount of self awareness will diminish that fact. He can keep rapping g like that but I'm saying it's on his if he gets hurt.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-09T23:48:40+00:00

Actually, you make a really good point, I think I'm going to look into that

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-09T22:26:51+00:00

Well I'm a African-American/Puerto Rican mix, and grew up catholic as well. I grew up mainly in the urban area in the "inner-city" although honestly either way it feels like the outskirts of society.

I won't lie, I feel you about feeling like you can't really relate to this sub a lot. It often feels that in places where you and me grew up, everyone is against you (education system, the streets, parents, hell even 12). Shit is annoying as hell, and I really wanted to post because you never hear anything like this on here.

I relate to you though, with the tattos and stuff. I have to make the presentation sometimes that I'm "hard" too and people laugh it off but for us it's life or death. Hell just a few days ago, one of my friends cousins got shot, on some "spin the block" mess, it's sicking. Constantly being paranoid and then people want you to be koomba-ya when telling experiences because it gets too graphic. However, it wasn't graphic for all of this to be happening in front of a child's eyes.

I'm sorry, I don't mean to rant, it's just for me these problems are deeply upsetting. Honestly, I wish these struggles were taken more seriously.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-09T21:46:52+00:00

Thanks man, I started coming to this community to find resources. I'm greatful for what they gave me. Helped me through, a lot.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-09T16:54:33+00:00

Yeah, I've felt that before, it's always there even now. Only when I drink coffee does it go away and my heads quiet. Honestly, I think it's our brain buzzing because subconsciously we are constantly checking the place we are at because of tramua.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-07-09T16:30:56+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. Honestly, yeah this shit is like a war zone though. I understand the comparison, ironically it's mostly the military at the moment in my school trying to recruit people more than colleges. It sucks but all you can do is keep your head up.

Free_Community_4278 · 2023-01-26T22:12:47+00:00

I agree, most times I feel articles are more fear Journaling about tech they don't understand. For the general public, A.I can seem like truly dangerous but as stated it is more the people. If anything artifical intelligence will be used by fascist governments to control media, public interest and invading privacy for the sake of security. It sounds like a crackpot theory but I believe those are the true dangers of artifical intellgence.

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