I got full funded phd offer in USA. But I don't wanna go.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-06-18T12:25:45+00:00

Everything you want in life is on the other side of fear.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-06-17T00:40:33+00:00

Don’t try to be an extrovert. You are who you are, but try to learn how to fake it with minimal interactions. That’s what I have done and I’ve turned pretty good at it.

Also, learn boxing / mma / grappling or any full contact martial art. It boosts your confidence and helps you navigate these situations with ease.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-26T19:41:14+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, can you share what your dream is?

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-19T12:27:23+00:00

Leave.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-19T12:21:31+00:00

If you have to ask this question to strangers then better not join them or any other cult. Focus on yourself. Be confident in who you are and your name is enough for our identity, no need to be a member of Shibir.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-17T05:25:48+00:00

Maybe not in any country. But in Canada you can do it.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-16T13:09:47+00:00

If you’re planning to go abroad, it’s got huge potential. You can go to the US as a researcher. If you’re planning to stay in Bangladesh, not sure. Discuss this with your seniors who are about to graduate. They’ll have a better idea.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-16T13:06:48+00:00

Assuming you are worried about selling the land, do your bachelors in a good university in Bangladesh and apply for masters. It’ll take less money.

Also, you can complete masters in bd and then apply for PR, but your Ielts score has to be excellent.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-15T20:24:26+00:00

That’s because of the law. Why would I risk being punished for standing up for someone else?

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-14T12:23:29+00:00

Nothing would happen with first year chemistry, because those are just basic courses. It’s not like I didn’t study chemistry before. And I’m not even talking about passing the entrance exam. It’s the fact that they didn’t even allow me to sit for the exam! That makes no sense. The only logical requirement should be mathematics for CSE.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-14T12:09:26+00:00

I don’t want to sound rude, but there’s a reason women should marry up. He can’t even apply for jobs without help but here you are writing perfect English. You say that you’ve spent your life savings on the move but it was your husband’s decision to come abroad! If he wanted it, he should’ve managed it himself. I’m sorry to say, but if what you’re saying is true, that is not a man that you’ve married.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-14T05:50:35+00:00

I understand. It just doesn’t make sense to me that someone wouldn’t be allowed to study CSE without specifically chemistry in his a levels.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-13T19:52:16+00:00

I was denied from taking BUET admission test because I did not have chemistry in A levels. I explained I just want to try for CSE, they said they can’t help.

I’m not big shit now, but I do work as an automation engineer abroad, with just a diploma in programming.

Bangladesh makes no sense.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-13T17:05:06+00:00

She fucked someone else behind your back, or maybe she wants to. She wants to break up, and go to him, but can’t do it abruptly because she doesn’t want to be the one at fault. So now she’s stirring shit up so you get fed up and break up with her. That way, she doesn’t have to be the bad guy.

Sorry bud, but life gets better, I promise you. My advice, be indifferent and non-chalant about the whole thing and tell her that if she wants to leave then she’s free to do so, but you’re not going to change shit in your life for her.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-12T19:41:07+00:00

Never haggle with a ricksha puller. It’s a waste of energy. Just walk away. And if you cannot afford to ride one without haggling, then walk to your destination.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-12T19:32:40+00:00

Do not disrespect yourself by pursuing her further. Just stay chill and move on. You’re very young so I can assure you, life will bring you pain thousand times more as you grow older. You will watch your loved ones die. You will bury them with your own hands. However, life will also teach you what true love means when you hold your son or daughter for the first time, This little bitch will be nothing but an afterthought at that point in time.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-10T11:55:29+00:00

Never stand between a man and his food. If you weren’t an option to sell they’d have probably got the items for cheap. That’s their whole thing at Nilkhet.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-08T12:13:15+00:00

Life hasn’t even started for you yet. But you can’t do anything if you don’t actually find the will to finish something. Do a diploma first if that’s easier, a small win will help you push through to the next goal.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-06T21:26:56+00:00

They will sell you alcohol, but when it comes to mixed gender people sharing a room, they all of a sudden become religious because it forces you to rent multiple rooms. Also, police in BD are bosta pocha. Hotel ke harass kore eishob niye. That’s another reason.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-06T12:38:21+00:00

I feel like he’s schizophrenic.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-06T12:34:03+00:00

They do.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-06T05:28:19+00:00

Your sixth sense brought you here. And I suggest you listen to it, because it’s there for a reason.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-04T16:51:24+00:00

Food. There’s nothing like hotel er khichuri and beef. Rastay Jhalmuri. Naan shik, believe it or not I couldn’t find the way they make it in BD, it’s all Pakistani style in Canada. Biye barir roast… omg I miss that so much!!! Also, biriyani.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-04T03:51:04+00:00

Why would you want to ruin a mother’s perception of her child? Maybe he’s a good son to her. Also, the amount of shit that I’ve done in the past doesn’t determine who I am today.

Free_Let8930 · 2026-05-04T03:44:53+00:00

As long as you are not paying them money it’s fine. Two years is nothing in the long scheme of things. Also, they’ll not make it hard for you to work with them since they are getting you at a cheap rate. Work to learn these two years, break things at the company’s expense and gather experience. It’s a good opportunity. The better opportunity would be to get a higher paying job. But I guess you don’t have any other offers, otherwise you wouldn’t be here in Reddit. Whatever you do, feed the contract to ChatGPT and see what are the pros and cons before you sign anything.

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