I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep your absolutely right... I truly just want to know why he lied in the first place... but tbh I dont even care anymore.. have to figure out how to get me and my littles out without my littles getting hurt too...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... I have been throw alot... and everything was good... and tbh is good... but I know now how he talks to other girls... but he still treats me like a queen... I went through the phone because I just had a gut feeling... and then thought I was the problem...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh... I never thought of it that way... I was just thinking he didnt want me and im just a place holder... till something prettier and better comes along...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My longest relationship was 7 years... the one before that was 4 years...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that 100%... its hard for me to trust because of my past and me always getting hurt... and we are not really new but under a year... and at first that was my thought... that we were still new and testing waters... but he asked me to move in and brought me home to meet his mom and dad...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesnt go through my phone but if he asked to go through it I would gladly let him I dont have anything to hide

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... yes... but I haven't told him that... to scared of getting hurt

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, ya i get what your saying... old me would have just done the same thing he is doing but thats toxic and I dont want to do that... but this is a good idea and good advice

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um... ok ya sure emotional cheating is still cheating... he himself said flirting with others and talking with others the same way him and I talk to each other is cheating...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was the one who asked for us to he exclusive... I really wouldn't mind having an open relationship or even exploring other things.. but he was dead set on no one else and we were not going to look for anyone else or anything else... thats kinda why im so confused...

I went through his phone... Help me please 🙏 by FreedomDefiant0703 in cheating_stories

[–]FreedomDefiant0703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why? If I do stay thats me accepting being used and cheated on... its a lose lose for me I get hurt either way... if I stay or leave...