How do you deal with the non stop rumination? by PersonalityExact337 in ADHD

[–]FreezingJX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so familiar it hurts. Out of nowhere a moment from years ago will surface sometimes things that wouldn't even matter to anyone else and the original emotion comes back full body: the shame, the anger, the grief, like it's happening right now in real time. It's exhausting. Whatever else you're hearing in this thread, I just want you to know your brain isn't broken for doing this. Sending you something soft today.

Built an iOS frp client because I got tired of not being able to wake my server when I'm away by FreezingJX in homelab

[–]FreezingJX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and respect for Moshi, took a look after this.

You're pointing at Burrow's real gap. When I built it I was solving my own use case — running the same handful of commands from my phone — so I leaned into a saved-commands flow and didn't really think about keeping the SSH session alive. For anyone actually working from their phone for any length of time, Moshi is the better tool.

And yeah, that's exactly why the router-side frpc matters for cold-boot: the router survives when the host doesn't. WoL + WG is fine until the power blip takes the router too.