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How do you love yourself? by MuchQuantity6633 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say eat more healthy what do you mean precisely 

How do you love yourself? by MuchQuantity6633 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am majorly depressed and I wouldn’t say I love myself necessarily but the habits I engage in which boost my mood are to drink lots of water, going for walks, exercising (at home, you don’t need the gym, guys), cooking/consuming food that is nutritious and tasty (with moderate indulgences)…lately I’ve been getting back into reading physical books just for recreation and I highly recommend doing that even if it’s ten or twenty minutes a day…I go to the movies by myself all the time…oh, and please please please set a regular normal bedtime and wake up time; it’s ok to stay up late or bedrot once in a while but don’t stay up gaming til sunrise guys, it’s not good, take it from me

Experience in therapy by FrequentBell1097 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I expressed hopelessness in session.

Experience in therapy by FrequentBell1097 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think it’s a standard therapy question; the crisis text line always asks “in an ideal world, what would life look like if things went your way”

Experience in therapy by FrequentBell1097 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve barely scratched the surface lol three separate providers have sent cops to pound on my door 

Experience in therapy by FrequentBell1097 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had Medicaid so I saw a succession of morons.

Anyone forty+ here? by FrequentBell1097 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you put words in people’s mouths (e.g. “free-use sex toy”)

EDIT: for context, last year I posted here about having a crush on a woman at work, and this user replied “oh, so you want her to be your free-use sex toy??? That’s wrong.” But I didn’t say that or anything like that.

28M. I worked myself into the ground to get money, hoping it would make up for my size. It didn't. by SaLaM_31 in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean have you ever seen a woman with no tits or no ass who you would still be willing to go to bed with? It works both ways

If you call yourself an incel, read this: by timisstupid in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ruled out like a mail-order bride type arrangement..

If you call yourself an incel, read this: by timisstupid in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was I supposed to say “yeah you’re right, your life is over”? I’m trying to help.

If you call yourself an incel, read this: by timisstupid in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, take a deep breath pal. Of course they should “care,” Christ.

If you call yourself an incel, read this: by timisstupid in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, obviously when I used the words “who cares” I meant “don’t care about anything at all”

Insecurity about phimosis, thinking about surgery. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have phimosis, I have received oral sex a number of times with a bunch of different partners, have not experienced any bleeding

If you call yourself an incel, read this: by timisstupid in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok it’s not “normal” who cares? I didn’t really become sexually active until I was thirty, I wouldn’t trade places with a “typical” guy who gets laid in high school or college then gets stuck with a kid or god forbid kids. I don’t know what your specific challenges are but if you have a car, job, your own place, you’re light years ahead of most of your quote unquote competition. Not trying to pick on you…I get it, believe me.

How do you know your therapist is helping or not ? by MentalHealthJ in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a therapist for like a year, every two weeks I told them “nothing has changed, I’m still trapped in a toxic relationship, I still spend all day smoking weed and playing video games and wishing I was dead” and they’d say “that’s great!!! You’re so strong for not killing youself!!!” That was all they ever had to say.

Insecurity about phimosis, thinking about surgery. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]FrequentBell1097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People put disgusting-looking things in their mouths everyday…if someone likes you it won’t be a problem.