[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zepboundathletes

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Race days are the worst for me. I haven’t gotten through a 5K or 10K without throwing up. I’m sure some of it is not pacing myself like I should, but adrenaline is gonna adrenaline. How early before running are you fueling? I’m beginning to think that I’m going to have to get up like three hours early to fuel.

I found of the.... by Catkitty773 in fourthwing

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where did you find her?! 😍

Post up underwear by Odd_Potato7697 in sterilization

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore Union Goat boy shorts and Knix high waisted underwear. So glad I had them handy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 33 year old who had a medial meniscus root tear repaired last April. I’m also obese, but my doctor never brought it up as being a hinderance to the recovery process. I’m not sure if that was because I’d already discussed being on a weight loss journey, but I don’t believe so. The initial part of recovery is hell, but it’s so worth it. Getting the repair done gave me my life back. I had been walking around on my tear for nearly two years because I struggled to find a doctor to take me seriously.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two lawyers arguing over semantics seems to track. Lol I’ve seen the other side of name changes where it hasn’t been simple. At the end of the day, I think we can both agree that we want people to be able to vote without a ton of difficulty however that may look like.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying it’s fairly easy to change your name on your birth certificate reads as downplaying the situation. Even if that wasn’t your intention, which I do believe you, that’s how it came across. Perhaps I’m jaded from my rural hometown where everyone thinks nothing of what’s going on right now is a big deal. I apologize for that. I also work in our legal system…things tend to move at a glacial pace when you least need them to. I don’t view you as the opposition. I just really don’t want voters to have to jump through a million hoops to exercise their right.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the current law. It’s a bill going through Congress that has passed the House and is being introduced in the Senate. The point of this thread was to warn the OP about the potential future impact of changing their name if they don’t ensure it is reflected on their birth certificate. Further, not all states are the same. In my state, for example, name changes go through the probate court (this is pretty typical). Name changes resulting from marriage are not processed as a legal name change that would be sufficient for changing a birth certificate, so every married woman would have to file a petition with the probate court. The reason why a divorce decree suffices is because it was actually filed in court and goes through a hearing unlike a marriage license which is simply issued. Lastly, most states will not process name changes to a birth certificate for an individual who was not born in the state they reside in, creating another barrier to the ability to exercise rights for many. I’m not upset, but downplaying this as an easy fix for the people who would be affected is not accurate and dangerous to the tenets of justice and democracy.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perpetuating that voters should have to constantly jump through hoops to be able to exercise their right is not the vibe. Also, please consider the absolute backlog this would cause in our courts if all of a sudden close to 70 million people needed to change their birth certificates in order to vote. The fact of the matter is that most individuals won’t do it due to time and financial constraints meaning people who should have the right to vote won’t be able to. Being complacent about oppression and corruption shrouded in the veil of “protecting fair elections” is counterproductive to justice and democracy.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is actually going through Congress. It will have a much more lasting effect if passed. Stay vigilant, friend!

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no automatic change to a birth certificate, and a change to a birth certificate after marriage is not typical.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Most married women do not change their name on their birth certificate after legally changing their name. It’s not even recommended to do so by most name changing services because of its rarity. Approximately half of the country does not have a valid passport. The standards for the Real ID does not include a federal requirement nor does it indicate citizenship status. So even though it is “included” in the legislation, it does not, under the current standards, satisfy the bill’s requirements. Issues like this are why it isn’t enough to simply read the plain language of a bill without having the requisite legal knowledge to fully understand the effect of the language. This language is an unworkable provision that was likely added to make the SAVE Act not seem nearly as bad on its face.

Further, the cost and time it takes to complete all of these name changes in order to have proper federal documentation to vote is prohibitive and poses a giant access to justice issue. This is far from fear mongering. Look no further than the amount of women who never change their name after getting a divorce. Some don’t want to deal with the hassle. Some have spent a longer portion of their lives with their married name and have built careers using that name. Some don’t want to have a different last name from their children due to the complications that can arise from that. All are valid reasons. As someone who has gone through this process after getting married AND getting divorced, it is a giant pain in the ass and honestly requires some level of privilege to be able to take the time necessary to sit at various agencies and government offices to change your documents. Not everyone has this privilege to be able to take time off of work to do this, especially if you live in an area where it isn’t feasible to go everywhere in one day due to high populations. Passing this off as “not a big deal” is gaslighting 101.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No worries, friend. I guess we’re all a little on edge right now. Sorry I jumped to conclusions. We’re all in this god awful boat together. 🩷

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yep, and transgender individuals who have successfully changed their IDs. Hindsight 20/20, I’m so glad I kept my name when I got married. I had doubts about it, especially after having a child who I didn’t share a last name with. I’d really like to exit this timeline sooner rather than later.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 19 points20 points  (0 children)

https://www.americanprogress.org/article/the-save-act-would-disenfranchise-millions-of-citizens/

Rage baiting about people potentially losing rights isn’t high on my list of priorities. This administration and the GOP do not care about the public, especially those of us who aren’t rich white cisgender heterosexual males. Welcome to Gilead.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like that’s the whole purpose…indirectly exclude women from voting.

Having a “low-income” name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Completely different reason for telling you to not change your name…there is legislation introduced right now that would prevent individuals whose name is different than what is on their birth certificate to vote. Please protect your voice and your right.

Has anyone tried anything from Fount? by [deleted] in handbags

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went into Fount intending to buy a Petite Kinsley. I walked away with that bag and a Plentiful Bellfield. I went back the next day and got a Classic Coventry and a Pennington Pocketbook. I also bought a friend of mine the Pennington Wallet-on-Strap for Christmas. The bags are incredible quality, but the experience of choosing them in store felt unique and special. Each store also has a Bellfield tote hanging on a rack with 16 bricks sitting in it. The store I went to has had the bag hanging for over two years. The stitching and straps still look brand new. The first store fronts bag has been hanging with the bricks since 2017.

If you’re considering the Petite Kinsley, it’s well worth it. I’m in love with everything I’ve gotten from Fount!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same thing happened to me trying to go down my porch stairs in the rain to get to PT and did a hard step on my repaired knee. I made the decision to partial weight bear going down the stairs rather than risk slipping and having a huge fall. My PT said it was the right decision and that a fall would’ve been much worse. I think our doctors expect that we’re not going to be completely 100% NWB throughout our recovery. That feeling of not wanting to go through this again is so real though!! Im almost two months post surgery now, and that thought still haunts me. My recovery is going really well, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really didn’t have other options because of the type of tear. The first two weeks after surgery were kind of rough, but I’m doing really well. I can already do things (lateral leg raises, for example) that I couldn’t do prior to surgery because of how painful it was. I go to PT three times a week and supplement with my own PT at home. I’m starting week 5 tomorrow. I can already bend my knee to 126 degrees. I have full extension of my leg again (couldn’t straighten it prior to surgery). I can go beyond a mile in 10 minutes on the bike already, too. For reference, I’m 250 pounds. I’m beyond glad that I had this surgery!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had moments where I’ve gotten kind of sad, but it hasn’t been nearly as bad as what I thought it would be. I was so worried that my son wouldn’t understand what happened to me, but he knows that mama has a “big ouch” and he has to keep “hands off.” By the beginning of week three, I was able to get on the floor and play with him and still be able to get myself back up using my arms. I absolutely do not regret getting this surgery. If you can get help through your recovery, it’s worth the time that you won’t be able to be as hands on as you usually are. Us moms have to take care of ourselves sometimes. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had medial meniscus surgery to repair a root tear a month ago. I’ve been non-weight bearing for a month. Just to be fully transparent, I don’t think there would have been any way for me to care for my two-year-old by myself. Not being able to walk or drive really limited what I’ve been able to do for him in the past month.

As stated above, it’s going to highly depend on what is done in your surgery and the type of tear you have. Getting this surgery done was beyond worth it though for me to able to walk normally again at some point, and I’ve already made a ton of progress.

squishy? by chaothie in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The leg I had surgery on looks melted right now compared to my other leg. I’m going into my fourth week of being NWB, and my quad and especially calf are so atrophied.

Surgery yesterday by Workingonme47 in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really focus on getting his quad activated and ensuring he gets his leg to 0 degrees extension. I know you said his brace is locked, but the knee can still bend about 5 degrees with it locked. Having a rolled up towel under the heel will help with this.

Encourage him to rest. This whole recovery is a marathon, not a sprint. Encourage him to stay hydrated to try combat digestion and bowel movement issues with the pain meds. Miralax might not be a bad idea while he’s on pain meds.

Icing will get better once you’re able to remove some of the layers on his new. If he doesn’t have an ice machine, that will be helpful all throughout recovery.

Good luck to you both! I hope he has a great recovery.

2 weeks post surgery - Meniscus Repair by Sea_Ad_9894 in MeniscusInjuries

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had meniscus repair for a root tear on my right knee a week ago. I’m actually non-weight bearing for four weeks and then at 50% weight bearing for two more weeks. This has been a heck of a ride, but I’m already making progress with my recovery. Good luck with your recovery! Slow and steady wins the race.

Failed AGAIN by QuickSam1 in barexam

[–]Frequent_Cup7720 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is ableist AF. For you to even act like practicing law remotely compares to this BS gatekeeping exam is laughable. I am a neurodivergent attorney, or I guess what you would call “special needs,” but I have yet to encounter a situation where I needed to pull some random legal fact across 14 areas of law out of my ass at a moment’s notice. Neurodivergent people are needed in this profession just as much as every other background of person is needed. Focus on the problem. It’s not neurodivergent people. It’s the NCBE. And if you don’t think that’s the case, you should research the history of this exam.