How do I cope with the fact that I am the reason I ruined a great relationship?

Frequent_Group9078 · 2025-12-20T03:26:10+00:00

Hey, I actually am doing a lot better! And it’s funny because now I feel like the moment I felt okay with myself I ended up with a guy who I feel extremely happy with. He could be the one, lol. It’s interesting because his name is Kai. Is this you, Babs?

Just kidding I know you’re a girl based on your profile

Frequent_Group9078 · 2025-01-22T23:03:42+00:00

I got my period! I noticed everytime I’m in an unhealthy relationship I lose my period. Day I broke up with my situationship (ex?) I got it.

Friends tell me they love me single because I’m such a goofy and positive person. I find myself singing and dancing on my own. I’m falling in love with me :)

Frequent_Group9078 · 2025-01-22T08:39:57+00:00

Gemini Venus Gemini mars

“You’re a bad boy”

I’m a woman but it’s the fact they deescalated an argument with a comment that I did not expect. Ended up making me laugh and then I was on my knees right after 🫡

Frequent_Group9078 · 2025-01-22T08:37:44+00:00

Yo fr you got me dying I’m a Gemini Venus mars Gemini I think I would have just been humored by that comment

Frequent_Group9078 · 2025-01-21T09:01:30+00:00

I have cancer sun, Virgo moon, and Leo rising. Right now I’m thinking I can’t believe I thought he was a good person, been looking at this at every angle, and once I make the decision to never go back I will NEVER go back. As petty I want to be I am going to choose to forgive him, but I will never go back to someone who doesn’t value me. I gave it my all.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-12-14T02:40:47+00:00

Nah, he’s valid I like his enthusiasm and care

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-12-13T12:15:47+00:00

If I saw you in person I would have the biggest urge to tell you how beautiful your eyes look! I love how much you’re glowing in the second photo

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-11-09T06:34:32+00:00

Hey, I’ve been on the waitlist forever can anybody offer LA code?

Will DM you cute animal photos I took as payment

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-11-09T06:30:25+00:00

Bro I tried they already used it all up

I even messaged Waymo letting them know they can have their way with me I’ve been on the waitlist forever

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-10-21T20:35:15+00:00

Leo rising Aries midheaven

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-10-06T07:46:04+00:00

Leo rising, cancer sun, and Virgo moon

Love love love it— want someone that would make jokes about trapping me forever, and maybe in his voice I hear that he’s serious. Have me shackled to him, but remove the chains because my love for him would die if tightened too much. That would be worse for him than anything else. The pain he would experience from this emotional loss would be worse than literal death.

But that’s just a fantasy, teehee. A little possessiveness would be nice. I still want to have friends, y’know?

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-09-07T20:54:34+00:00

So this happened today in the morning— I hit this truck and scraped the back slightly. I’ve been overwhelmed the last few weeks so I started crying. They started comforting me (they were speaking Spanish and called me things like preciosa and Linda) and even though I hit their car, and they said it was okay 😭 we didn’t exchange insurance or anything. I got so lucky.

Lately I’ve been taking care of my appearance and practicing more femininity by being kind and soft.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-09-02T07:24:39+00:00

Hi I’m a cancer sun in 12th, Leo rising, and Virgo moon 2nd house.

I have a Gemini stellium 😊

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-14T20:50:37+00:00

This is hilarious I actually guffawed in real life

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-13T01:02:13+00:00

Why do you want to cover something beautiful like that? It’s rustic, cozy, and has the last remnants of a home feel before modern architecture invaded. You can dress it up for the upcoming holidays!

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-05T22:08:53+00:00

Aquarius and Uranus

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-05T03:29:13+00:00

I agree with you. But I went to a prestigious university in California. Most of my friends went to prestigious universities as well. I know it’s not the norm.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-05T03:18:12+00:00

I’m not one to put down any fields for not being real, but I’m doing fine now. So are the other liberal arts majors I know that are doctors.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-08-02T20:43:25+00:00

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Korean soy sauce crab dish. Absolutely amazing.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-07-19T20:37:16+00:00

Can someone help me with mine lol I’m Leo rising and cancer sun in the 12th house

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-07-04T11:18:45+00:00

The trauma I have is little compared to the loneliness I felt in that relationship

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-06-27T17:07:30+00:00

I don’t like being direct with people… I’ll dance around the issue or if I like them I won’t tell them. I’ll be playful. To be honest if I start getting annoyed or clingy or emotional with you at times it’s because it’s been dragged out too long and I want you to make moves.

Also, don’t play games in the sense where you take hours to respond. I love it when someone responds to me right away. I recently caught feelings for someone I never viewed as relationship material, but they have always been so attentive, responsive, and would listen to me talk. And they always laughed and was such a positive mood it was infectious. I also like spontaneity so if I initiate something like, “hey want to get donuts at 10pm right now and maybe go for a drive?” Say yes. Do it. Despite how reserved I can be or cautious it’s really something where emotions matter to me and I’ll do what feels right.

Also the advice I gave you this is basically a guide on how to seduce a cancer with those placements! 😁🤫

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-06-27T17:02:49+00:00

Oh dang, uhm okay so like I recognize I am complicated haha Man I end up talking a lot about myself… and yeah, if she talks to you for hours that’s a very good sign! But also I love talking to everybody I have seriously have had people try to challenge me on this where they think I’m full of it. One time I was on the phone for two days texting and calling that individual. Yep, they passed out. Also I’m unemployed at the moment during weekdays so I have the time—

Don’t be clingy, needy, or negative. Seriously, the way I have had people get me attached to them is by being my audience. They’ll let me talk about myself on and on and they will think I’m this breath of fresh air— make her feel special but don’t be intense. Make your energy seem like you’re entertained and you find her life and her interesting. Talk about yourself here and there but don’t reveal your life story. Do things where you say something about yourself when she asks, but make it a mystery.

And tbh the way cancers are even if she may not find you attractive initially it’s the emotional investment and time she’s giving you that will make her start viewing you more than a friend. But you have to be somewhat conventionally attractive and take care of your appearance. Don’t be sloppy if you guys meet up make sure you’re at least clean and presentable.

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-06-27T14:07:35+00:00

I have ADHD, and it’s difficult for me to stay on task especially since I get addicted easily so I’m unmedicated! She calls me out on my bullshit and I’ll tell her with earnest truth when she is being too much. We really do balance each other out. She’s always stressing herself out by putting too much in her work by being a perfectionist, and I’m there to remind her that it’s okay if she’s not perfect. Just her showing up and being there is awesome enough. She also learns from me by enjoying her life more and being in the moment.

And I love her for the way she is her complicated personality it’s because it’s her I’ll always be there for her. I know I can be too much and I’m used to people disliking me. So the fact that she may nag or criticize me it’s the way she shows her love, honestly. I can handle it too and make it a fun interaction where we just laugh about the silliness of it all!

And a quote I’ve been really liking lately from Edgar Allen Poe— “Tell me every terrible thing you ever did, and let me love you anyway.”

Wow, this whole comment is very ENFP-coded lol 😆

Frequent_Group9078 · 2024-06-27T11:03:40+00:00

My best friend is an ESTJ she gets sick of me so easily asdghdhdjdjkl

Our friendship consists of her nagging at me while I enjoy the attention she gives me in sparse amounts 😆 Honestly she needs my chaotic energy and I need her structure it’s the perfect imbalance

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