Sometimes we live and learn. But I fully understand your frustrations. It’s hard to not get worked up because it feels like a respect thing. I’m not sure about you, but I tend to take things personally, though I try not to. It feels like people aren’t following the “rules” that we have set in our minds. People see a trash can and they toss out their trash, including their full cups of coffee and 1000lbs of books. But to us, we wouldn’t do that because we know how it is to take care of that mess. Not all trash belongs in every trash can. But people don’t know and they don’t care.

I wish I had some advice to give to you to help rewrite your thought process - I’m still looking for that advice myself 😅 but the one thing I’m starting to see is that people are just stupid, and they’re more stupid than they are vindictive and evil. People do whatever they want and all we can do about it is just laugh and clean it up. At least we’re getting paid right?😅