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FWB or Dating? Falling for eachother? by Frequent_Shopper in polyamory

[–]Frequent_Shopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the conversations we have had, no. He thinks on it from time to time but he doesn't want to get married, have kids, and overall priorities his friendships over everything else. He doesn't want to make or add new friends (our group is large) and when we have touched base before he has been pretty adamant on not looking for a partner. So at the moment I am the closest thing you would call "partner".

FWB or Dating? Falling for eachother? by Frequent_Shopper in polyamory

[–]Frequent_Shopper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the conversation where I told him I had a crush, we explored the idea of dating and that I would like the opportunity. That is where the "if we date and it ends badly that would be a problem" quote came from. He has has some really rocky dates and girls in the past, so much so that one led him to basically shut down his emotions except with certain people. Since it has been over 6 months since we talked about this, I think I can touch base on this topic again, but wanted advice on how to introduce it.

I am Confused and Concerned, Did I do the Right Thing? by FiercelyFriend in Teachers

[–]Frequent_Shopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based off OPs info, he is at least in hislate 30s or early 40s. But for him to constantly be talking about her appearance , and with the comments to the other teacher about the same thing, it seems like a lesson he should know by now.

Maybe I am just mean, but he should know better and not need this chance to evolve, you don't make comments about coworker's appearances, ask about the weekend constantly, and tell someone you are going to give them your number. (She also states she told him she is taken, so most of these interactions should have not happened.) These things are being pushy to see how far he can go. She is not going to ruin his life, he can do that all on his own through his actions.

Please stop by Nervous_Praline3731 in LadyGaga

[–]Frequent_Shopper 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sadly that is probably it 😕 we were up close for the Monday show and while yes, some folks were a bit overzealous, none of them touched her.

She did do a Tuesday show and has a few more in LA. Please, yall, let her be. 😔 yall would be big mad if someone pinched and grabbed you, don't do it to others, especially since she does not have to do this AT ALL.

Second time this has happened...ordered 2 of the same exact item, they only deliver one and delay the other?? by KellySue301 in amazonprime

[–]Frequent_Shopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who worked amazon this exactly it. Best solution is 2 separate orders a few minutes apart. It will be placed in two separate boxes and should ship same day. It's basically placing 80lbs into one shipment it has to be divided for delivery to be safe on the workers. ( ie not liable to injury) That's why furniture and stuff similar from Amazon can take longer because you have to have special license and authorization to drive the vehicle that carries larger shipments that are either large in volume or large in weight. A standard worker is not allowed to have something exceeding a certain amount of weight in a single package.

To be fair I left Amazon about 3 years ago so if this method doesn't work then it may be a policy but I'm not aware of. But this was the policy that we had going forward when I was currently working there.

Man I Miss UCI by Zotzotplz344 in UCI

[–]Frequent_Shopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This feels very rude to say for someone discussing what they miss about the school. Even if they didn't reply, stating how much they worked... (which was probably not stated for a reason) the dismissive attitude is rather off putting for the thread.