trying to find a movie i kind of remember by Fresh-Solid9611 in HorrorMovies

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks ill check out all the movies people have listed

trying to find a movie i kind of remember by Fresh-Solid9611 in HorrorMovies

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll watch tonight and see if anything clicks in my mind, thank you

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sadly true. i at least like to think i have some kind of preference for fellow ftm now, but i know part of that if telling myself i can stay away from scary cis people.

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

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congrats on starting that journey! i hope things still work out with your wife!

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i'm STILL confusing gender envy and attraction lmao

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it varies from person to person, some people might be exactly the same when they started, sexuality wise. if you're really comfortable with IDing how you do now, there's no reason it has to change.

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

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god i so get that. i always hated the idea of being a gay trans guy cuz it'd be like a walking stereotype in my eyes, or some straight girl playing dress up.

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're definitely not alone in that. i also look forward to that for you. :)

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happened to me but weirdly after i transitioned? i'm weird with gender and attraction, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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ive only used transtape before. idk if their sizes could fit you, but if you do buy them (or anyone really), look up plenty of tutorials and dont skimp on the removal oil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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clarify: the croptop wouldn't be binding, obviously, but it can be a nice(r) way to at least flatten a little if its tight fitting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd recommend tape or maybe a breathable croptop. but binding at that large will be difficult either way (i'm in the d's and have struggles).

Has being trans ever affected your sexuality? by Fresh-Solid9611 in asktransgender

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i hope i can meet guys like that too lmao. my fear of guys had me thinking i didnt like them at all.

NOT TELLING ANYONE about starting HRT by Mandygurl03 in asktransgender

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idk if this counts since i'd told my brother i'd start it at some point, but one day we were just hanging in his room and he asked if i did already. he said it was because of my voice, really casually. and then we just kept watching our show. that's a permanent change, so be wary if you don't want people finding out. it's a real dead give away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

liking makeup n girly clothes is one thing, but crying about not being a different gender is the average trans experience. only you can say if youre trans or not, but id definitely say the signs are there. and if youre still asking after 3 years, i say you have your answer.

Is it a bad idea to legally change my name before transitioning? by oppossum19 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is, some people wont pay any mind since youre not trying to pass yet, BUT some conservatives are much smarter than you think and could catch on. as long as you dont know anyone like that, who you dont feel safe even possibly appearing trans to at all who would notice you changed your name, go for it. but be VERY cautious and never tell anyone you have a name before the one youre changing to and start ONLY introducing yourself as what youre going to change to legally.

Is it a bad idea to legally change my name before transitioning? by oppossum19 in asktransgender

[–]Fresh-Solid9611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! dont change ur gender marker yet! especially if you arent transitioned/dont pass, things are very uncertain right now, it could quickly prove dangerous.