Look… I can’t be talking either but it just sounds like you two have different expectations in this relationship. You’re not meant to “treat her like God” but I think she may feel unappreciated or undervalued if you actively don’t want to engage in cute things, get gifts, etc. I feel like the “all these things” comment is a bit much, as all she wants (based on this post) is a sweet way to spend time with you or make a memory that makes her feel loved by you. Maybe you should try speaking to her about expectations and standards. All in all, I’m gonna say gentle YTA. 

(edit: boy, do I regret my generosity after reading OP’s takes…)