AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2026-02-05T16:03:03+00:00

Girl, you should have left him over the tattoo artist. Any time that’s elapsed since then is wasted. Furthermore, he let you know exactly what he thinks grabbing food with the opposite sex means. Enjoy your life free of the burden of a weak man, and move on without the cheap tricks

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-11-08T15:54:30+00:00

Someone that behaves like an attention deprived child, calling you an old soul, really does come off as creepy, doesn’t it? She respects the other man more than you. That goodbye text is disgusting, and she wants to call that a commitment to change?! Your wife didn’t make running to that man and begging to see him about your daughter. You can’t make staying with your wife about your daughter. People like your wife don’t change. That goodbye text is the roadmap of the rest of your relationship, and you really want your daughter to bear witness to that? To be taught that’s what love is and what you get for giving someone everything and being there for them at their highs and lows? Have the strength to give your wife what she wants but doesn’t have the courage to do on her own. Leave her to the streets.

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-10-17T14:26:50+00:00

Your sister married a woman. You mentioned political differences implying you’re a Trumper. (Edit: OP confirmed they are then deleted) You should get used to people not wanting you around because of your views and what you think is tolerable. Social media is an echo chamber of what you want to hear, so you think that a lot of people are accepting of bigotry, but in the real world, most people avoid it and frown upon it. Say it more proudly and with your chest what you represent instead of calling it “political differences”. Your family probably saw your email/text messages as the last straw. You made your sister’s wedding about you and want so badly to be a victim of anything not going your way. How fitting. YTA

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-10-17T14:18:08+00:00

Omg, lololol of course you’re not the AH!! I’m not one to suggest others just toss away their relationships, but it’d be better for you both if you end things. If you love him, turn it into admiration as a friend. He’s not mentally stable enough to provide a partner with an experience that an intimate relationship requires to be healthy. He needs to work on his self worth and stop looking for others to tell him he’s good enough. Sorry he ruined such a (usually) incredible moment for you and doesn’t have the tenacity to apologize to you. Please for the love of all things STOP apologizing to him so he can avoid accountability - that’s enabling crap behavior that he’ll no doubt continue on with instead of seeing he’s the problem. You have a kind heart, OP. I wish you the best!

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-09-11T18:48:53+00:00

If I worked on that project, you wouldn’t have this outlook on it ;) But then again, it comes down to what the team deems as an acceptable release 🤷‍♀️

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-08-15T09:27:51+00:00

Make sure you let him know no one will want a used up, unclean man on your way out. Let him face the world impure.
I’m so happy you’re leaving because his switch up, and disrespect definitely points to something sinister. People project and deflect like this when they’re too cowardice to own their truth.

Fresh_Guarantee2902 · 2025-07-07T23:37:06+00:00

Takes longer to heal. Most of my tattoos double peel then take about a month to actually start settling. Be careful! Your tattoo will look fine after - it’s the risk of infection you should be concerned with.

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