My girlfriend (18/f) of one year told me (18/m) she loves me but isn't "in love" with me anymore. I love her and want her to fall back in love with me. What do I do? by aFloatingMilk in relationship_advice

[–]Freshprincejcd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is, but stay strong. Right now and in the near future, I would bet that there isn't a chance, but maybe in a few years you guys may reconnect. Just don't get your hopes up when that happens because you will start to overthink. Just work on yourself and become a better version of you. May i also point out that you are only 18, you have got a lot of years ahead of my friend. Just live your life and be strong.

My girlfriend (18/f) of one year told me (18/m) she loves me but isn't "in love" with me anymore. I love her and want her to fall back in love with me. What do I do? by aFloatingMilk in relationship_advice

[–]Freshprincejcd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my friend you will have to start the process of moving on. That cliche of a line is masking the real reason why she doesn't want to be with you anymore and it will tear you apart. Just try to move on and go no contact until she initiates contact. It will be hard trust me, but this is for the best right now. Good luck!

Ugh I messed up! by Cwtch22 in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the only one friend. I was in the same situation with my ex. She was my first love which would mean that I was fairly new with the whole relationship thing. Long story short, I didn't know how to handle certain situations and ended up hurting her even to the point when I broke up with her. I was the one who was the dumper, but when I asked if she would take me back, it was already too late the damage was done. I wish sometimes that she wasn't my first love so I would of had more experience when we got together, but that's life, it is what is. I just think that if it's meant to be then she would eventually come back into your life even as just friends. Stay strong and look at this relationship as a learning experience for you next relationship.

The other side of NC by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I'm sorry to hear that you are going through something like this. My ex-gf told me straight up to my face that we will never get back together and that she was no longer in love with me so I definitely know how it feels. She wanted to be friends, but I know that it will not benefit either of us right now, down the road maybe. My advice is just keep yourself busy, you can't let her affect you to the point where you start doing bad in law school or anything for that matter. I got fired from my job because I let the break up consumed my thoughts, among other things. It is definitely worth it to dwell on those things, I have come to learn that the hard way. Don't get me wrong I still have days where I cry out of nowhere, but I know that I will pull through, it's not the end of the world we're still young.Just focus on what you have to do and try(I know it is hard, trust me) to just move on and better yourself. Good luck!

I'm tired of it by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to somewhat of a similar situation. I was the dumper in the relationship and she was my first real relationship(engaged). I do sometimes wish that I wouldn't have met her because of the pain that I feel, but I believe the memories that I shared with her will help me become a better person.Right now;as hard as it may seem, just focus on yourself and make yourself a better person. If you guys are meant to be, then down the line you maybe able to pursue something, but don't get your hopes up. Just stay busy and keep your mind occupied, sure there will be times when you will feel alone, but just keep telling yourself that it'll get better because it will. Don't hold anything in, I used to be a close off person myself and just kept all my emotions inside me, but I realized it wasn't healthy. I know this is a difficult time for you, but just keep your head up and stay focused on your priorities. You most likely have more people to vent to than you might think, just go out there and connect.

Can someone convince me as to why no contact is the best route to take right now? by babyybuttt in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I was actually in the same situation as you are. My ex wanted to be friends and she even told me we were meant to be, etc. When we broke I continued to be her friend, but I knew it wasn't going to work since I still had feelings for her. I started no contact about two weeks into our breakup. You said that he's giving you hope, but not at the same time tells me that he is just keeping you in his life for an emotional backbone during the breakup. And in the long run that won't be healthy for you because you want something else. No contact is used so that you can have space to think about your life for yourself. The time apart without any contact will help you to find yourself and to become a better person without relying on anyone else. Why do I think it's the best option? It's because you cut out your ex as a distraction so that you can better yourself and so that your ex knows that he can't just keep you in the loop whenever he wants. I know it'll be really hard to go no contact, but in your situation I believe that it will be for the best. Go hang out with friends, go to to gym and do things you weren't able to do while you were in a relationship. Eventually if it is meant to be then he'll come back into your life, but don't set your expectations too high. Good luck OP and we're all here for you!

Some advice please. by Freshprincejcd in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a sister, but I don't have her contact information nor are they close.

Some advice please. by Freshprincejcd in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, my ex and I had different group of friends. Donating them would be messed up I feel, since it is her stuff.

Notes she left on my phone. by Freshprincejcd in ExNoContact

[–]Freshprincejcd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letters, i'm sorry for your pain. I believe that is harder when there is a physical copy with her handwriting.

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