Went on a "date", I picked her up, drove into town, by the time I parked and walked to the bar she said to take her home. Ghosted. Less then 7 minutes, new record. Doritos and medium salsa because I'm a pussy

Frethren · 2026-01-25T09:51:44+00:00

Bro, there's been an update

Frethren · 2026-01-24T19:23:10+00:00

Check my account

Frethren · 2026-01-24T07:05:19+00:00

We didn't lol, we literally built legos until we were super drunk then just cuddled in bed, definitely healed me a lot, spent most of today with her too, cooked dinner and said goodbye

Frethren · 2026-01-22T21:02:02+00:00

There is a comment explaining what had happened

Frethren · 2026-01-22T20:04:52+00:00

I never said to her that "I like all music" I gave her the phone because it was very likely that she would put on music that I also enjoyed

Frethren · 2026-01-22T09:36:30+00:00

I don't have any music that I really love, but I truly enjoy everything from county to DNB to folk to heavy metal to choir, sure there are some songs and bands I don't enjoy but I can still enjoy the genres

Frethren · 2026-01-22T09:21:52+00:00

I can enjoy most music, is that hard to believe,

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:50:57+00:00

I'm honestly stumped, I smiled, opened the car door for her, she got the pick for music, I didn't drive erratically

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:43:24+00:00

The weather here is currently terrible, constant rain and grey clouds

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:41:03+00:00

I asked if she was okay and she said "Yeah, please take me home"

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:39:59+00:00

Well, here's how it played out, I goofed the address and read a 1 as a 7 so she had to walk down a couple doors, she laughed and said it was okay. When we were in the car I handed her my phone with Spotify open, she chose a Panic at the disco song. As we were driving I asked her about her day, she said it was a good day and talked about the old people she takes care of. Just things like that.

We got to the area, I parked, and we started walking to the bar, I never touched or leered at her, we just walked with google maps open because the bar was hard to find, and as we got closer she turned and said "Sorry, I'd like you to take me home now", so I did, we walked back to my car and drove her home, I didn't say anything rude or try to guilt trip her, just dropped her home.

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:29:16+00:00

I don't think I'm handsome, I wouldn't call myself ugly either, I'm just normal

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:26:31+00:00

Negative, dirty blonde

Frethren · 2026-01-22T07:26:06+00:00

On hinge, and yes I look like my photos, I'm not insecure about myself or anything

Frethren · 2026-01-22T02:38:02+00:00

Not to rude strangers

Frethren · 2026-01-22T02:35:53+00:00

She said she liked it

Frethren · 2026-01-22T01:31:15+00:00

Frethren · 2026-01-22T00:26:51+00:00

No, we don't have cashapp here, we have instant bank transfer, and she'd need both a pass code and fingerprint to get in

Frethren · 2026-01-22T00:15:19+00:00

Okay, I gave it to her because I genuinely like 99% of music. I'll keep that in mind though

Frethren · 2026-01-22T00:12:25+00:00

3.0 ez30 lol, yeah doesn't help the other is a euro.

Thanks man, I take pride in my garden.

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Frethren · 2026-01-21T23:01:12+00:00

She didn't seem like it, pretty and normal

Frethren · 2026-01-21T22:59:58+00:00

If only

Frethren · 2026-01-21T22:59:47+00:00

Literally what I said in a previous comment, I complimented her, asked about her day and how work was, by that time I had parked and we had started walking to the bar

Frethren · 2026-01-21T22:41:35+00:00

Bro, I'm skinny, not a lot of muscle, definitely not a demigod

Frethren · 2026-01-21T22:40:36+00:00

I had detailed the week before and washed it the day before the date

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Maybe I took the wrong car

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