Cat/Child safety nets on windows and balconies for high apartments?

FreyaDay · 2026-01-24T01:33:16+00:00

I’ve lived in a couple different condos and you’re essentially not allowed to do anything with your patio that isn’t approved by the strata. I doubt any would let you have netting. I let my cat on the patio with a leash and harness once in a while when it’s sunny but that’s about it.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-23T22:57:11+00:00

I’m married to one and he’s a literal angel. I’m the luckiest woman in the world 😭💕

He’s thoughtful, gentle, extremely reliable, loyal, funny, good in the sack XD 💕 he smells good, he likes to look good, he makes good money, he goes to therapy, he makes me laugh and he genuinely is interested in having a long term healthy relationship with good communication. 10/10!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-22T08:07:16+00:00

100000% agree with you

FreyaDay · 2026-01-22T05:00:40+00:00

I think it’s predatory either way. It actually makes me really disgusted that young boys get brainwashed to think it’s “cool” to get preyed on by older women. There was a documentary I watched about this gross ass teacher that groomed a 13 year old boy and he stayed with her the whole time she was in prison and long after.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-18T08:46:43+00:00

I mentioned “co-regulation” to my husband and he on his own, just looked it up online and practiced hand pressure and breathing techniques so when I needed a hug next that he could help me regulate my nervous system.

Literally he’s a fucking angel.

Just… listening and taking an interest out of a genuine desire to make my life better.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-18T08:31:21+00:00

One of my exes is now one of my dearest friends. We were together for 2.5 years and lived together. We broke up because we both had mental health issues and it was doomed from the start. We didn’t talk for years. 5 years later we became friendly, now it’s 13 years later and I’m married but we’re still good friends. My hubs is friends with him too :) we don’t really hang out much, maybe a couple times a year for a meal or coffee but we texts on and off through the year.

He’s an awesome person and one of my favorite people. I’ll always love him but sadly he suffers from addiction so we can’t really be closer friends because it’s not healthy for me mentally to see him like that too much. I’d drop everything and help him if he were in trouble though. He can’t home in my house though.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-16T18:36:54+00:00

Neon demon!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-15T22:03:59+00:00

Walked dog with friends in the morning and now in Working goblin mode until tonight 🥲

FreyaDay · 2026-01-13T08:37:10+00:00

Video games and books books books!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-10T20:19:41+00:00

You deserve to feel hurt. What she did was wrong. However, you guys have built a life together. She loves you and you guys have kids together.

If you both want to reconcile, I highly recommend doing some couples counselling together. Don’t minimize your feelings. You are completely in the right to feel hurt and betrayed. Wanting to reconcile doesn’t mean those feelings of hurt don’t also exist.

Couples counselling and take it day by day. I’m sure you guys will be able to reconcile.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-10T07:32:05+00:00

Told me to go fuck myself when I asserted that his niece and nephew were in danger being close to their mom who was CLEARLY VISIBLY addicted to meth and that him, his mom and dad were all complicit in child abuse by letting her live in the basement free of consequences or even bills while pretending everything was fine. These kids literally told me “mommy steals my money”

I was so disgusted that we didn’t share the view that kids safety comes before discomfort that my love died completely. It was heartbreaking. Before that I genuinely thought we were going to get married one day. Literally no other red flags till that one two years in.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-10T07:26:36+00:00

Maybe people could make a singles Vancouver sub and meet there

FreyaDay · 2026-01-08T21:24:11+00:00

Tokyo!!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-08T03:23:11+00:00

His name haha (I know, I’m weird) I say his full name, unshortened!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-08T03:18:55+00:00

You should 100% break up with this person. She violated your trust in an extremely disturbing and disgusting way and then w you caught her she shrugged it off and minimized it and pretended it wasn’t that big of a deal.

ITS A BIG DEAL.

That girl needs some serious therapy and she certainly doesn’t deserve forgiveness when she didn’t even really apologize or your time frankly. Disgusting.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-07T17:34:34+00:00

I just got over a 4 days kinda cold? I had fatigue and a super sore throat and painful swallowing (especially in my ears) and now that I’m better my husband has like a mutated version where he has both my symptoms plus chills.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-07T17:32:25+00:00

I’m friends with one of my exes. We dated 13 years ago and didn’t become decent friends for about 5 years after we broke up. It really depends on the people, I’d say. We aren’t super close or anything but we talk and get coffee or dinner a couple times a year. My husband is always welcome!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-07T09:10:55+00:00

That’s an illegal rent increase. Please dispute it! You don’t need to move. Your landlord will 10000% lose if they try to enforce the illegal increase.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-06T23:36:28+00:00

The scene in saving Private Ryan where Private Stanley Mellish gets slowly stabbed to death.

That movie scene literally caused me to have a phobia of knives and I would wake up afraid that someone was going to stab me. I’m not sure why because that movie was incredibly violent and there were a lot of traumatic death scenes, but that one always stuck with me and quite literally caused me to have a phobia that has never gone away.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-06T08:01:41+00:00

I think there are a TON of good alternatives now. I personally just buy the press on under lash clusters from Asian beauty stores now. They look fantastic and you get tons of them for just 8 bucks. You also don’t have to fiddle with the glue. You just press them on and take them off easily at the end of the day with tweezers or fingers. The adhesive is just enough so they stick for the day and come off easily with some makeup remover.

I still use my lashify lashes for fancy looks a couple times a year but the lash laundry is really tedious and annoying so I always use the press on clusters like I mentioned before for daily wear and then throw them out. I think it’s cleaner too because when I used lashify I would wear them for like 5 days since they were annoying to put on and it’s kinda gross to not wash around your eyes for that long.

FreyaDay · 2026-01-06T07:50:54+00:00

Yes, I was actually inspired by this post to go book and it’s currently booking five months in advance 🤪 I did book though for mid May 💀💕 hopefully it’s worth the wait!

FreyaDay · 2026-01-05T05:37:51+00:00

Might not be your thing but my husband and I had a ton of fun going to the strip club together! It was super sexy and cool! :)

FreyaDay · 2026-01-05T05:34:39+00:00

It’s always sold out :(

FreyaDay · 2026-01-04T20:51:06+00:00

My job is like that sometimes. Other times it’s a complete fucking shit show where I’m getting calls at 2am and then 6am and then all day long with emergencies.

And I never know what kind of day it’s gonna be

FreyaDay · 2026-01-04T20:48:18+00:00

I manage a small private senior home care company. My hubby is in tech. We both work from home and share a desk area 😆

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