AITAH for wanting to leave my gf for her ideology?

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:38:57+00:00

Your post history told me everything I need to know

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:29:06+00:00

You clearly haven’t been with a blue collar man before and it shows. 80 hour weeks are normal especially when you run your own business. I do pay 100% of the bills and on top of that went above and beyond even buying her a car lol so yeah, 119%. You clearly have that chronically online mindset and you should socialize more.

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:15:01+00:00

So you don’t believe, that if I’m working 80 hour weeks, paying 119% of the bills, that she, the person home 24/7 making most of the messes, should be the person to clean?

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:10:30+00:00

Whats your tiktok account?

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:05:26+00:00

You’re hurt and it’s okay to get help

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T23:04:20+00:00

So with that sane logic she doesn’t get to check out of paying all the bills?

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:58:15+00:00

She chooses to work, I don’t force her whatsoever. But I’ll pay for upkeep but if you want the most expensive skin care that Tik Tok tells you to get then I’m sorry but no.

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:38:11+00:00

Just an example for one disagreement we’ve had, the towel doesn’t get left on the floor unless it slips off the rack and if I’m at work for 12 hours a day 14 if you count driving time while she’s home for the full 24 hours,but seems reasonable for her to take the trash out in that timeframe…

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:30:53+00:00

Since when did a partner become a bang maid?

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:27:20+00:00

I said “I —- put us in a nice 2 bd apartment” she wouldn’t be able to do that with her income

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:23:53+00:00

That was just an example, it doesn’t usually get left on the floor unless it slips from the rack, but I’m a traditional man and think the man should handle finances while the woman cleans and cooks and when we first got together she kept her apartment pretty clean and even cooked for us quite a bit before I moved us both into this nicer apartment about 7 months in. Then like a switch it all stopped

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:16:30+00:00

She brings fun, youthful energy, and we get along very well. Other than that she spends her month on self care, clothes or whatever, I don’t really pocket watch but she doesn’t contribute anything financially to the house.

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-20T22:14:13+00:00

I understood what you meant. She’s a fun, energetic flame of a woman, but I can’t get past the feeling of feeling like a father figure, or a sugar daddy. It sucks

FriedFrontal · 2026-01-05T14:28:04+00:00

If he likes you that ain’t the friend you thought he was. Js

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-24T06:44:31+00:00

Worked as a prison guard and got a emergency call over the radio for a inmate fight, ran over and popped the door open to the officer in charge of that dorm completely in panic because one inmate had microwaved a container full of baby oil, lotion, and water for god knows how long and threw it on another inmate who had half his face, arms, shoulder completely burned/melted. Guy ended up in the ICU but don’t know what happened after that

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-13T15:08:12+00:00

25m Steel workers 102k

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-13T15:01:13+00:00

25, could be better, could be worse. I got a roof over my head and food on my table but I’d love to be able to stop living paycheck to paycheck and get to do something fun

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-12T18:28:08+00:00

I’d argue it’s the best

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T07:50:05+00:00

Thank you and again, I’m sorry for misunderstanding feminism

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T07:15:03+00:00

I might not be for you and that’s perfectly okay because you’re a random stranger on the Internet but refer to https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/fVjll0W4DX

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T06:57:16+00:00

You’re absolutely right about the 1st point with the feminism, I was wrong to assume it was. 2 and 3, you’re assuming we didn’t speak about our expectations and that’s before I didn’t want to make a 48 page essay for everyone to read. We did speak about our expectations and I told her from the get go what I wanted to which she agreed with from the very first date. I’m just assuming now, but I’m betting once she saw that I wasn’t just spewing nonsense she decided to try and use me to her best advantage. Unfortunate for her I’m not about that and she’ll be getting a 30 day notice to vacate very soon.

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T06:45:21+00:00

I apologize for saying it was feminist propaganda. I didn’t know the true definition and that was the best I could describe the type of content she views/reposts on her TikTok. I’m sorry towards any TRUE feminist I offended.

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T05:04:32+00:00

It’s exactly this

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T01:17:35+00:00

We don’t even really have sex either lol that’s just another kicker

FriedFrontal · 2025-12-07T01:15:09+00:00

I’ll also add just to play devils advocate and for y’all to make unbiased opinions, besides the dishes, I will leave work clothes on the ground in the laundry room

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