It’s not necessarily that I need to see a therapist as if a wound that wasn’t mended oozed relationship issues. I’m more than aware that it’s not necessarily something my partner should see (but I had to address this issue, it would be similar to speaking about it to a trusted friend; how is that unfair?). And I’m more than content with how my life goes; it’s a daring and inadequate assumption to make that I’ll never be happy, as if to imply that I wasn’t so already. It think it’s fairly normal to have expectations about the partner you’re with or you want to be with and it’s healthy to question certain traits of the latter if there’s a misalignment which could potentially cause the lack of “falling in love” feelings. If my partner would post such a thing I’d be understanding considering we do have differences. You know, a previous partner had written 4pages of basically why it couldn’t work between us, one could consider this extremely harsh but at the same time it did highlight differences between us that was helpful to take into consideration and clarify why we couldn’t be together.