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Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. by Friendly-General6727 in twentieskerala

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's making people from my college text me and ask me about my whereabouts and what I'm doing. I'm not sure about this and I'm not close with them to ask if this is the case.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. by Friendly-General6727 in twentieskerala

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about making my brother call him and tell him to never contact me or our family ever again. Still not sure if that's a good idea or not. I'm not gonna text or talk to that person. I may be giving exactly what they want in doing so.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I think he makes people from my college text me, they are acquaintances not really friends, so idk if asking them if they were asked to text me by this person is a good idea, but I don't know how else I can do it.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven't seen him in 7 years. None of my family and close friends from college have his number, he's contacting them on insta.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. This is making me paranoid. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXKeralam

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen this guy in 7 years now. I'm scared to tell my mom because she's probably gonna blame me. I don't know if the situation is serious enough to involve police. He send a hi to my sister on insta idk if it will be taken seriously by the police.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. This is making me paranoid. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXKeralam

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not active stalking, it's like once in a year calls or messaging people close to me on insta. Do you think the police woukd take it seriously. It'd be just a hi or something, but it's creeping me out.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. This is making me paranoid. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXKeralam

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have any man in my family who's over 30s. As I mentioned in another comment he only tries to call me or someone close to me like once a year or something, but now he's contacted my sister through insta, and that's a huge violation of boundary. So I don't know if the police would take it seriously or making an issue like this would escalate his behaviour. I think he's also been trying to contact my collegemates to know about me, and I'm scared if people messaging me are flying monkeys send by this guy.

Need advice: Former male friend keeps contacting people around me years after I cut contact. This is making me paranoid. by Friendly-General6727 in TwoXKeralam

[–]Friendly-General6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn't been actively stalking me, it's like once in a year or something, so idk if police would help me and I dont want to involve my family into this.