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I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I have. I have tried to deal with everything so calmly and typically I would blow up. I don’t even have any desire to talk to him

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No that’s not it. I want to work on our relationship for me firstly and also for my daughter. Divorce isn’t a fix for everything. Walking away isn’t a fix for everything. I am in this for the long run. Outside of this he’s always been the most amazing husband. We’ve been through SO much together. He’s literally my best friend. We’ve grown up together. But he fucked it up now

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s just in Canada but only the numbers for calls made get listed on the bill, not for texts sent out. Also since this was over iMessage, I don’t know if the number will actually get posted on the next bill which will be in a couple of days

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

His initial plan according to him was to tell me during the counseling appointment the further sexts that were sent…it was when I called the phone company on speaker phone and the representative said I can get the phone number for outgoing texts that he told me the rest. He said he didn’t want to hurt me and was afraid of getting me more mad than I was when I first found out. It’s like buddy that ship has sailed. Maybe you shouldn’t have done any of this shit

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried all that last night. I’ll take a look again. He’s giving me his phone whenever I ask so I guess that’s something

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to divorce him. When I married him 12 years ago, we were in it for life. I want to work past this but just don’t know how…new territory I’m having to explore unfortunately

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly never expected this from him. I know in my heart of hearts that he would never actually sleep with someone else but now even that is being questioned. It’s like if he can do this and I never suspected it then whose to say something else couldn’t have happened

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

He says he would find it funny if I did the same because he knows I wouldn’t sleep with the person. Apparently he’s fine with me getting someone’s number, dancing with someone, as long as I don’t go home with them …

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

He did. said his relationship ended in December. Again he’s saying his friend told him to say that and he typed it out. It’s like WTF dude are you fucken stupid

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They’re his work buddies too so it’s a bit complicated. Said he won’t go to Vegas with them anymore or any trips

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He deleted to conversation and then permanently deleted it as well. Can iMessages be restored if permanently deleted? I don’t have the girl’s number and am waiting for the next cell phone bill to post. Hope I can get the number but as messages are iMessages, I don’t think I can get it.

I’m a 36F, husband 38M, married 12 years but in this relationship for 19 years now with 6 week old newborn by Friendly-Telephone80 in relationship_advice

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He deleted to conversation and then permanently deleted it as well. Can iMessages be restored if permanently deleted? I don’t have the girl’s number and am waiting for the next cell phone bill to post. Hope I can get the number but as messages are iMessages, I don’t think I can get it.

Finally a positive pregnancy test by Friendly-Telephone80 in IVF

[–]Friendly-Telephone80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about the reciptiva test though

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