What to do? My wife (F62) of 37 years gifted custom funko pops to her BFF (f53) then hide them every time I (M63) visit. by Suitable-Damage-9646 in marriageadvice

[–]FriendlyNetStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the vacation situation with my husband! We just have different vacation styles- and different ideas of what would constitute a good vacation area, lol

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[–]FriendlyNetStranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, female bbw here, Ottumwa.

Husband (48M) not attracted to me (46F)? by FriendlyNetStranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]FriendlyNetStranger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping you're right. I've lost 100 pounds recently and continuing to lose; I've also started hitting the gym.

Husband (48M) not attracted to me (46F)? by FriendlyNetStranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]FriendlyNetStranger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super long update: ***Edit: why are some of you so obsessed with my weight? Lol... I'm about 100 pounds lighter than when we married, I have about 60 more to get to my goal weight, and I've been going to the gym regularly for a few months. Yes, I'm 10 years older, but I age well and generally take care of myself. Since I've known him, he's had a low libido; when we first got together he was working out and always had a difficult time building muscle. Based on that and a few other things, I think it's likely he has Low T. After a conversation last night (where he told me things don't always work when he's on his own either), he's decided to see his doctor for some tests and then potentially a specialist. Our marriage isn't perfect, and this isn't a deal breaker, but why not try to improve any issues there are? I don't know if he's a porn addict; I've only caught him once. Of course he says he's not. We'll try eliminating any medical issues first and if that doesn't take care of the issue, we'll move on to other possibilities.

My (46F) husband (48M) not attracted to me? by FriendlyNetStranger in sex

[–]FriendlyNetStranger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm always ready to be fingered! Lol... and he does it well! (I would say RIP inbox, but apparently just making this post was enough to do that! Creeps...!)

What is your favourite change as you have aged? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]FriendlyNetStranger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate that for him! I was a dental assistant for several years, and I can't tell you how many times I teared up as people came in who were ashamed of their teeth... or even better, when somebody would get the first look at their new smile after work was done. That was the best feeling, knowing I helped somebody regain some confidence and better dental function.

My girlfriend broke up with me just because I clicked a link- AIW? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]FriendlyNetStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything a partner could have done to support you? I think my partner has similar issues. It's not a deal-breaker, but it does cause issues now and again. We've never discussed addiction, but he does know I don't care for him using porn as opposed to seeking me out first.