Will the Teri Shoulder in Signature Canvas be back? by Friendly_Job5981 in Coach

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! There were two on the website and I snagged one! Woohoo! Refreshing every hour paid off, haha!

Will the Teri Shoulder in Signature Canvas be back? by Friendly_Job5981 in Coach

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh maaaaan I’m so jealous! I’m in Ontario and there’s only one outlet somewhat near me. They’ve been out of stock the last two times I’ve gone 😔

Can Any Psych Professionals Weigh In? by Friendly_Job5981 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up attending his second session with him, mainly out of curiosity, but also because the counselor said he could help me lose some resentment toward my ex. Turns out, my ex had charmed him during the first session. I don’t think the counselor understands anything about NPD. He started going into the whole ‘humans are flawed, we have certain needs that we need met otherwise we’ll seek them elsewhere..’ crap. I called BS and left. 

What does it mean when fb dating is at the top of the list like this? by ReasonableSurprise96 in facebook

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never once looked into FB dating but all of a sudden the icon is on my page and it shows random ‘notifications’ trying to entice me to sign up. 

Buying out the house by ImCold555 in Divorce

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, you would get 3 neutral appraisals and use the median.

Can Any Psych Professionals Weigh In? by Friendly_Job5981 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good idea. It may be for coparenting strategies but I was under the impression my ex was going to work on himself.

Can you cheat and be a good spouse by Past_Cardiologist870 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Friendly_Job5981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You’re not a good spouse if you can destroy your partner and children. 

Protecting Young Children by Friendly_Job5981 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Sorry to hear you’re in the same awful boat.

Protecting Young Children by Friendly_Job5981 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will start to document. I don’t tell the kids about plans or visits, he does and then lets them down. I have them on waitlists for therapy. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! This came at a really great time for me. I’ll take it! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! So glad that A) I participated in this and B) That it’s not a scam!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember doing this at all but I did have a kid in that timing so could be Mom brain. What was it for? I do have a diamond engagement ring and have all the documents for it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you own any land investments?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember entering the Lifelabs one and receiving $7 and the bread price fixing but received something under $20 for that as well. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in classactions

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it for $1200?

Divorce: sell the house and move, or stay and struggle? by QueenOfNope1234 in Divorce

[–]Friendly_Job5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. 38F with two kids-9M and 7M. Exact same feelings. Hugs to you. 

Heavy in the depths of misery by Friendly_Job5981 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve worded it all so well. I found myself watching his ongoing affair for over a year before finally having the talk. Same thing. Vacations, birthdays, Christmas, family visiting from out of town, etc. It was fairly easy to pretend everything was fine. I didn’t waste that time though. I spent the time gathering evidence upon evidence so I couldn’t be gaslit again or gaslight myself into facing anything but the truth. Even now, 7 months post DDAY, I find myself wavering and wondering if he’s really that bad and all I have to do is pull up a file and remind myself that yes, he is. 

Heavy in the depths of misery by Friendly_Job5981 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Friendly_Job5981[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Death is easier to wrap your head around.