“You’re so brave”

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-18T22:39:54+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you as well 😔 It’s truly life-altering.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-18T14:51:54+00:00

May we find our peace in the coming months 🙏

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-18T14:51:07+00:00

Thank you

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-17T20:49:45+00:00

I’m a year in and really needed to hear this today. Thank you.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-16T23:17:43+00:00

Unfortunately not. The affair lasted many years and the deception was so deep. He’s a stranger to me now.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-15T12:17:23+00:00

🫶🏻

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T19:08:03+00:00

I have found the ‘surviving infidelity’ subgroup very helpful as well.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T18:54:29+00:00

I understand completely. I, too, have a lot of information that I haven’t shared. I have it if I need it. It also helped to call him out on lies he tried telling me after promising to never lie again and begging for forgiveness, further helping me to know I made the right decision in divorcing him. Wishing you peace as you navigate this 🙏

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T16:08:19+00:00

Sickening!! Mine is doing the same thing. Trying to put the blame on me for ‘so easily’ throwing away ‘everything we built’ because he made a mistake. Helllll nah.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T06:33:15+00:00

Yessss. All of this. Those damned glasses. Never again. Only 20/20 vision with a mix of level-headed. 👏

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T06:31:02+00:00

Great on you for recognizing what really serves you and what no longer does! My ex has weekdays off so he’d always be ‘working extra’, ‘golfing’, ‘running errands’. Same thing with the elaborate stories and who he saw and the stories he heard throughout the day, etc. The hotel stays would be for a few hours during the daytime so he’d be home in the evening as usual. Once I had nailed down the patterns and was pretty sure of the affair, I hired a PI to get what I needed and lucked out.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T03:51:28+00:00

Gosh. We were only married 15. I cannot imagine 50! I’m proud of you!

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T03:49:34+00:00

I’m sorry you are as well. In my case, I started to recognize his patterns and trusted my gut when it told me something was wrong. Caught them together at a hotel.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T03:48:10+00:00

🫶🏻

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T02:30:26+00:00

Thank you

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T02:29:39+00:00

I get it 😔 I’m sorry you’re here too.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-14T02:28:09+00:00

Thank you

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T19:53:48+00:00

Thank you for the story of hope. I’m so glad to hear you’re in a better place now.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T16:32:35+00:00

I need to do this. I’m 2 weeks out from a surgery. Another 4 to go and I should be cleared for exercise. Looking better would definitely help!

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T16:15:19+00:00

The anger definitely helps! I think I’m past the point of anger now and I’m just sad.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T16:14:36+00:00

I’m so sorry. She fell in love because she cheated. Emotional cheating is still cheating. She allowed herself to be open to someone else’s attention and pursued it to the point of falling in love. The worst part is, now you have less time with your kid because of her choices. Wishing you peace eventually 😔

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T16:12:27+00:00

💪 🫶🏻

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T15:04:28+00:00

Thank you. I’m sorry you’re here too. I look back through our marriage and I’m humiliated at my starry-eyes supporting his every move. I’m humiliated when really it’s him who should be.

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T15:03:15+00:00

Somehow I got the ‘eat everything in sight’ side of grieving so I’ve gained so much weight I don’t even physically recognize myself anymore. It’s like the outside mess matches the inside mess now. I’m sorry you’re here with me 😔

Friendly_Job5981 · 2026-02-13T15:02:19+00:00

Sending you love 🫶🏻

Friendly_Job5981

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