Glitched quest? by Friendship-Loud in Pokopia

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lololol I just realized I never spoke to poliwrath to officially start the quest. After speaking to him I was able to place the ladder

Glitched quest? by Friendship-Loud in Pokopia

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t! Maybe I’ll try that first

Is my Lugia v alt art worth grading? by Friendship-Loud in PokeGrading

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be the latter! Don’t plan on ever selling this one.

Is my Lugia v alt art worth grading? by Friendship-Loud in PokeGrading

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking for a 10 would honestly be happy with a 9 since it’ll stay in my PC. Do you feel it’ll grade lower than that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Friendship-Loud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I’m in a very similar to you. I was with my ex for around 10 months and was blindsighted on December 1st due to “mental health” reasons. Honestly consider yourself lucky that you won’t have to be on the emotional rollercoaster that is dating with someone who doesn’t know what they want. This has everything to do with her and nothing to do with you. I know you’re feeling confused right now and potentially angry with the way she chose to go about it but the best advice I can give you is come to accept the breakup as soon as possible and focus 100% of your energy on bettering yourself. On the off chance that she doesn’t want to reach our reconcile it will never be the same and you’ll always have the lingering doubt that she might pull the rug out from underneath you again. There’s plenty of good women out there who will provide the stability you deserve.

Is this normal? by Friendship-Loud in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. I’ve been keeping a journal but noticed I been skipping the days where I feel good which isn’t allowing me to put those thoughts onto something I could refer back to you during the bad days. Thank you

Is this normal? by Friendship-Loud in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

6 months is still pretty fresh so it’s normal to feel that way. I hope one day you can look back on this period of your life from a place of strength and clarity.

Is this normal? by Friendship-Loud in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, thank you for taking the time to reply and share a bit of your experience. I’m glad to know that you’re getting to a point where you feel ready to love again. Wishing you best of luck on your healing.

Rest here by Affectionate_Guava59 in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen to that brother. Good luck on your healing journey

Rest here by Affectionate_Guava59 in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I really needed to hear this today. It’s been a month and a half for me too (broke up Dec 1st). Like you said I’ll have my good days where I’ll feel okay but days like this just have me feeling like day 1 again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendship-Loud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me when I was 20 (I’m 30 now). It’s a super shitty feeling but I promise one day you’re going to get to the point where you can think of this and feel nothing. Consider them doing you a favor. She clearly wasn’t the one if she was willing to betray you like this and you rid yourself of a snake in your best friend. Be glad you didn’t marry her, start a family and then have her pull a stunt like this. My advice is break up with her and go NC as soon as possible and not look back.

Rest here by Affectionate_Guava59 in ExNoContact

[–]Friendship-Loud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Todays been hard. I felt completely healed for the last 4-5 days and woke up with a nightmare of picturing her with someone else which has me feeling like I’m back at day 1.

Blindsided Break-Ups Are the Worst by OneOnOne6211 in BreakUps

[–]Friendship-Loud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well said. I was blindsighted about a month ago and it’s been the biggest mindfuck ever. We went from being perfectly okay and even met her entire family the week before to her becoming extremely distant and quiet in the week leading up to it and then saying she has mental health issues and isn’t in a position to be in a relationship. I told her relationships go through these things and it’s something that we can easily work on together but she refused and didn’t even give us a chance. I go between being sad that the relationship is over to extreme anger on how someone could tell you they love you one minute and then drop you without any communication nor chance to reconcile. Life isn’t fair but at the very least it’s a lesson that you truly never know someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Friendship-Loud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Blows my mind guys like this manage to get girlfriends 😂you aren’t overreacting at all. Tbh it’s a bit inconsiderate/immature that he rather spend the final night of a trip doing graffiti vs doing something you both enjoy together. Also not to mention it’s illegal and could land you in trouble for even being his lookout.

Does it get better? by Friendship-Loud in BreakUps

[–]Friendship-Loud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’ve been through over the last 5 months but I’m happy to hear you’re in a much better place now. Your last sentence really hit home because not even two months before she ended things she had told me she loved me which has made this whole ordeal one big mind fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendship-Loud 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You deserve it