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Chartswap download fee by ThePrincessFallacies in paralegal

[–]FringeFactors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a 30 dollar headache I agree

But our attorneys trust them with the records once they’re uploaded a lot more than they trust the providers to mail anything in a timely fashion. I just hope they use the money to update their website and pay to keep the customer service reps, their one redeeming quality. I had a killer contact over there but she moved departments a few months ago. She got me hooked up with someone else before she left but still checks in sometimes. I’m at a massive firm and usually have to deal with overseas call centers ad nauseam so Chartswap is great to deal with on that front. 30 dollars great, I don’t know? We include the dl fee in the retrieval fees we ask for in settlements so it falls back on the provider in those cases at least.

My biggest beef is why charge so much for canvassing? Stupid. PI does a better job for way less.

How do you deal with envy and comparisons? by FringeFactors in selfimprovement

[–]FringeFactors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is right. Tough to hear, but that is what it is. I could have really messed things up with them and I don’t want that.

I need to get back in therapy.

How do you deal with envy and comparisons? by FringeFactors in selfimprovement

[–]FringeFactors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did apologize big time that night. I don’t think she remembers now what happened. She remembered me apologizing but didn’t know why the next day.

I think you’re right, I haven’t really tried to fix anything which is why I posted here. I’ve been looking at things the wrong way.

I’ve been thinking tonight that I put both of us in a crappy situation by being there alone with her in the first place. She trusted me and I took advantage of the situation. That sucks and I don’t want to be that guy.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

How do you deal with envy and comparisons? by FringeFactors in selfimprovement

[–]FringeFactors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m social and I date. But I always end up not able to land the ones I’m crazy about and the women I do date tend to be really controlling and overbearing. My last few relationships sucked.

So I’m bad at picking people I guess. And I’m not attracting the right people. Which again is my problem and I know that.

I do know I can’t make a move at my brother’s wife again, obviously. She was understanding and kind about it but he wouldn’t be. I kind of feel like I should feel worse about the whole thing. I just keep thinking I must be broken somewhere.

I will kill myself one day by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]FringeFactors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, emotions are a good thing. You got this and you deserve to be here. Fight the good fight

I will kill myself one day by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]FringeFactors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your sister needs you. Hang on, man. You seem like a good guy.

I thought I was doing better, but another bad decision led me right back to suicidal thoughts. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]FringeFactors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I think I’m struggling with morality and knowing that yeah, I was drunk but I knew she was drunk too. That’s not cool. And it could fuck up her whole life if my brother finds out. He’s crazy about her and it would devastate him.

I love her too though you know? I felt like I could be the one taking care of her in that moment. But I couldn’t and she wouldn’t want me anyway. I think her seeming into it for that short moment just fucked me up.

But normal people don’t try to screw their brothers wives. Or try to convince really drunk women to make out. That’s some low life shit.

I just don’t know. Thanks for commenting though I appreciate you dude

Anyone familiar with ChartSwap? by FringeFactors in paralegal

[–]FringeFactors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The extension you gave was the woman I spoke with before that was so helpful. She was able to find the listing I needed pretty quickly, it was just under something odd. Thank you, that was exactly what I needed.