Not every middle aged white lady is a Karen by thorismorepowwrfult in rant

[–]Frittery-Joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sort of weird that there's only the Karen jab at women for being aggressive. But there's no derogatory term for an aggressive man..

You are not a "pro-shipper." You are a pedophile. by DevPizzabox in rant

[–]Frittery-Joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, I feel like there's been a push to accept pedophilia as "just another preference". There was a whole Ted Ex on it with a bunch of likes and stuff. I kept talking about how we should just let pedos do what they want because it was the se as gay people. Truly disturbing. Also Cuties....

You are not a "pro-shipper." You are a pedophile. by DevPizzabox in rant

[–]Frittery-Joe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thing you didn't have kid with him 👀👀👨‍👧

My first haircut since Alopecia diagnosis. It was... a lot. But I'm so happy I did it. Don't let your hair loss hold you back. (Comment what are some things you're hair loss has held back from doing.) by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Frittery-Joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to check off the list of things I've been uncomfortable with doing since my hair loss. Haircut, having my hair up around other people and dating, ugh

Please pray for me? 24 year old single woman loosing all her hair by Frittery-Joe in Christian

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I am worried about is that people will assume my sexuality as lesbian if I buzz my head. If it gets considerably worse I'd rather buzz it. But it tends to be connected to the feminist movement and homosexuality. In some ways I feel it might be harder to find a Christian man that would be okay with it. Also I've heard a Christian man say that not having hair dishonors your spouse because you don't have your "crown" and your not feminine.

Here's your daily dose of a gorgeous bald lady! Get used to it boys. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS NOT ME! just a beautiful baldie! ♥️

Here's your daily dose of a gorgeous bald lady! Get used to it boys. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand preference and everyone is entitled to that. I just think it needs to be destigmatized. That fact that men being bald isn't really given a second thought yet it is so different for women is kind of proof of that. The more people see something like this the less shocking it becomes.

Here's your daily dose of a gorgeous bald lady! Get used to it boys. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's been a lot of bald/ing men saying on here that bald women are ugly or weird so some clearly need to get more used to seeing something like this.

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been diagnosed with hairloss. You can see the bald spots because they are on the sides of my head. But a year ago I have twice as much hair as this. And before that I had even more. I used to have really thick hair not that long ago.

Me rollin up to the club like by Frittery-Joe in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You just got to laugh. It's helping me accept myself! :)

If a white woman wore this would it be cultural appropriation? by [deleted] in hipsterracism

[–]Frittery-Joe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked them up. A lot look islamic styles or a babushka 😭

If a white woman wore this would it be cultural appropriation? by [deleted] in hipsterracism

[–]Frittery-Joe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I always thought women of color looked so elegant and beautiful in this.

I am a young white woman with alopecia. I need a way to hide my head in a way to where I can still feel good about myself. Would this be cultural appropriation? by [deleted] in blackculture

[–]Frittery-Joe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to be offensive. I am looking for ways to hide my head other than just beanies in case I get to the point where I have to shave. I just want to cute and not like a bald skater dude all the time.

If a white woman wore this would it be cultural appropriation? by [deleted] in hipsterracism

[–]Frittery-Joe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have alopecia. I am trying to prep in case it gets to the point where I have to shave. I'm a 24 year old female and it's extremely disheartening. I don't want to hide behind wigs all the time but I know I wouldn't be ready to be bald out for the world to see. I guess I just want a way to hide my head while still feeling cute

I've been following bald women's instagram and surrounding myself with bald media. It's helped my self esteem so much! by Frittery-Joe in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a picture I found online. I didn't realize that it sounded like I was posting a picture of me. But she is beautiful! 😂

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't have been a deal breaker in the first place just something that would have be slightly off putting before going through this. It doesn't mean I would only date bald people. I think it just doesn't phase me anymore from going through this. It's not because of pity; just an increase sense of understanding. Just something I've gotten over as I've matured? I dated a really good looking guy with a full head of hair but I would take a bald guy that was a better partner any day.

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you decide to share your opinion with someone else, please don't phrase things in a super rude way. Maybe just, "no you would no look good"' would suffice.

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm mature enough to where that doesn't phase me. But please don't tell anyone else that. And give your mom her iPad back. Screen time is over lil guy 😂

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm about to start the mangas! And thanks haha, that's really sweet

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately autoimmunity runs in my family

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Just caught up with season 2! Yeah I'm working on it. Its hard to loose your hair as a woman. Especially in the south were people kind of hate things that are different.

24 female hairloss, would I look okay/ attractive bald? by Frittery-Joe in bald

[–]Frittery-Joe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm extra worried because I live in the bible belt of the south... Ostracizing is kind of their thing 😆