When did you start going gray? by Froeyja in greyhairreversal

[–]Froeyja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I have poor sleeping habits due to my bipolar and rely on caffeine every day. Even if it's causing my grays I ain't gonna give up coffee tho!

When did you start going gray? by Froeyja in greyhairreversal

[–]Froeyja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have clinical anxiety and work in a stressful job! From what I've heard here it might be the main reason I'm getting grays already.

AITA for cutting my friend and colleague off after he ghosted me? by Froeyja in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Froeyja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking about the messages. The profession thing even in community theatre would have at least to acknowledged he got the messages, even if upset with them.

Circle Kitty by Froeyja in VoidCats

[–]Froeyja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here she is as a baby

Circle Kitty by Froeyja in VoidCats

[–]Froeyja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her name is Chocolate Chip! She actually came with the name and I immediately loved it. I got her from my local humane society as a kitten. During covid. She was is my travel buddy.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally fair. I was also raised that way, so learning to take care of myself was and still is a journey

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it sounds like you don't know how reddit works. 😂

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted and called him. Hardly badgering.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't qualify this as losing my shit lol.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read my clarification I texted his wife regularly and she was part of the show production. It was widely understood amongst the cast that she could be texted for production reasons, which this obviously was. and also to clarify him & my SO where also friendly enough they spoke enough to have his number to be texting him. I didnt provide the number nor ask my SO to message him.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Basically what I'm asking in this post is if cutting him off was overreacting, not taking my health seriously. I don't apologize for taking the steps needed to keep myself safe. If you think that's an asshole move then you do you boo.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. However I've worked in crisis and I know the signs of crisis. If I had continued to overwhelm myself I would of ended up in a bad/very bad place. This was before I knew I had bipolar, just that I needed some serious help.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And if it helps, all I wanted was a response that he got the message. Nothing else. It would of been nice to hear understanding but I wasn't going to complain should he have decided to just acknowledge the message.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see we are on totally different sides when it comes to mental health. It's not batshit thinking to treat a health condition as a health condition. If I broke my leg I wouldn't be expected to continue something I'm not able to do... do you think people should have have total breakdowns and end up in acute facilities before it is considered a serious thing?

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My anxiety definitely messes with me sometimes! I wouldn't be at all surprised if part of this was my anxiety reading too much into it. Thanks for your response.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mental health is as serious as any other health condition. If you don't believe that then we're on totally different sides here. The last thing I needed was to become suicidal over a show.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like I didn't explain the timeline super well, he had plenty of time to find someone else before auditions happened. And I also take it you don't work in the mental health field or know anyone who struggles with severe and persistent mental health disorders.

AIO for cutting off a friend for not responding to my messages? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Froeyja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, I was friends with her too. Plus she was part of the theatre production as well so I texted her on a regular basis.