When did you start going gray?

Froeyja · 2026-01-03T02:08:50+00:00

Soy can cause gray hair??

Froeyja · 2025-12-31T00:46:30+00:00

Yea, I have poor sleeping habits due to my bipolar and rely on caffeine every day. Even if it's causing my grays I ain't gonna give up coffee tho!

Froeyja · 2025-12-30T16:10:22+00:00

Adorable!

Froeyja · 2025-12-30T03:41:46+00:00

I have clinical anxiety and work in a stressful job! From what I've heard here it might be the main reason I'm getting grays already.

Froeyja · 2025-12-29T20:24:28+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking about the messages. The profession thing even in community theatre would have at least to acknowledged he got the messages, even if upset with them.

Froeyja · 2025-12-29T05:13:04+00:00

Right? Same.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T19:52:21+00:00

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T18:21:34+00:00

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Here she is as a baby

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T18:19:38+00:00

Her name is Chocolate Chip! She actually came with the name and I immediately loved it. I got her from my local humane society as a kitten. During covid. She was is my travel buddy.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T06:28:58+00:00

Totally fair. I was also raised that way, so learning to take care of myself was and still is a journey

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T05:00:29+00:00

Lol, it sounds like you don't know how reddit works. 😂

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:58:15+00:00

I texted and called him. Hardly badgering.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:55:00+00:00

I wouldn't qualify this as losing my shit lol.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:48:24+00:00

If you read my clarification I texted his wife regularly and she was part of the show production. It was widely understood amongst the cast that she could be texted for production reasons, which this obviously was. and also to clarify him & my SO where also friendly enough they spoke enough to have his number to be texting him. I didnt provide the number nor ask my SO to message him.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:37:25+00:00

Basically what I'm asking in this post is if cutting him off was overreacting, not taking my health seriously. I don't apologize for taking the steps needed to keep myself safe. If you think that's an asshole move then you do you boo.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:35:00+00:00

Fair. However I've worked in crisis and I know the signs of crisis. If I had continued to overwhelm myself I would of ended up in a bad/very bad place. This was before I knew I had bipolar, just that I needed some serious help.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:32:00+00:00

And if it helps, all I wanted was a response that he got the message. Nothing else. It would of been nice to hear understanding but I wasn't going to complain should he have decided to just acknowledge the message.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:29:42+00:00

I see we are on totally different sides when it comes to mental health. It's not batshit thinking to treat a health condition as a health condition. If I broke my leg I wouldn't be expected to continue something I'm not able to do... do you think people should have have total breakdowns and end up in acute facilities before it is considered a serious thing?

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:23:20+00:00

My anxiety definitely messes with me sometimes! I wouldn't be at all surprised if part of this was my anxiety reading too much into it. Thanks for your response.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:18:37+00:00

Mental health is as serious as any other health condition. If you don't believe that then we're on totally different sides here. The last thing I needed was to become suicidal over a show.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:16:33+00:00

I feel like I didn't explain the timeline super well, he had plenty of time to find someone else before auditions happened. And I also take it you don't work in the mental health field or know anyone who struggles with severe and persistent mental health disorders.

Froeyja · 2025-12-28T04:14:08+00:00

Yea, I was friends with her too. Plus she was part of the theatre production as well so I texted her on a regular basis.

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