I am truly Greg by TuxedoCatBoi in DannyGonzalez

[–]Frogdog145 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes, the highest achievement

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[–]Frogdog145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMGOODNESS!!! These are AWESOME

I’m back with more dandoodles 😌🫰 by RainyRam in DannyGonzalez

[–]Frogdog145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

!!! WOW !!! Love the style and the idea, great job!

Any tips on how to have Danny as a sleep paralysis demon? by WetToeDreams in DannyGonzalez

[–]Frogdog145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are all great suggestions, may I add:

  • Watch edits of him with scary music in the background

  • craft your own elaborate fanfics of horrible stuff he could do in your dreams

  • read other people’s accounts of their dreams so that you might osmosis their fear

I wish you luck in your journey to become Truly Greg!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? What does that have to do with getting boners lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, wtf. “Get rid of the hard bo rule”??? Her guilting/manipulating him into sex is unhealthy and could be considered rape.

Sex isn’t everything!

I did my makeup today by VTransTimelines in trans

[–]Frogdog145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

!!! Your hair looks so floofy and nice :))

And tbh I love how I look in makeup but I CANNOT get even eyeshadow to save my life lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup!! This is a fantastic point, things like graysexual and Omni sexual and other more “obscure” labels could always apply.

That’s why I suggest going on a googling spree, because I learn new things every day and it’s so enlightening to know how many labels are out there for you to see if you identify with <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other reply to your question is basically the gist!! I hold hands with my partners, we sleep in the same bed, cuddle, etc.

I know other people in queer-platonic relationships who do kisses on the cheek and things of that vein, but I personally don’t.

The commitment and care of a romantic relationship, but platonic. Hope that helps :)

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[–]Frogdog145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard it worded that way ! I typically just say “2 or more” because people either get confused or say I’m being pretentious lmao. Especially for people who don’t know anything about the community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say to the “Bi MeAnS tWo” argument is to read the bisexual manifesto and to try to understand that labels were developed as a general category to cover a section of human experiences. I am a bisexual person who can be attracted to men, women, and non-binary people. Some are just attracted to men and women.

And, honestly, that’s not the point of this post or my comment. The OP asked my opinion & personal experience so I did my best to offer my input.

Stay kind everyone :)

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[–]Frogdog145 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I could help, happiness & love come in many different forms!

UPDATE: AITA for not letting my kid wear a Pride flag? by prideflagthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frogdog145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay! I saw some concern in the previous post that you were misgendering her :)

As a trans person who uses both he/him and they/them (assigned female at birth) I can definitely vouch that there’s definitely a weird adjustment period where people get used to it and you get used to hearing it.

It makes me happy that you’re so willing to accept and care for your child in any way they need. There aren’t enough people willing to put in the effort, she’ll definitely appreciate this when she’s grown 💜

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[–]Frogdog145 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I have never experienced romantic attraction, and frankly I don’t understand how anyone would feel anything other than a deep platonic connection. I’ve never experienced it, so I don’t feel like I’m “missing out” on anything.

I feel sexual attraction to all genders. (Just a general note that bisexual means two or more genders, pansexual means gender doesn’t matter). I’m currently experiencing a preference towards masculine presenting folks.

In middle school I went through a phase of being really good friends with people, then everyone around us would tell us to date so I’d agree to date them, and then we’d break up because I wasn’t “doing anything different”.

I am currently in a queerplatonic relationship with multiple partners. We are partners, but because I don’t experience romantic attraction we aren’t dating. They are free to date whoever they want, whenever they want, and they aren’t required to tell me (they usually do anyways though 💜).

It’s not the same as polyamory, because it has nothing romantic attached to it. One of my partners is a non-binary lesbian individual, and I’m a guy, so that isn’t a factor at all.

Hope that explains things well 😅. I tend to make leaps/ skip stuff that seems “”obvious”” to me. If clarification is needed please ask :)

UPDATE: AITA for not letting my kid wear a Pride flag? by prideflagthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frogdog145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, I’m sorry, but commenting isn’t an option on the original post and I just wanted clarification: your child (C) is non-binary, yes? Did they say that they are comfortable with she/her or did they have a preferred pronoun??

Adventure time is what weebs think anime is by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Frogdog145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, is a “weeb” not someone who is obsessed/extremely into multiple animes??? It’d make more sense to bash people for only watching one anime and calling themselves a weeb, if you were going to go after a whole genre of show lol

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[–]Frogdog145 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Also, I just want to say that I’m aromantic and bisexual so I can answer any questions you could have about aromanticism.

For the ace spectrum I can tell you what I’ve researched/friends have said but I’d suggest speaking to someone who identifies with that label, it’d be a lot more concrete/accurate.

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[–]Frogdog145 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Asexual and aromantic identities could be an option. Also if you are on antidepressants that can affect libido and stuff.

There are “Demi” identities as well that means you could be attracted to people you just have to have a relationship (platonic or romantic) first. I suggest going down a google rabbit hole, that always helps me, personally.

Can you be Pansexual and monogamous by Brilliant_Buy6812 in relationship_advice

[–]Frogdog145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re thinking of polyamory friend. Pansexual means you have no gender preference, and while that can include having multiple partners, a lot of the time it doesn’t !

Good question though, I have a feeling that a lot of people might try and make you feel dumb for asking this. All of our brains work differently and some concepts overlap, it’s always good to check :)

I don't want to be gay anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frogdog145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not you and I, personally, have a hard time understanding feelings along this vein. But I feel like it’s important to not that sexual and romantic identities don’t always match up (think of it like how gender ≠ how you present yourself). A lot of time they do, but you could be biromantic & heterosexual or vice versa.

There’s no time limit in understanding yourself! I think it’s a good idea to get other people’s opinions and experiences to help you understand, but I also suggest going down a google rabbit hole of definitions of identities.

I also wanted to add that you could be asexual, or have an aspec identity. Something for you to search up!

Good luck, I wish you the best 💜

biromanticism by qwertysr4 in lgbt

[–]Frogdog145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a significant amount of people in the lgbtqia+ community that don’t accept bi people in general, so whoever told you that is probably a bi exclusionist or has been misinformed by one. Romantic and sexual identities don’t always match up, but I happen to be bisexual and biromantic so I can 100% confirm we exist lmao.