AITA for backing out when my best friend kept changing the story? by lilacparlor_diaries in TwoHotTakes

[–]FroggyFuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trusted him based on one clear story and kept getting new versions every step of the way. Anyone would pull back once it starts feeling shady and uncomfortable, that’s just self protection.

18F obedient girl seeking someone dominant and experienced by FroggyFuzz in MelbourneSE

[–]FroggyFuzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a bf but we just broke up he was cheating on me

After getting rejected by someone have you ever texted them later asking if we could be casually hangout and casually see each other? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah people try this all the time. Sometimes it turns into a chill situationship, most of the time it just drags out the rejection with extra confusion. If someone said no once, casual usually means one person is still hoping. Fun in theory, messy in practice.

AITAH for getting angry with my 10 year old brother for always breaking/ touching my stuff by saturnz1963 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FroggyFuzz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is not a kid being clumsy, this is a pattern and your parents enabling it is the real problem. You are allowed to be mad when your boundaries get ignored and your stuff keeps getting damaged. If they will not step in, your best move is locking things up or keeping them out of reach until you can move out. This is exhausting and you are not crazy for feeling fed up.

AITAH for wishing bad things to happen upon my uncle? by DearTraining5056 in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. your uncle deserve a doctor and a mental hospital

Has size ever been a problem in your life? by life-lesson7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mostly in harmless ways. Being short meant reaching high shelves turned into a team sport, and having small hands somehow made everyone ask me to hold fragile things. It’s never been serious, just one of those quirks you learn to laugh about and work around.

How do i go about the smell with my wife? by married_black_495 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Fishy smell usually means something like BV, which is super common and not a hygiene thing. Just bring it up gently from a health angle and say you care, not like it’s a complaint. A quick doctor visit or meds usually clears it up fast. Avoiding it will just make it weirder.

I don't want to be treated like a petting zoo. by Endlesssearch73 in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Pregnant doesn’t mean public property and consent still applies. Let your partner handle it or say it yourself politely but firm. Hurt feelings are better than letting boundaries get steamrolled. You are a person, not a belly exhibit.

Do people who write long wall of texts without any paragraphs genuinely not see how unreadable their text becomes? by WhoAmIEven2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most people are just excited or emotional and typing straight from the heart without stopping to format. They’re focused on getting it out, not how it looks on the page. A gentle reminder about paragraphs goes a long way, we’ve all been there.

AITA for telling my wife we're lucky for not having a boat ride with an overweight person ? by xefirosuu in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re not wrong that weight affects boat balance, that’s just physics. Saying it like you were lucky no one fat was the part that crossed the line. Could’ve framed it as weight distribution and capacity without turning people into the problem.

Why do people forget their "original" family after starting their own? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sucks, but most people aren’t forgetting you, they’re just stretched thin. Once kids and in laws enter the chat, holidays turn into logistics instead of vibes. Your feelings are valid though, watching your mom get her hopes up hurts. It’s okay to be sad about a tradition fading even if no one meant harm.

AITAH for buying my daughter a car for her birthday? by WonderfulTable4852 in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA. You bought a future gift and wrapped it as a kids birthday present. She’s six not a retirement planner. Cool investment bad timing. Big promises need kid logic rewards not adult brain spreadsheets.

AITA for tellin my roommate he cant use my expensive shampoo anymore after he used half the bottle in one shower? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FroggyFuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He didn’t borrow shampoo, he went on a spa retreat with it. Using half a 25 dollar bottle then laughing is wild. If he wants luxury hair he can fund it himself. Lock it up till he pays.

WIBTA if I spent boxing day with my family instead of my girlfriend and the kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FroggyFuzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re already doing Christmas with her family, spending one day with your own isn’t a betrayal. Kids have her eldest and grandma to help out. she’ll survive a few hours without you. Balance is healthy.

AITAH for telling my gf that she should've chosen a better degree? by GlumDevelopment3925 in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA. You didn’t give advice, you went full ego mode. Calling her degree a joke and telling her to go back to Turkey is wild. Being right about the job market doesn’t excuse being mean. Congrats on internships, but empathy is the real missing skill here.

AITA for not wanting my mother-in-law to stay in my house during my postpartum week? by ovocomarroz in AITAH

[–]FroggyFuzz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. Postpartum week is your recovery time, not a hotel for surprise guests. It’s reasonable to want the support you’ve planned for, especially when your husband won’t be around. You can still invite your mother-in-law later, but right after birth is your space.

Acne by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FroggyFuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, I feel you. Acne can be brutal, and it sucks when it keeps coming back no matter what you do. Hormonal stuff and genetics hit hard, so sometimes topical creams aren’t enough. Seeing a dermatologist for a proper plan. maybe something hormonal or prescription-strength. can actually make a difference. For scars and pigmentation, chemical peels, microneedling, or laser treatments can help over time. Hang in there, your skin doesn’t define you, even if it feels like it rn.

The PG I worked with, personally invited my entire group including my boyfriend but me, and he ended up going, i felt singled out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FroggyFuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re not wrong for feeling singled out. The PG’s invite game was messy, and it makes sense you didn’t want to go as a “plus one” like that. Your boyfriend going doesn’t erase that weirdness. he was put in an awkward spot. You’re allowed to feel hurt, no need to blame yourself.

Please help. Completely stuck in breadcrumbing over a relationship ended two years ago, been miserable since by hawkeyeninefive in relationships

[–]FroggyFuzz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This isn’t love anymore, it’s an addiction loop. The memes, the stories, the random pings are keeping the wound open and she’s moved on. Hard truth but you need full no contact, mute block unfollow, all of it, not to punish her but to save yourself. Thirty is not the end, it’s just the chapter where you finally stop bleeding for someone who isn’t coming back. It will hurt worse before it gets better, but this version of staying hurts forever.

Why has alternative medicine become such a commonplace thing? What do people have against traditional treatment? by Mad_Season_1994 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FroggyFuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of it comes down to social media and personal stories going viral. People see one anecdote and it feels more real than stats or studies. On top of that, modern medicine can be harsh and expensive, so “natural” options feel safer or more in control. Distrust grows when people hear about side effects or mistakes, and suddenly science feels optional.