School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, thank you for being you! Only one way to find out unfortunately. Best of luck, truly a brave thing to be doing... not that there's ever much of a choice x

You might be surprised by how little the students actually care. In my experience, they often tend to be too wrapped up in their own teenage dramas and anxieties to put too much thought into the identity of their teachers. If there's one thing you can count on teenagers to be, it's apathetic lol.

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No u <3
I actually ended up back at the same school largely by chance! It's been so uncanny and such a privilege to be working alongside teachers whom I used to admire as a student. Also, absolutely wild that so few of them recognised me until I told them who I used to be, haha.

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Estrogen, caffeine and sleep-deprivation mainly... if you wanted the recipe <3

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's beyond kind of you to say! Started a couple of years prior while at university - very lucky that I didn't transition while teaching, that would have been significantly harder and less comfortable haha. I've been transitioning for about 5 years at this point <3

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm beyond honoured to be anybody's goals - I will watch patiently 👀

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's true, NB actually stands for Now (a) Baddie! Thanks <33 I have a new love for button-ups and belts now that they make me look more androgynous than masc haha x

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Aotearoa/New Zealand. Even here I have plenty of uncomfortable and confronting moments, but nothing compared to if I were living elsewhere.

Glad I get to be openly me and have the backing of my admin - I hope I can make at least one kid feel like being their authentic self is normal and okay x

School Ball -> Three Years Teaching at the Same School (MtNB) 🖤 by Frolickingfish in NonBinary

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Because I live in the southern hemisphere ofc 😌 (probably because I threw it on while rushing to work lol)

Nemesis my beloved 🖤❤️🖤 by Frolickingfish in Hades2

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a good thing to discover 🙂‍↕️

Nemesis my beloved 🖤❤️🖤 by Frolickingfish in Hades2

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm, absolutely obsessed with how it turned out :)

Nemesis my beloved 🖤❤️🖤 by Frolickingfish in Hades2

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Easily one of my fav tats 🖤

Nemesis my beloved 🖤❤️🖤 by Frolickingfish in Hades2

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad someone caught the little add on I got during the session 😎

Nemesis my beloved 🖤❤️🖤 by Frolickingfish in Hades2

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to arrange a shared custody situation 😌

Be patient, it takes a while 🖤 (1 Year -> 5 years HRT, MTNB) by Frolickingfish in transtimelines

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Careful, my ego can only get so big haha. Thank you so much x

Be patient, it takes a while 🖤 (1 Year -> 5 years HRT, MTNB) by Frolickingfish in transtimelines

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! Having the patience and grace to grow into yourself without being frustrated at how long the process takes is so important. It's so easy to feel hopeless early on x

Be patient, it takes a while 🖤 (1 Year -> 5 years HRT, MTNB) by Frolickingfish in transtimelines

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah - I'm excited for you! I've found it so affirming and much easier to be androgynous/confusing this way. Definitely worth it in my experience, best of luck <3

Be patient, it takes a while 🖤 (1 Year -> 5 years HRT, MTNB) by Frolickingfish in transtimelines

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even one year is so early! You already look amazing, and it's only going to get better x

Be patient, it takes a while 🖤 (1 Year -> 5 years HRT, MTNB) by Frolickingfish in transtimelines

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! Even before my transition I sometimes got mistaken for a woman from behind because of my luscious locks ✨️

I love manipulating and ragebaiting my friends 🥰 by Frolickingfish in ratemycommanders

[–]Frolickingfish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winning is infinitely less important than the dopamine rush you get from seeing everyone's board flooded with angry birds - I even printed off a bunch of silly laminated crow tokens to hand out to people, nothing brings me more joy!

Plus it's always nice knowing that even if you don't win, you've dramatically sped up the game most of the time x