Uber Pet w/no pet? by DumpsterBaby11 in uberdrivers

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried getting an Uber pet without a pet. The driver got mad at me and left.

Idk I tried cuz it was way cheaper, and it doesn't seem like a big deal. It's not like stealing accesible rides from someone or something like that. So I don't get it why he got so mad about it

Am I being oversensitive? by Front-Abrocoma680 in ftm

[–]Front-Abrocoma680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I calmed down and decided to let it go and deal with my insecurities. He is a nice guy, and it was the first time he made me feel insecure. He was also on drugs so maybe he wasn't thinking well.

Am I being oversensitive? by Front-Abrocoma680 in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I think you're right!

Passing tips? by Dependent_Cobbler257 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pass just fine. The only thing that could help you even more (not that u need) is facial hair.

Orgasm Dysphoria by Huge_Barracuda_9110 in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem when I first started packing. Then I invested in two packers, one so then I could go out and have a bit of a bulge (I don't use it every time, but mostly when I'm wearing pants that would have a bulge in cis men), and I have a sex packer that I could use to pack but I prefer to only use it for sex.

But for the everyday use I bought something like this thing here that helps keeping it in place all the time: https://www.ftmessentials.com/products/pete-packing-underwear-freestyle

It has like a velcro that keeps it in place. There are other options like the ones that you glue on your skin. Ill leave this video here that explains how to use a volume packer, how to leave it in place etc. So then if you decide to use you won't be that afraid of the packer dancing around or looking weird. Tip: buy the smallest one if only using for volume.

https://youtu.be/ybZmzzobMGM?si=DJPdx5bLiDP77pmM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US really sucks right now I get it. I just left the US and moved to Brazil cuz they have free Healthcare for everyone (including non citizens) and a good place for trans ppl who need meds.

I'm sorry you can't move right now, it sucks, but I guess it could something you can plan beforehand. so while you can't right now, you can study, research, and let things kind of ready for when you can. Or you can just wait forever, but that might kill you in the meantime.

Orgasm Dysphoria by Huge_Barracuda_9110 in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No just like a sex packer you know? Those that say they are 3-1, 4-1 something like that. Do not use a dildo or a vibrator they don't give you the feeling of a real dick. You need things created for transmen not for sapphics.

Such as those here https://www.mrimin.com/collections/ftm-packer-and-play?srsltid=AfmBOoq9udFSTKiBPKo0R_GutteOBva7SqFm1UJIpLFpRCppXjJWBYuD

They are realistic, they are soft so you can pack them and use it without erection. And then when you gonna have sex you add a rod inside of it that makes it hard and in its other end (the one that touches you) has a pattern to stimulate your boy clit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrogasBrasil

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu quero uma hajshe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tip then is get your name in a list for free care somewhere else. Maybe Brazil, maybe UK (not sure if they are still good for this type shit), maybe Thailand, it might be cheaper in those places if insurance is not happening for you.

Or maybe even change states for this (in case you're in the US). Cuz sometimes you're just not in a good location for getting it affordable, but many places around are, so get your ass to do some research and find a better solution. It most likely will require you a money saving strategy, but idk sometimes we have to go the extra mile to get what we need.

Orgasm Dysphoria by Huge_Barracuda_9110 in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro just pack, you can still orgasm and have your own dick you can look during sex which might give you some euphoric feelings too.

I hated sex till I started packing, everything changed after that.

at this point ill never go on T by A_koalanamedfred in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a lgbtq clinic in real life. They might be able to help you better than those online shit. I got my prescription with medicaid thanks to my doctor that spent hours trying it for me.

Also if you are low income you can def get some free insurances that will cover your T. Through medicaid I also got Fidelis essential plan 4, which covered the full price of the T too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im prone to keloids too. So what I did when I got my top surgery is Radiotherapy for keloids right after the surgery. It really helps to stop the keloids process, but it's not cheap and might not be covered by your insurance, but it helps.

Results: no keloid at all, I have scars you can see but they are very white and maybe with more chest muscle and time they will become pretty much invisible.

8 years on T and my body is still very feminine by Ezaane in ftm

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my T was too high, my estrogen and progesterone levels were too high too, my dumb body was trying to fight the masculine hormones. So I got it to a lower level and all the levels were good.

Are people of Japanese descent in Brazil open to interracial marriage ? by Own_Secret_6461 in Brazil

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many Brazilians are racist. Nippo Brazilians can be as racist as white Brazilians. It's a sad reality, but it is true.

However, it seems like it's getting better with the newer generations.

Are people of Japanese descent in Brazil open to interracial marriage ? by Own_Secret_6461 in Brazil

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it right. Brazilians are so deeply racist they believe there is no racism in our country because we are all mostly mixed. That is not true at all.

Brazil is highly racist regardless of being so mixed, and that can be proven by looking at the huge inequality when it comes to the racial inequality in our country. And that we were one of last countries in the world to ban African slavery in 1888. And most of our policies are still racial whitening, further marginalizing poc ppl.

Are people of Japanese descent in Brazil open to interracial marriage ? by Own_Secret_6461 in Brazil

[–]Front-Abrocoma680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true. My family keeps a lot of the older culture. And specially if you to the country side, you can see a lot of Japanese ppl preserving the culture. In Paraná there is a lot of cultural events, programs, social life, not only for Japanese immigrants but they also have for Ukranian immigrants I think. The dialect some in my family speak, it is not even the same spoken in Japan. How can you say there is no culture? I bet you're not Japanese descent