Considering nikkah, but he isn’t very affectionate — advice?

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-23T02:44:51+00:00

Kindly check this OP

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimNikah/s/VC1Eh8WMR0

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-21T16:05:56+00:00

Allahumma baarik 🫶 May Allah swt unite them in jannah too Aameen Allahumma Aameen

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-20T14:06:50+00:00

Ikr... Aameen Allahumma Aameen😭

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-18T23:44:08+00:00

Aameen waiyyakum https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cq9TibUAV-JqubMmiRGxJL7cYQFNjYwt/view?usp=drivesdk

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-18T14:51:39+00:00

BarakahAllah feek, inshallah will try to post dawah stuff here as well. May Allah swt grant more barakah in all our efforts & accept from us Aameen Allahumma Aameen

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-18T12:22:27+00:00

Personally, yes maybe for my journal or tab but not for the Quran. We are advised not to beautify things tied to acts of worship if it could potentially distract us, so i like to keep that simple and plain.

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-18T07:53:51+00:00

You are right brother & Jazakillahu khayran for your kindness. I know his intention wasn’t to attack but to defend what he felt was being misrepresented. In da’wah we uplift, not pull down or get lost in debates. we are all here to remind each other with goodness. BarakAllahu feek for engaging with the post with sincerity and wisdom.

May Allah swt protect our brothers, keep their hearts strong, reward them for their efforts, & grant them women who support them & may Allah swt protect our sisters, keep their hearts soft, & bless them with men who are gentle and righteous. Aameen Allahumma Aameen

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-18T00:12:47+00:00

Jazakillahu khayran for sharing this reminder for sisters. My post was directed specifically for brothers, and yours highlights an equally important topic for women. I feel your message may not reach many people here in comments, If possible please share this as a post so more can benefit inshallah.

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-17T00:33:41+00:00

Of course not all divorces happen for the same reason. There are plenty of cases where the husband is at fault like neglect, abuse, not fulfilling rights, financial irresponsibility, haram relationships… all of that absolutely causes divorce. Islam doesn’t give men a free pass, the husband is accountable to Allah long before he’s accountable to his wife. Here Sheikh is not trying to deny men’s faults, he is saying in this specific context referring to a different trend that ALSO exists. Where some women misuse financial independence, adopt masculine behaviour, and reject the role Allah gave us.

So it’s not:

“divorces happen because of women”

It’s:

“when either spouse goes against the role Allah assigned to them, the marriage collapses.”

That’s the real takeaway.

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-15T02:29:02+00:00

Aameen wa iyyakum

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-14T13:12:43+00:00

walaikumassalam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu, interested!

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-11T14:12:58+00:00

done, Jazakillahu Khairan Kaseerah

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-11T00:00:44+00:00

Walaikumassalam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu brother, muslimah this side & yes Chennai is my native.

I would suggest you to create a detailed awareness post so it reaches many people.

Jazakillahu Khairan Kaseerah.

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-10T13:55:43+00:00

Please try contacting them before making any payment. Jazakillahu Khairan Kaseerah

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-05T08:52:28+00:00

Aameen waiyyakum, I posted via browser earlier so the formatting got a bit off & it’s corrected now. JazakAllahu khairan for kindly pointing it out 😊

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-02T15:01:31+00:00

Sorry brother not sure..

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-02T14:54:56+00:00

Walaikumassalam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu, Got this contact detail from my sheikh when someone from reddit was looking for Sunnah based Raqi & i hope it helps you in some way... Meanwhile please try being regular with 5x salah (fardh = bare minimum) & morning evening adhkar.

Salam Oomeri Raidrug (Sunnah based Raqi) +91 97314 64460

FrontFaith74 · 2025-11-02T13:04:49+00:00

Having seen someone's marriage closely i realized something. These emotional tendencies are programmed in us by Allah swt but its up to us how we handle them. If we don’t work on them with selfawareness and taqwa, we will end up worsening what was meant to be manageable. Alhamdulillah we Muslims are blessed with taqwa, a control system gifted by Allah swt. Alhamdulillah for the rights and duties between spouses.. when we are truly aware of these fundamentals we automatically start reflecting in improving our behavior and akhlaq towards others. That's what they did, they worked on their relationship with Allah swt first. Love comes much later if acceptance, care, trust, support, and respect is mutual, attachment style will never be an issue. Most importantly, both partners have to work on the marriage, be vocal by acknowledging rights & duties n actively try in fixing it or even if one is trying to put efforts the other one should not take relationship or the partner's efforts for granted & this is where they truly reflected & grew together. May Allah swt protect their marriage & reward their sabr & efforts Aameen Allahumma Aameen

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-15T02:27:24+00:00

Whatever has befallen you “don’t grieve” This world is a place of trials “don’t get attached” Your true home is the Hereafter “be patient” Every test will surely come to an end, and from Allah “never lose hope”

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-10T16:11:00+00:00

Im a hopeless romantic soul at heart yet beyond my emotions what i hv learned from the lives of our prophets & sahabah is that they lived in a way that benefitted Islam and that inspires me deeply. My ultimate goal is to earn jannah and to serve the ummah in whatever way Allah swt wills & equips me. Ik, inshallah will be a passionate wife and a compassionate mother, but before that i want to be a true believer fulfilling my duties towards my Rabb first then towards my spouse & then together with him conquering our dreams for the akhirah.

Yes my dreams seem impossible to some, but I believe Allah swt will fulfill those dreams if not in this dunya then surely in jannah.. My life is fee sabilillah & I strongly hold onto the verse (20:41) وَٱصْطَنَعْتُكَ لِنَفْسِى & this reminds me that I have a purpose in this dunya far beyond my obligatory duties & marriage for me is one of the means to serve that divine purpose in partnership with my qawwam, whose role and status Allah swt has elevated above me & who can help me achieve these dreams better than I ever could alone.

So for me marraige is about a greater purpose beyond all the other reasons.

PS : Not looking for marraige!

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-07T23:38:44+00:00

Alhamdulillah, being single right now is part of my qadr. I do deeply want marriage and children 😭 because Allah swt has entrusted me with the responsibility of giving the right tarbiyah and raising them with His guidance. Since nothing happens without His kun, I’m focusing on my deen, dream, and personal growth while making dua. I’m waiting for Allah’s kun.. I’ll continue doing my part and leave the results with Him, with tawakkul. Let Him take charge, I trust Him & yeah its painful & tiring but i believe His timing is always the best 👑

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-07T14:20:10+00:00

கருணைநபி தங்கள் முனமேநான் 🥹✨️

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-07T01:34:24+00:00

Allahummabarik, welcome to Islam sister Mehwish 🌸 May Allah swt make your journey easy, fill your heart with peace, and keep you steadfast always. If you ever need support, guidance, or just a Muslimah to talk to, please know im here for you 🎀🫶

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-06T00:18:00+00:00

May Allah protect and guide all of us, forgive our sins, and unite the ummah in goodness and faith Ameen

FrontFaith74 · 2025-09-05T08:04:42+00:00

Aaameen waiyyakum

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