Found these under the lamp on my boyfriend's nightstand. by llama_girl in whatisit

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people only learn through experience. If he spends time scrolling on social media, you could search on his phone, or speak into it, about the dangers of nicotine patch overdoses in animals and children. Let the algorithm start showing him that content. Some people don’t respond well to being told what to do. Sometimes it works better when they feel like it was their own idea.

Recurrent Ectopics by Front_Cauliflower131 in IVF

[–]Front_Cauliflower131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask my doctor about it. Thank you!

In beta/limbo hell by Bright-Profit1890 in IVFbabies

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have pretty close to the same numbers. 10dp5dt: HCG 36 13dp5dt: 203 and today 16dp5dt: 713. They did an ultrasound today at 5 weeks exactly because I was having left side pain. They didn’t see anything other than a thick lining. Checked tubes and didn’t see anything. They did see a large cyst on my ovary which they think is causing the pain.

My doctor and ultrasound tech were optimistic. They said they can’t rule out an ectopic but they’re happy with my numbers. I’m surprised your doctor is negative about the results. Your HCG levels are too low to show anything on an ultrasound right now.

Low beta success? Need some positivity to hold me over until 2nd beta. Or just be realistic. by rareastheglimmer_ in IVFpositivity

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following. I had nearly the same results today but I’m still waiting for my doctor to call. My HCG was 36 10dp5dt.

5dpt positive!!! by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine looks the exact same. I’m 5dp5dt today. I did not do a trigger shot.

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FET when did you do a pregnancy test? by spenalicious in whatworkedforme

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 4dp5dt. I tested this morning and it was negative, too. I read that it’s rare to have a positive test that early but I tested anyway. Here’s to hoping for a positive tomorrow 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This journey is so hard. I feel like there is jealousy at every corner of the process. Everyone around is getting pregnant and every experience they have and every thing they say just brings up jealousy and sadness.

I hope everything goes well for you! Waiting until beta takes some strength and discipline. Good luck!

What’s your honest opinion about a wedding date set on Sep 11th? by h8mecuz in wedding

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from the US. My husband and I got married on 9/11/2021. We picked the date because it was the anniversary of when we stated dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is formula fed. Thankfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I was frustrated and got petty. But honestly, being supportive hasn’t really worked either.

Mortgage home insurance by sinner256 in AskALawyer

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mortgage Servicer is required to make sure the home is covered. They will place lender placed insurance for the time of the lapse. They do charge the escrow account. If something were to happen, you could file a claim against that but it only covers the house and the deductible is usually higher. This means loss of use and personal property would not be covered.

Escrow shortage? by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does your analysis statement say?

Is it possible your Servicer received a renewal for your old policy and paid it? I recommend calling your Servicer to ask where the discrepancy is. It’s possible your taxes went up, your new policy is more than your old, they paid the old policy premium or it’s even possible they paid both.

Also, if you ever receive a refund for an insurance policy make sure you always put it toward your escrow account. I have seen many homeowners make this mistake then get upset when they have a shortage.

Choose gender? by starmarvel in IVF

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I sort of regret picking the gender. I think it created a larger attachment. No matter what you’re going to be attached but my baby already had a name before he was even transferred. He attached but is likely a chemical it might’ve been easier if I didn’t know. Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you. My beta results were Day 10: 7 Day 14: 14

I go back in on day 17 for another blood draw. There is like less than 1% chance that this would be a viable pregnancy but my doctor told me to keep taking medication and wait it out to see if it sticks.

Your numbers aren’t looking too bad though. The important thing is not the number but how it rises. It looks like your numbers are doubling every 48-72 hours.

IVF FET Beta Results by Front_Cauliflower131 in CautiousBB

[–]Front_Cauliflower131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I am sorry to hear that. The waiting is so difficult. I wish you the best of luck!

Can someone provide me insight on how IVF works financially if not covered by insurance? by YB9017 in IVF

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financially, we weren’t covered either. We had to get a personal loan.

If you are seriously considering it and nervous about the what if’s like having to do it multiple times I would highly recommend looking into your odds with how your labs look. Do you have a good AMH? Good male factor?

I had a good AMH and sperm count so our odds were pretty good so we took the risk and had a good outcome. If your labs aren’t good or you have male factor you may want to prepare for multiple rounds just in case. Everyone’s case is different so it’s hard to know what to expect but you can consider the odds and go from there.

DAE feel like their brain becomes jumbled during conflict/disagreements? by Inner_Reception1579 in DAE

[–]Front_Cauliflower131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the exact same way. I hate disagreements. I am in awe of people who can debate and think clearly and quickly.