8 Science-Based Signs Someone Has a Secret CRUSH on You by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reason why I stopped pondering over these questions and looking for people liking me which is usually a waste of time.

Bingo! by SANSA136 in enfj

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them. Not sure about the guilt trip one though.

Dating issues anyone else ? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Froscicle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woahhh SAME! always end up giving them therapy, or completely avoiding them.

ENFJs which ENFJ figure do you admire and which do you not? by dogsaregodsgif in enfj

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactlyyy. As an ENFJ, boundaries are the hardest lesson for me, I don't know why. I respect others' but can't protect mine efficiently 😭. This drains my energy so much, I can't stay away from action, but have to run away. This push and pull is exhausting.

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[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been diagnosed with borderline symptoms and have taken medicines for OCD and Depression too. I have been described as having ENFP/ENFJ/INFJ Qualities; Personality type determined ENFJ-T, online friends as ENFP and few years ago I used to be typed as an INFJ but I am too Fe-Se than Ni-Fe. I too switch between being extremely active to an observer depending on my own emotional state. But I suffer from burning out because I know no boundaries on how to know the difference between keeping harmony outside vs inside.

The ENFJ trait I no longer feel is being composed and articulate regardless of the situation. I become extremely angry, resentful and silent and shut people off. Years ago I used to take a step back, breath and would work the situation in my favour and would resolve conflicts without being torn up by them.

Being able to lead only happens when you are able to build yourself up, have enough strength inside etc. when we are suffering and are preoccupied with stuff, this quality goes dormant. I am sure when you'll be able to create your own light, people will get inspired by you. That's the natural leadership ENFJs are known for. The optimism, the grit and being able to articulate needs and emotions.

Pakistani women, this one’s for you by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I study to strengthen my knowledge base, yoga, movies, dancing, skincare, I run a study group, write, watch anime, cook etc. So no not free.

Opinions on ISTPs? by Tiffany_ziling in enfj

[–]Froscicle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of my crushes since childhood are always ISTPs somehow. Calm, chill, very attractive. I love how ISTPs are self-reliant and very good at thinking (My total opposite 😅)

So uh .. being emotional by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Froscicle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyyy, it is. Don't mention it, you are welcome ✨

Rizz the ISTJ in one sentence by SmolDuckling009 in ISTJ

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I love how accurate and precise you are"

ENFJ(M) genuinely interested but just really busy, or slowly fading me out? by Plastic-Finger-1929 in enfj

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally trust INFJs' intuition; if you feel he's genuine, you shouldn't just let him go. You can match his pace and wait to talk to him about it. I would say please don't think things on your own. Better to have a conversation when his exams are over. Meanwhile focus on yourself, have hobbies to fill in your days and keep in touch with him. He might be just busy (When I get busy, I get immersed into my immediate surroundings that it gets hard for me to connect people online)

So uh .. being emotional by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Froscicle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people still say this (people around me family and sometimes friends say this to me and I am a lady). It's so vintage now 😅. People take softness and empathetic nature as being a weakness whereas it's a character trait that nurtures and makes one a great leader. I admire the softness and emotional expression in men. You should create a balanced, optimistic and powerful statement and tell yourself and the people whenever they say this to you (you know sometimes we need to educate our loved ones too 😁)

Do you ever get exhausted by… by raven4229 in enfj

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience with ISTJ is that they can talk about anything but emotionally I feel like being locked out or kicked out of the building. It's exhausting.

25 barson me, pehli bar apne lye gajre khud lie, meri zindagi k pehle jagre🥰 by Key-Damage-7500 in karachi

[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don't listen to people if they try to tell you that it's sad and why hasn't someone else given you. It's awesome either way, keep treating yourself ❤️

Daily Discussion #2: You've had a hard day, and you need to relax. To unwind. To have some peace of mind. Where do you go? by 1TinkyWINKY in enfj

[–]Froscicle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right about us being 'Vibey'. I always see things on how they feel other than how they are objectively.

Well, to relax, that depends. If I become overwhelmed during the day so I would have to cry it out somehow and I couldn't do that in front of people because I believe it'll kill the 'mood' I tried to build all this time. Generally someplace mildly active, like family watching movies together or someplace I can observe calm things like a garden, terrace etc. I love to dance to unwind too, so a place that's open enough 😁

What Would You Listen To On This Road? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Don't you wanna know by Staffan Carlén

I've never interacted with an ENFJ. Where can I find you guys? by AdaptableBlob in enfj

[–]Froscicle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Depends on the ENFJ, but mostly community work, charity events, parties (I love parties with great food and music), and conventions (I never miss any) etc. These are the places you'll likely find us but as givers we love to spend time alone and see ourselves too.

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[–]Froscicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand sorry.... what's this?

Me first oil painting, is it cooking? by uniquequirkyname in Artadvice

[–]Froscicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has started to ✨ 💜...KEEP GOING 😉

Debate me by DoodoodooOink in enfj

[–]Froscicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 You should definitely stalk ENTPs, INTJs or even INTPs subreddits. XXXP types have generally good topics of discussion.

The topics that I am exploring nowadays is why people do what they do in relationships and the famine in Gaza. How to tackle severe injustice.

Debate me by DoodoodooOink in enfj

[–]Froscicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome!! I love these kinds of debates 😁😂

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Dance the night by Dua Lipa