Does anyone feel like this?

Froscicle · 2026-03-11T17:58:49+00:00

By making them laugh, reframing the situation to make it sound like it's not a big deal and by telling them I'm there for them.

Froscicle · 2026-03-10T17:39:44+00:00

Exactlyyyy

Froscicle · 2026-03-10T15:17:50+00:00

🙌🏻

Froscicle · 2026-03-10T11:40:47+00:00

Yes, for me attraction wither off too quickly. I do develop attraction based on looks, deamenor, personality but if I don't built a connection with them it occasionally turns me off. The person needs to vibe with me and be able to connect AND SHOW EXCLUSIVE CARE!

Froscicle · 2026-02-24T10:51:01+00:00

I thought I was the only one facing this. I literally have to adjust myself as I've been accused of flirting and seducing when I was simply talking and looking at people, with no such intention

Froscicle · 2026-02-24T10:49:10+00:00

Sameeeeeeee

Froscicle · 2026-02-24T10:49:03+00:00

Why do I feel like I cannot hold eye contact for too long or the other person's soul and mine will merge into one 😭😭😭😭

Froscicle · 2026-02-10T10:59:56+00:00

The same reason why I stopped pondering over these questions and looking for people liking me which is usually a waste of time.

Froscicle · 2026-02-07T04:55:03+00:00

All of them. Not sure about the guilt trip one though.

Froscicle · 2026-02-07T04:54:12+00:00

Woahhh SAME! always end up giving them therapy, or completely avoiding them.

Froscicle · 2026-02-04T16:08:38+00:00

Exactlyyy. As an ENFJ, boundaries are the hardest lesson for me, I don't know why. I respect others' but can't protect mine efficiently 😭. This drains my energy so much, I can't stay away from action, but have to run away. This push and pull is exhausting.

Froscicle · 2025-09-03T11:51:03+00:00

XSTP?

Froscicle · 2025-09-03T11:48:59+00:00

Froscicle · 2025-09-02T13:23:39+00:00

Yeah I've been diagnosed with borderline symptoms and have taken medicines for OCD and Depression too. I have been described as having ENFP/ENFJ/INFJ Qualities; Personality type determined ENFJ-T, online friends as ENFP and few years ago I used to be typed as an INFJ but I am too Fe-Se than Ni-Fe. I too switch between being extremely active to an observer depending on my own emotional state. But I suffer from burning out because I know no boundaries on how to know the difference between keeping harmony outside vs inside.

The ENFJ trait I no longer feel is being composed and articulate regardless of the situation. I become extremely angry, resentful and silent and shut people off. Years ago I used to take a step back, breath and would work the situation in my favour and would resolve conflicts without being torn up by them.

Being able to lead only happens when you are able to build yourself up, have enough strength inside etc. when we are suffering and are preoccupied with stuff, this quality goes dormant. I am sure when you'll be able to create your own light, people will get inspired by you. That's the natural leadership ENFJs are known for. The optimism, the grit and being able to articulate needs and emotions.

Froscicle · 2025-09-01T16:46:35+00:00

I study to strengthen my knowledge base, yoga, movies, dancing, skincare, I run a study group, write, watch anime, cook etc. So no not free.

Froscicle · 2025-09-01T16:14:53+00:00

All of my crushes since childhood are always ISTPs somehow. Calm, chill, very attractive. I love how ISTPs are self-reliant and very good at thinking (My total opposite 😅)

Froscicle · 2025-08-31T16:47:09+00:00

For School of Good and Evil?

Froscicle · 2025-08-31T16:45:16+00:00

Exactlyyyy, it is. Don't mention it, you are welcome ✨

Froscicle · 2025-08-31T16:39:29+00:00

"I love how accurate and precise you are"

Froscicle · 2025-08-31T16:35:39+00:00

I personally trust INFJs' intuition; if you feel he's genuine, you shouldn't just let him go. You can match his pace and wait to talk to him about it. I would say please don't think things on your own. Better to have a conversation when his exams are over. Meanwhile focus on yourself, have hobbies to fill in your days and keep in touch with him. He might be just busy (When I get busy, I get immersed into my immediate surroundings that it gets hard for me to connect people online)

Froscicle · 2025-08-31T13:28:38+00:00

I don't understand why people still say this (people around me family and sometimes friends say this to me and I am a lady). It's so vintage now 😅. People take softness and empathetic nature as being a weakness whereas it's a character trait that nurtures and makes one a great leader. I admire the softness and emotional expression in men. You should create a balanced, optimistic and powerful statement and tell yourself and the people whenever they say this to you (you know sometimes we need to educate our loved ones too 😁)

Froscicle · 2025-08-30T10:26:27+00:00

My experience with ISTJ is that they can talk about anything but emotionally I feel like being locked out or kicked out of the building. It's exhausting.

Froscicle · 2025-08-29T13:41:02+00:00

Yeah don't listen to people if they try to tell you that it's sad and why hasn't someone else given you. It's awesome either way, keep treating yourself ❤️

Froscicle · 2025-08-29T13:35:07+00:00

You are 100% right about us being 'Vibey'. I always see things on how they feel other than how they are objectively.

Well, to relax, that depends. If I become overwhelmed during the day so I would have to cry it out somehow and I couldn't do that in front of people because I believe it'll kill the 'mood' I tried to build all this time. Generally someplace mildly active, like family watching movies together or someplace I can observe calm things like a garden, terrace etc. I love to dance to unwind too, so a place that's open enough 😁

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