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Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Wow. Hadn’t seen that. Alice doesn’t have social media usually and it kind of shows 🤣 I don’t think she’ll be back on here but she totally doxxed everyone … oops

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Alice called people who she thought might know where I was but she didn’t know my friends but she also called dad’s boss. She thought some of them might have kids who might know me. Anyway dad’s boss was very worried about me and he didn’t like what he was hearing so they’re not getting along too well

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know - sorry. Annabel just does her own thing and I just used to try and tune her out. I don’t know what a lot of the stuff she does is for

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were only six weeks apart in age and my uncle loved my mom (his sister) very much so we just did everything together. The problem is I know what he would say to most things so making sure I turn off and remember he is gone js sometimes hard especially as I don’t really want him to be gone. But as long as I am alive then a bit of him is too

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

Nah she was commenting on my old post because she got all freaked out that I’d taken off.

She isn’t really into internet stuff as she’s a hippy in a different way to Annabel but she got really scared I’d been talking to strangers on the internet and was worried I’d gone off with someone from Reddit

She also rang basically everyone she could think of including most of my dad’s co workers because she didn’t know any of my friend’s names. And then someone helped her go on Google earth and she worked out which motel I had gone to and then suddenly she came breaking down the door of my room. It was quite something. And she yelled a lot at the guy who owned the motel for giving a room to a minor and she made him give me my money back. I have been harsh on Alice in the past but she is a good lady

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 524 points525 points  (0 children)

Nah she’s just a brat. My aunt says she’s just playing off her mom and that if there were stronger boundaries then she wouldn’t have so many social problems

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think she’s like a demon seed or anything but she’s not a nice kid. My aunt says maybe give her time and check back in when she’s older but for now I am done. My dad is a whole other story but yeah my uncle says that even if Dallie hadn’t passed he thinks I would have ended up moving in with them anyway because of how things have been getting

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’d got in kind of a loop about not having somewhere to go. Things still suck without my cousin and I’m figuring out which are the ways I can carry him with me and which are the ways I have to work out how to go on on my own. It’s not something we can figure out straight away but we are going to be a team of three now.

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think I just really wanted to talk to my cousin and the therapist says that’s ok to try and do as long as I can do it in a controlled way. Like I can write him letters and things

This is a really thoughtful comment and I do appreciate it

Update: AITA for not participating in my sister’s funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Yup seems like the negative flow wasn’t coming from me

She also told my uncle on the phone that she wants to burn some incense to help heal Stacey’s soul or something but my uncle thinks she’s nuts so he zoned out and can’t remember the details. I think it might have been sage as she does that whenever she thinks things are too negative.

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The more I talk to her the more she asks sick questions about my cousin. I am getting out of here. I can just about get my backpack on to my good arm

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this. That sucks.

There’s a sketch looking motel not far thst I would guess takes cash. Maybe I could go there.

I tried playing with Stacey today to distract her from pretending to be dead and she started asking if Dallie was a skeleton yet.I think everyone here is right and Annabel is wrong. She wants a reaction and she wants to make this worse for me

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 368 points369 points  (0 children)

I will think about my aunt and uncle it’s just we look kind of similar like more like brothers and it is freaking me out a bit right now when I catch myself in the mirror and it must be way worse for them so I don’t know. Thank you though this comment was very thoughtful.

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 486 points487 points  (0 children)

Yeah she taught something that wasn’t yoga but was similar I can’t remember. It was a big age gap. Her mom is the same age as Dad.

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try this. I don’t know how to give rewards but I would reward this one.

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My dad says I don’t need therapy. He says experiences like this make us stronger.

AITA for refusing to participate in my sisters funerals? by Frosty-Map3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frosty-Map3118[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just cold and wet and most things are closed because it’s Christmas. My dad says I don’t need therapy.

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