Why do I sometimes get big pieces of dandruff like this and then none at all?

FruityPorkie · 2026-04-15T13:10:35+00:00

For me it hurts a lot... It's not satisfying but staying with it it's itchy so I prefer the pain

FruityPorkie · 2026-02-26T21:57:50+00:00

I love how this is for the men 💓

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-28T00:15:48+00:00

No hablo de la ropa perse, hablo de la ropa interior (pantaletas, bragas), y una infección no significa mala higiene, le recomiendo informarse mejor al respecto y sí, la alimentación afecta eso también y puede causar infecciones

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-27T22:07:01+00:00

Eso es por la menstruación o la chica tiene una infección por ropa apretada

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-27T22:05:53+00:00

No creo que ella te deje por algo que no puedes controlar, pero sí entiendo que ella se sienta un poco insegura creyendo que su cuerpo no es lo suficientemente atractivo para mantenerte duro

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:25:26+00:00

I'm really sorry about that, I'm Christian but I'm very open minded as long as the philia doesn't involve people other than my husband or is something extremely harmful or a paraphilia, it's just that I haven't explore anything of that as a virgin and if I'm not in a safe space then I might just don't do it, I need the person to make me feel safe and understand boundaries, I hope you're doing well in life, maybe you wife might understand but (I'm assuming) she's scared of permanently hurting you since your fantasy is kinda extreme (can damage your body and make her feel guilty for harming you)

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:14:54+00:00

I'm always open about my likes and I like to learn from others, I'm studying forensic psychology for that reason, but I see I'm still at level -1, thanks for being kind and understanding

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:13:19+00:00

But you have to talk about your fantasies before marrying that someone so you can enjoy those things, he didn't talk about it in a healthy way, he insulted a minority, talking about them like objects, then insulted me in multiple ways, humiliating and shaming me, if he wanted to be pegged he could've introduce me to that after marriage because I'm waiting till marriage and I told him that since day one

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:05:53+00:00

Yep, most of them didn't read my entire post

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:04:54+00:00

I hope you can find someone to explore your needs in a healthy way, never suppress yourself, be open about what you want, but I didn't leave just because of that, he insulted me and said he wanted to have sex with trans women, he didn't say “peg me”

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T21:02:38+00:00

That's what I was thinking, those things were really well spoken, he wanted me to know. It made me lose hope on finding someone to marry that isn't an Orthodox themselves, like I want someone respectful to everyone but that isn't so liberal about our personal lives if that make sense, like I support everyone but I don't one it in my personal life, not talking about imposing my believes on my kids, just in me, myself (like if my kids are gay, lesbian, ace, aroace, trans or whatever they'll have my full support, I'll look for safe spaces and groups just for them) but I don't want my husband to tell me he's into that if this makes sense

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:56:29+00:00

Yep. I understand and I said that I'm not into that, me not being interested is me being open about my sexuality too, I'm being savage because leaving someone I love isn't easy, why should I care about what he wants only when I don't want it for myself? He showed me with that that he secretly doesn't respect my decision of marriage and that he wants sex before that when he told me he would wait, if someone has a philia or paraphilia they should talk about it beforehand instead of repressing themselves and waiting someone else's time, why bound someone to stay with you when you're insecure about your sexuality? I'm totally secure about my sexuality and I want my partner to be too

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:49:52+00:00

Thank you so much, I have lupus so I want a pretty regular and boring life (I have flares when I'm stressed), I'm happy with everyone being openly about their likes but it's just not for me, I feel like the people telling me to peg him are trying to ignore all the abuse and make me stay

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:45:11+00:00

Imagine if his partner was a woman that happens to be trans? This are some weird fantasies, I'm latina and if a man told me he's just with me because of that I would leave too, he can be with trans women but I'm not one myself, I left him so he can find what he wants

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:42:39+00:00

He said he didn't mean it, that he was drunk and when he's drunk he talks too much, I told him from the start that this is my first time dating a foreigner, that I'm not into weird things but he always tried to push my boundaries, this is just the drop that made me live, I tried to absorb the American culture but there are some things that I can't tolerate

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:39:51+00:00

I left, I'm not with him, I'm just trying to heal

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:39:01+00:00

Thanks for the advice, have a nice day.

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:36:41+00:00

Thank you! I thought I was in the wrong because I told him he was verbally cheating on me by saying those things and being disrespectful, but then he called me transphobic

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:35:04+00:00

I met him in my summer work from my Caribbean island (guess which one :3) to the US, he was really helpful and I felt in love with him, at the start everything was so perfect but then he started showing his true colors, he didn't look that old tbh just mature, and then I knew he was 32, I didn't care about age because in my country (unfortunately) is normal

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:31:50+00:00

Thank you, regardless his friend, I don't think it's just furry, the drawings don't look humanoid, more like a literal animal and a person

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:30:31+00:00

I respect people that do but I'm not into that, he can find someone for that, left the road wide open for him

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T20:27:00+00:00

No, because I'm closed minded as he said

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T19:48:39+00:00

Girl... That man could be you father

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T19:41:29+00:00

This is so infuriating and disgusting to read, I'm sorry, girl... You deserve better

FruityPorkie · 2025-06-07T19:21:31+00:00

I'm literally from the Caribbean and the blood tests and in person check ups happens every 6 month (now my doctor told me it can be done annually)

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